NonMono

Second, an out queer is a political statement. Queers take control of their lives. They buck the system. They show that the system is not required nor viable. Which is the “sanctity of marriage”. Keeping women oppressed. We must also keep queers repressed to keep men in power. Also queers vote left

Went to a party where I hardly even knew the host.

And yet, because he’s gathered such an interesting and mixed group of people around him, it became an incredible interesting and easy evening.

I have had conversations about DP, polyamory, playparties, Putin, anthropology and the countryside.

Another day, another slut loving tag. 😍

A sign saying «Books - No books» with two arrows pointing in opposite directions

Do you go left or right?

Screenshot from the app for the Oura ring showing sex-fell asleep-woke up-sex

Overnight dates with @cheapslut.bsky.social be like:

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Spent my Saturday with Husband writing our unmarried vows.

We’ve agreed to unmarry each other in the ruins of an old church on our 25th anniversary.

We are still together.
We still love each other though.
We just won’t be married in our minds.

a man in a pink shirt is standing in front of a wall with foam coming out of his mouth and head . ALT: a man in a pink shirt is standing in front of a wall with foam coming out of his mouth and head .

Polyam be like:

Yesterday, Boyfriend sent me an “I love you” snap. And within minutes I got an “I love you” text from Husband who was away.

#polyamory #enm

Counting on it.

“She Came to Stay” by Simone de Beauvoir

Hope you’re out of the bathtub by now. Hugs from internet stranger.

The book “More than two” on a lap with the sun shining on legs and decking

Summer isn’t over yet!

«I heart sluts» tagged at the back of a road sign.

Another one spotted, in a different part of town.

Sir/madam - I salute you for your relentless slut loving.

Oslo, with the Opera and Munch museum, seen from a roof terrace

Oslo in September can be quite alright.

Currently enjoying a beer in the sun on a roof top terrace, waiting for my Boyfriend to come and attend to me in our AirBnb.

Not being able to host sometimes, and sometimes you get this view instead.

Two buildings in Nice

I love the colours and the style of Nice.

I ordered it through an online Norwegian bookstore (Adlibris - www.adlibris.com/nb/bok/more-...)

I could have used any number of other online Norwegian bookstores, I just happened to have a voucher at this one.

A hand holding the newest edition of the book «More Than Two»

Oh, look what turned up in my mail here in Norway today, @andreazanin.bsky.social and @everickert.bsky.social

Shush about “late summer”. It’s still July.

I used to do the same.

I also used to read while walking to work.

These days, sadly, the device in my hands right now is what get most of my attention.

You can do both. Non-monogamy exists.

That same survey found that a majority of men (64%) and women (57%) in America say monogamy is outdated, unrealistic, or undesirable – while only 39% say that monogamy is “the only type of relationship I’d consider.”

📊 New survey data:

7% of Americans say they're currently in open relationships – including 15% of Gen Z!

Source: online survey of 7,100 US adults conducted by @wearehims.bsky.social : www.hims.com/news/america...

Rainbow in the sky

Funny. I’m a bisexual woman slightly older than my blue eyed, red-headed bisexual husband. Maybe he was on to something?

No! It’s 30 degrees here, and I’m in Norway for crying out loud.

Let people fetch their own snacks. And while they are at it, could they bring me a pitcher of beer?

Today I’ll be like the parched earth, in dire need of hydration.

Legs stretched out onto a railing in the early summer evening sun

And the summer days go on like the legs

A tote with the words «Amazon sucks - support your local independent bookstore»

Had to take a picture when my friend turned up with this bag. 🥰

Oslo Pride
- a few snap shots

A left hand with nails painted in blue, green, yellow,orange and pink

A right hand with nails painted in blue, green, yellow,orange and pink

My nails are short, and I can’t paint them for the life of me, but at least I’m ready for the weekend.

A LoveHeart with the inscription «Dream Big»