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Its time to recognize this pattern & to start believing survivors, no matter who the abuser is. Its time to listen to their stories, to validate their experiences & to support them in their healing journey. It's time to hold abusers accountable, regardless of their status, position or relationships.

This kind of response is not only damaging to the survivor, but it's also a powerful tool for the abuser. It allows them to maintain control and silence their victim, while also discrediting them in the eyes of others. It's a toxic cycle that perpetuates abuse and silences survivors.

making them feel like they're the ones who are wrong.

But the truth is, abusers are often hiding in plain sight. They're the charming, charismatic people who are loved and respected by their friends and family. They're the ones who know exactly how to manipulate and control their victims, and they're experts at gaslighting and

The abuser is often portrayed as a "good guy" who would never do such a thing, and the survivor is left to wonder if she's the one who's crazy.

This phenomenon is often referred to as "himpathy," where the perpetrator is given undue sympathy and the survivor is left to face skepticism and blame. It's a powerful example of how societal norms and expectations can silence survivors and protect abusers.

And love.

Yall ask women to expose their abusers but when it turns out to be your friend, boyfriend, or family member suddenly she's lying. Its a cruel irony that the very people who claim to support survivors often turn out to be the first ones to doubt and discredit them when the abuser is someone they know

And naming it for what it is matters. Because silence protects abusers. But truth restores dignity to those who were hurt when they needed care the most.

“Andy Burg”
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It speaks only to the moral failure of the person who chose cruelty when compassion was required. To harm someone at their lowest point is not just abusive—it’s a violation of basic humanity.

And often, the abuser will later claim ignorance. “I didn’t know it was that bad.” “I was going through things too.” But trauma is not an excuse to traumatize others—especially not those who were already bleeding.

What happened says nothing about the victim’s worth, intelligence, or strength.

Someone who didn’t provoke, manipulate, or attack. Someone whose only “fault” was being open, trusting, or too exhausted to fight back. That kind of abuse rewires a person. It teaches them that safety is an illusion, that kindness is dangerous, that vulnerability invites punishment.

Targeting someone in that state isn’t strength—it’s predation. It’s choosing power over empathy, dominance over decency.

There is something especially dark about harming someone who never intended you harm.

What makes it even more disturbing is the imbalance. A person in trauma is not on equal footing. Their nervous system is already overwhelmed. Their defenses are down.Their capacity to protect themselves is compromised.

and decide that is the moment to apply pressure, control, humiliation, or harm—reveals something seriously broken in the abuser. That isn’t a loss of temper. That isn’t a misunderstanding. That is a conscious choice to compound pain.

It shows a willingness to exploit vulnerability rather than protect it. To look at someone who is already hurting, already fractured, already doing their best to survive—

Abusing someone who was never malicious to you—especially while they were already drowning in the hardest trauma of their life—isn’t just cruel. It’s profoundly sadistic and deeply disturbing.

Stop telling women to STFU when they’re brave enough to share how they survived an abusive man! That is NOT drama. It’s not tea. She is NOT the problem .. he is. Let her share whenever and however she’d like for as long as she wants. There is healing and awareness for others in that!

Been with my husband 10yrs.... was with the ex 9yrs(live-in bf of ours we were with for about 2yrs) ... never have i acted the way i did then due to the abuse i was dealing with from them both..... wild how that works, right? lol

YouTube video by Banshee - Topic DEATH OF A PREDATOR

music.youtube.com/watch?v=AGxX...

And they block you and ignore you so they don't have to be held accountable or apologize for their heinous actions lmao doesn't change the fact you're STILL an abuser. Doesn't matter if it was last week or a decade ago... you STILL did and said what you did, that doesn't change facts or witnesses.