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Pooky Knightsmith

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Keynote speaker with a focus on mental health and special needs. Mostly to be found in the great outdoors when not on stage.

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When School Feels Impossible Practical strategies for parents and professionals supporting children who are struggling to attend school

** ๐—ก๐—ฒ๐˜„ ๐˜„๐—ฒ๐—ฏ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—ฟ ๐—ผ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ***

When School Feels Impossible

For anyone supporting a child who's struggling to get to school. Parents, teachers, anyone in between.

Wednesday 25th March, 7pm
www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/when-schoo...

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29.01.2026 16:18 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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PDA Communication: Staying Connected When Demands Are Necessary Practical strategies for communicating with demand avoidant children when life has non-negotiables. For parents and professionals.

I'm looking forward to seeing some of your at tonight's webinar about demand avoidance. There's still time to sign up...

See you there?

www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/pda-commun...

22.01.2026 06:17 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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PDA Communication: Staying Connected When Demands Are Necessary Practical strategies for communicating with demand avoidant children when life has non-negotiables. For parents and professionals.

My first paid webinar:

PDA Communication: Staying Connected When Demands Are Necessary

For parents and professionals who've tried all the usual advice and found it doesn't always work.

Thursday 22nd January, 7pm GMT
ยฃ20, recording included
www.eventbrite.com/e/pda-commun...

18.12.2025 18:43 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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DOWNLOAD: PDA Language Swaps | Pooky Knightsmith Get more from Pooky Knightsmith on Patreon

๐—ฃ๐——๐—” ๐—Ÿ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ด๐˜‚๐—ฎ๐—ด๐—ฒ ๐—ฆ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐˜€
If you support a child with a demand avoidant profile, you might find this weekโ€™s free downloadable resource helpful. Itโ€™s a simple phrase bank designed to make things a little easier in those everyday tricky moments.

www.patreon.com/posts/145334...

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11.12.2025 07:52 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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SLIDES: Parenting Autistic Children | Pooky Knightsmith Get more from Pooky Knightsmith on Patreon

I'm looking forward to delivering a webinar today for parents and carers of autistic children

We'll be exploring a gentle, neuroaffirmative approach to parenting.

Slides & notes are: www.patreon.com/posts/slides...

If you'd like something similar, get in touch: pooky@inourhands.com

19.11.2025 06:25 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Monotropism Explained: Why Autistic Attention Works Differently
YouTube video by Pooky Knightsmith: Neurodivergence & Mental Health Monotropism Explained: Why Autistic Attention Works Differently

๐— ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ฝ๐—ถ๐—ฐ ๐˜ƒ๐˜€ ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—น๐˜†๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ฝ๐—ถ๐—ฐ ๐—ฎ๐˜๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป: why 'just switch tasks for a second' isn't as simple as it sounds.

One minute that changes how you think about autistic attention ๐Ÿ‘‡ youtube.com/shorts/5Fsx_...

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18.11.2025 06:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 2    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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DOWNLOAD: Scripts That Help at the School Gate | Pooky Knightsmith Get more from Pooky Knightsmith on Patreon

The school gate can be the hardest moment of the day.

I've created a free resource with ready-to-use scripts for parents and school staff supporting children with morning anxiety.

Download free: www.patreon.com/posts/downlo...

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13.11.2025 08:12 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Supporting Recently Diagnosed Autistic Teens
YouTube video by Pooky Knightsmith: Neurodivergence & Mental Health Supporting Recently Diagnosed Autistic Teens

New Video: Supporting Recently Diagnosed Autistic Teens

youtu.be/AlokY5n-okQ?...

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03.11.2025 18:28 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 2    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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When we understand what makes a child feel safe, we can help them gradually widen that sense of security. Download this simple resource and supporting notes to explore safe people, places, and activities with anxious children.

www.patreon.com/posts/downlo...

Helfpul? Please share

29.10.2025 08:18 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 2    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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New resource:

๐—” ๐—ด๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—น๐—ฒ ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ณ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—น ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ฎ๐˜‚๐˜๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฐ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ผ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ถ๐—ฟ ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐˜๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ป๐˜€ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ณ-๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป. Not about whether you should unmask - about understanding yourself better.

www.patreon.com/posts/downlo...

Includes worksheet + supporting notes - please share

23.10.2025 06:44 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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VIDEO: Interoception - understanding & supporting | Pooky Knightsmith Get more from Pooky Knightsmith on Patreon

๐—ก๐—ฒ๐˜„ ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ผ: ๐—œ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐—ฝ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป
Our ability to sense what's happening inside our bodies. For many neurodivergent children (and adults), those internal signals don't come through clearly.

www.patreon.com/posts/video-...

Video and some supporting notes. I really hope it's helpful.

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21.10.2025 06:28 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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๐——๐—ผ๐˜„๐—ป๐—น๐—ผ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ: ๐—ง๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ธ๐˜† ๐— ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐˜€ ๐—ฃ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ป

A simple way to plan ahead for supporting overwhelm.

Fill it in together; what helps, what doesnโ€™t, and how to respond kindly when things get tricky.

PDF & Supporting notes: www.patreon.com/posts/downlo...

>> If you like it, please share it <<

15.10.2025 06:22 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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DOWNLOAD: The Sensory Audit Checklist for Teachers | Pooky Knightsmith Get more from Pooky Knightsmith on Patreon

Free audit checklist to help you identify and fix the sensory barriers to learning: www.patreon.com/posts/downlo...

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10.10.2025 05:20 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

My latest video looks at understanding autistic communication, practical bridge-building tools, and transforming awkward moments into genuine connection

youtu.be/JX1x9ujIOqg

Please give a watch and a share

23.09.2025 06:57 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1
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DOWNLOAD: Low-Demand Communication Toolkit

www.patreon.com/posts/downlo...

Perfect for anyone supporting PDA, anxiety, or trauma responses in education. The gentle scripts and practical strategies work because they preserve autonomy while achieving learning goals

If you like it, please share it

22.09.2025 06:25 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
6 Ways to Build Trust with Students Fast
YouTube video by Pooky Knightsmith: Neurodivergence & Mental Health 6 Ways to Build Trust with Students Fast

6 ways to build trust with new students
youtube.com/shorts/l4yHi...

18.09.2025 19:40 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
7 Quick Wins for EBSA: Morning Anxiety Join Pooky Knightsmith for 7 practical strategies to support children struggling with morning anxiety - no extra workload required.

Apologies to anyone who hit the "sold out" page on my (free) webinar earlier today

I've just upgraded my Zoom license and released more tickets. If you missed out before, you can grab a spot now.

www.eventbrite.com/e/7-quick-wi...

18.09.2025 11:39 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
The Double Empathy Problem: What Every Teacher Needs to Know
YouTube video by Pooky Knightsmith: Neurodivergence & Mental Health The Double Empathy Problem: What Every Teacher Needs to Know

๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฏ๐—น๐—ฒ ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ต๐˜† ๐—ฝ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ฏ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—บ

Breakdowns in autism & communication arenโ€™t one-way failures, theyโ€™re mutual misunderstandings.

So how do we make it work?

By creating more moments of authentic connection

youtu.be/cFKKZhaYFwg

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16.09.2025 05:57 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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New downloadable for you:

www.patreon.com/posts/downlo...

Useful? (If so, please share)

13.09.2025 08:20 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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SLIDES: Autistic Girls โ€“ Unmasking, Belonging & Believing | Pooky Knightsmith Get more from Pooky Knightsmith on Patreon

New slides & notes:

๐—”๐—จ๐—ง๐—œ๐—ฆ๐—ง๐—œ๐—– ๐—š๐—œ๐—ฅ๐—Ÿ๐—ฆ: ๐—จ๐—ป๐—บ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด, ๐—•๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ด๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด & ๐—•๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด

Fresh from a recent INSET session - practical, heart-led strategies

www.patreon.com/posts/134247...

Please use, feedback & share

(speaking enquiries - pooky@inourhands.com )

12.09.2025 09:54 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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We hope the new school year has started smoothly for you all.

It might be time to turn your attention to booking some exciting things for the year ahead?

Take a look at our website www.speakingofbooks.co.uk or email ellie@speakingofbooks.co.uk Weโ€™d love to hear from you

12.09.2025 07:28 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Building Trust with School Anxious Students

youtu.be/T41iv8x9sgo?...

Simple ideas that work - maybe watching this could be 5 minutes well spent in your next team meeting?

Please watch and share

09.09.2025 12:05 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Pookyโ€™s Weekly Round-Up: Issue 117 Challenging behaviour, co-regulation strategies, and salty shoes

My weekly email took an unscheduled detour but it's finally landed in your inboxes...

You can read it there or catch it here: open.substack.com/pub/pookykni...

Lots of free resources - please read & share

08.09.2025 06:32 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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๐—ก๐—ฒ๐˜„ ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ: ๐—ฆ๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ณ๐—ณ ๐—ฆ๐—ฐ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฝ๐˜๐˜€ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ฆ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—น ๐—”๐—ป๐˜…๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜๐˜†

What to say when students are overwhelmed, can't enter class, want to go home, or are withdrawn. Conversation starters that validate & support.

www.patreon.com/posts/downlo...

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07.09.2025 06:28 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Slides and resources from a popular session that looks beyond behaviour helping us to understand ands support our students

www.patreon.com/posts/130789...

Please feel free to use & share

(for bookings please enquire via ellie@speakingofbooks.co.uk )

05.09.2025 06:09 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
EBSA: Supporting Students Back to School After Long Absences
YouTube video by Pooky Knightsmith: Neurodivergence & Mental Health EBSA: Supporting Students Back to School After Long Absences

EBSA: Supporting Students Back to School After Long Absences

youtu.be/IadMV0SHXtU?...

New video - please watch and share

03.09.2025 11:45 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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DOWNLOAD: 10 Classroom Changes That Keep Pupils in School

These are simple ideas to prevent school anxiety / EBSA from a classroom PoV

www.patreon.com/posts/downlo...

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31.08.2025 07:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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๐—ก๐—ฒ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ด๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ ๐—™๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—น๐˜† ๐—ฆ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—น๐˜€

These slides explore 6 principles to make your school more ND friendly - maybe food for thought for your upcoming INSET sessions or team meetings?

www.patreon.com/posts/slides...

Hopefully helpful, please share if so

29.08.2025 07:55 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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๐—ก๐—ฒ๐˜„ ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ: ๐—ฆ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜†-๐—™๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—น๐˜† ๐—›๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ ๐—ง๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—น๐—ธ๐—ถ๐˜ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ด๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐˜€

www.patreon.com/posts/downlo...

(Because your sensory needs matter just as much as your children's)

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19.08.2025 16:31 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Interviews can be overwhelming - especially for neurodivergent young people.

Iโ€™ve created a free, practical guide with 10 tips to help reduce anxiety, boost confidence, and support self-advocacy.

www.patreon.com/posts/downlo...

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05.08.2025 18:29 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0