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Pooky Knightsmith

@pookyh.bsky.social

Keynote speaker with a focus on mental health and special needs. Mostly to be found in the great outdoors when not on stage.

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Latest posts by pookyh.bsky.social on Bluesky

My latest video looks at understanding autistic communication, practical bridge-building tools, and transforming awkward moments into genuine connection

youtu.be/JX1x9ujIOqg

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23.09.2025 06:57 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1
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DOWNLOAD: Low-Demand Communication Toolkit

www.patreon.com/posts/downlo...

Perfect for anyone supporting PDA, anxiety, or trauma responses in education. The gentle scripts and practical strategies work because they preserve autonomy while achieving learning goals

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22.09.2025 06:25 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
6 Ways to Build Trust with Students Fast
YouTube video by Pooky Knightsmith: Neurodivergence & Mental Health 6 Ways to Build Trust with Students Fast

6 ways to build trust with new students
youtube.com/shorts/l4yHi...

18.09.2025 19:40 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
7 Quick Wins for EBSA: Morning Anxiety Join Pooky Knightsmith for 7 practical strategies to support children struggling with morning anxiety - no extra workload required.

Apologies to anyone who hit the "sold out" page on my (free) webinar earlier today

I've just upgraded my Zoom license and released more tickets. If you missed out before, you can grab a spot now.

www.eventbrite.com/e/7-quick-wi...

18.09.2025 11:39 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
The Double Empathy Problem: What Every Teacher Needs to Know
YouTube video by Pooky Knightsmith: Neurodivergence & Mental Health The Double Empathy Problem: What Every Teacher Needs to Know

๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฏ๐—น๐—ฒ ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ต๐˜† ๐—ฝ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ฏ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—บ

Breakdowns in autism & communication arenโ€™t one-way failures, theyโ€™re mutual misunderstandings.

So how do we make it work?

By creating more moments of authentic connection

youtu.be/cFKKZhaYFwg

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16.09.2025 05:57 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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New downloadable for you:

www.patreon.com/posts/downlo...

Useful? (If so, please share)

13.09.2025 08:20 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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SLIDES: Autistic Girls โ€“ Unmasking, Belonging & Believing | Pooky Knightsmith Get more from Pooky Knightsmith on Patreon

New slides & notes:

๐—”๐—จ๐—ง๐—œ๐—ฆ๐—ง๐—œ๐—– ๐—š๐—œ๐—ฅ๐—Ÿ๐—ฆ: ๐—จ๐—ป๐—บ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด, ๐—•๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ด๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด & ๐—•๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด

Fresh from a recent INSET session - practical, heart-led strategies

www.patreon.com/posts/134247...

Please use, feedback & share

(speaking enquiries - pooky@inourhands.com )

12.09.2025 09:54 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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We hope the new school year has started smoothly for you all.

It might be time to turn your attention to booking some exciting things for the year ahead?

Take a look at our website www.speakingofbooks.co.uk or email ellie@speakingofbooks.co.uk Weโ€™d love to hear from you

12.09.2025 07:28 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Building Trust with School Anxious Students

youtu.be/T41iv8x9sgo?...

Simple ideas that work - maybe watching this could be 5 minutes well spent in your next team meeting?

Please watch and share

09.09.2025 12:05 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Pookyโ€™s Weekly Round-Up: Issue 117 Challenging behaviour, co-regulation strategies, and salty shoes

My weekly email took an unscheduled detour but it's finally landed in your inboxes...

You can read it there or catch it here: open.substack.com/pub/pookykni...

Lots of free resources - please read & share

08.09.2025 06:32 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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๐—ก๐—ฒ๐˜„ ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ: ๐—ฆ๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ณ๐—ณ ๐—ฆ๐—ฐ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฝ๐˜๐˜€ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ฆ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—น ๐—”๐—ป๐˜…๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜๐˜†

What to say when students are overwhelmed, can't enter class, want to go home, or are withdrawn. Conversation starters that validate & support.

www.patreon.com/posts/downlo...

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07.09.2025 06:28 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Slides and resources from a popular session that looks beyond behaviour helping us to understand ands support our students

www.patreon.com/posts/130789...

Please feel free to use & share

(for bookings please enquire via ellie@speakingofbooks.co.uk )

05.09.2025 06:09 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
EBSA: Supporting Students Back to School After Long Absences
YouTube video by Pooky Knightsmith: Neurodivergence & Mental Health EBSA: Supporting Students Back to School After Long Absences

EBSA: Supporting Students Back to School After Long Absences

youtu.be/IadMV0SHXtU?...

New video - please watch and share

03.09.2025 11:45 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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DOWNLOAD: 10 Classroom Changes That Keep Pupils in School

These are simple ideas to prevent school anxiety / EBSA from a classroom PoV

www.patreon.com/posts/downlo...

Please use & share if helpful

31.08.2025 07:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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๐—ก๐—ฒ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ด๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ ๐—™๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—น๐˜† ๐—ฆ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—น๐˜€

These slides explore 6 principles to make your school more ND friendly - maybe food for thought for your upcoming INSET sessions or team meetings?

www.patreon.com/posts/slides...

Hopefully helpful, please share if so

29.08.2025 07:55 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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๐—ก๐—ฒ๐˜„ ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ: ๐—ฆ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜†-๐—™๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—น๐˜† ๐—›๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ ๐—ง๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—น๐—ธ๐—ถ๐˜ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ด๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐˜€

www.patreon.com/posts/downlo...

(Because your sensory needs matter just as much as your children's)

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19.08.2025 16:31 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Interviews can be overwhelming - especially for neurodivergent young people.

Iโ€™ve created a free, practical guide with 10 tips to help reduce anxiety, boost confidence, and support self-advocacy.

www.patreon.com/posts/downlo...

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05.08.2025 18:29 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Sheโ€™s Not Broken - Sheโ€™s Autistic: 6 Things You Need to Know
YouTube video by Pooky Knightsmith Mental Health Sheโ€™s Not Broken - Sheโ€™s Autistic: 6 Things You Need to Know

Autistic girls arenโ€™t broken. Theyโ€™re exhausted from trying to fit in.

Here are 6 things they often wish you knew.
youtube.com/shorts/wF4rJ...

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30.07.2025 06:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 6    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Supporting a grieving friend can feel awkward or overwhelming.

Iโ€™ve shared a gentle new resource with 10 simple truths that can really help, plus small, practical things you can do.

Find it here: www.patreon.com/posts/downlo...

If you like it, please share it.

24.07.2025 13:14 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
How to Say No (Even If Youโ€™re a People Pleaser)
YouTube video by Pooky Knightsmith Mental Health How to Say No (Even If Youโ€™re a People Pleaser)

How to say no (even if you're a people pleaser)

youtube.com/shorts/uMn9A...

60 seconds that may just save your sanity..

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23.07.2025 06:03 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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SLIDES: Parenting Teens | Pooky Knightsmith Get more from Pooky Knightsmith on Patreon

My latest slideset is full of ideas for parenting teens.

Feel free to use and share:
www.patreon.com/posts/slides...

enquiries via ellie@speakingofbooks.co.uk

22.07.2025 06:06 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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SLIDES: Parenting through the Prep/Primary Years | Pooky Knightsmith Get more from Pooky Knightsmith on Patreon

Brand new slides exploring parenting under 11s
www.patreon.com/posts/slides...

I loved developed and delivering this session, I hope you like it too

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Speaking enquiries - ellie@speakingofbooks.co.uk

17.07.2025 06:09 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Working with a struggling child? This matters more than being perfect...
YouTube video by Pooky Knightsmith Mental Health Working with a struggling child? This matters more than being perfect...

Working with a child whoโ€™s struggling and worrying youโ€™re getting it wrong?

These 6 things matter more than being perfect:

youtube.com/shorts/GxIkQ...

11.07.2025 05:45 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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DOWNLOAD: Prompts for Supporting Anxious Children | Pooky Knightsmith Get more from Pooky Knightsmith on Patreon

๐—ฃ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐˜๐˜€ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ฆ๐˜‚๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—”๐—ป๐˜…๐—ถ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜€ ๐—–๐—ต๐—ถ๐—น๐—ฑ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป

New resource to help you find helpful words when a child is struggling:
www.patreon.com/posts/downlo...

If you like it, please share it

10.07.2025 05:59 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Pookyโ€™s Weekly Round-Up: Issue 114 School-based anxiety, everyday inclusion, and windswept joy

My latest newsletter full of resources is out

pookyknightsmith.substack.com/p/pookys-wee...

Please read, subscribe and share... Thank you!

07.07.2025 10:24 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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๐—ก๐—ฒ๐˜„ ๐˜€๐—น๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐˜€: ๐—จ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—•๐—ฒ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฎ๐˜€ ๐—–๐—ผ๐—บ๐—บ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป

www.patreon.com/posts/slides...

Practical tools to help you look beyond behaviour and respond with compassion.

Free to use/share.

Bookings: ellie@speakingofbooks.co.uk

01.07.2025 19:48 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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DOWNLOAD: Reframing Behaviour | Pooky Knightsmith Get more from Pooky Knightsmith on Patreon

Simple resource to help reframe challenging behaviour
www.patreon.com/posts/downlo...

What if โ€œdefianceโ€ is anxiety?
โ€œNot listeningโ€ is overload?
โ€œRefusalโ€ is fear?

Designed for staffrooms & training chats - free to download

Thanks for being curious, not just reactive

Please share

27.06.2025 08:20 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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EBSA & Non-Attendance โ€“ What Schools Can Do

www.patreon.com/posts/slides...

Slides & resources

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(bookings via ellie@speakingofbooks.co.uk )

25.06.2025 06:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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DOWNLOAD: 10 Small Changes That Help Every Student Succeed | Pooky Knightsmith Get more from Pooky Knightsmith on Patreon

Small changes. Big impact.

This free resource shares 10 simple, high-impact tweaks that help every student succeed (especially neurodivergent learners).

www.patreon.com/posts/downlo...

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24.06.2025 05:28 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Sensory Safety in the Classroom Create a classroom where neurodivergent learners feel safe, supported, and able to thrive. This practical, strengths-based course shares 10 powerful changes that can make school feel calmer, more pred...

๐—ช๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ธ๐—ฒ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฐ๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—บ ๐—บ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜†-๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—น๐˜† ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ด๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ ๐˜€๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐˜€?

pooky-knightsmith-s-school.teachable.com/courses/0-st...

Iโ€™ve made this short, practical lesson (plus notes) free to access

Itโ€™s part of a bigger course, but this bit stands alone, no sign up, no fee

>>๐—ฃ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ<<

23.06.2025 07:09 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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