When School Feels Impossible
Practical strategies for parents and professionals supporting children who are struggling to attend school
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When School Feels Impossible
For anyone supporting a child who's struggling to get to school. Parents, teachers, anyone in between.
Wednesday 25th March, 7pm
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29.01.2026 16:18 โ
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PDA Communication: Staying Connected When Demands Are Necessary
Practical strategies for communicating with demand avoidant children when life has non-negotiables. For parents and professionals.
My first paid webinar:
PDA Communication: Staying Connected When Demands Are Necessary
For parents and professionals who've tried all the usual advice and found it doesn't always work.
Thursday 22nd January, 7pm GMT
ยฃ20, recording included
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18.12.2025 18:43 โ
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DOWNLOAD: PDA Language Swaps | Pooky Knightsmith
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If you support a child with a demand avoidant profile, you might find this weekโs free downloadable resource helpful. Itโs a simple phrase bank designed to make things a little easier in those everyday tricky moments.
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11.12.2025 07:52 โ
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SLIDES: Parenting Autistic Children | Pooky Knightsmith
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I'm looking forward to delivering a webinar today for parents and carers of autistic children
We'll be exploring a gentle, neuroaffirmative approach to parenting.
Slides & notes are: www.patreon.com/posts/slides...
If you'd like something similar, get in touch: pooky@inourhands.com
19.11.2025 06:25 โ
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YouTube video by Pooky Knightsmith: Neurodivergence & Mental Health
Monotropism Explained: Why Autistic Attention Works Differently
๐ ๐ผ๐ป๐ผ๐๐ฟ๐ผ๐ฝ๐ถ๐ฐ ๐๐ ๐ฝ๐ผ๐น๐๐๐ฟ๐ผ๐ฝ๐ถ๐ฐ ๐ฎ๐๐๐ฒ๐ป๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป: why 'just switch tasks for a second' isn't as simple as it sounds.
One minute that changes how you think about autistic attention ๐ youtube.com/shorts/5Fsx_...
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18.11.2025 06:36 โ
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DOWNLOAD: Scripts That Help at the School Gate | Pooky Knightsmith
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The school gate can be the hardest moment of the day.
I've created a free resource with ready-to-use scripts for parents and school staff supporting children with morning anxiety.
Download free: www.patreon.com/posts/downlo...
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13.11.2025 08:12 โ
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YouTube video by Pooky Knightsmith: Neurodivergence & Mental Health
Supporting Recently Diagnosed Autistic Teens
New Video: Supporting Recently Diagnosed Autistic Teens
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03.11.2025 18:28 โ
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When we understand what makes a child feel safe, we can help them gradually widen that sense of security. Download this simple resource and supporting notes to explore safe people, places, and activities with anxious children.
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Helfpul? Please share
29.10.2025 08:18 โ
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New resource:
๐ ๐ด๐ฒ๐ป๐๐น๐ฒ ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ณ๐น๐ฒ๐ฐ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป ๐๐ผ๐ผ๐น ๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ ๐ฎ๐๐๐ถ๐๐๐ถ๐ฐ ๐๐ผ๐๐ป๐ด ๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ผ๐ฝ๐น๐ฒ ๐๐ผ ๐๐ป๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐๐๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ถ๐ฟ ๐บ๐ฎ๐๐ธ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ฝ๐ฎ๐๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ป๐ ๐๐ถ๐๐ต ๐๐ฒ๐น๐ณ-๐ฐ๐ผ๐บ๐ฝ๐ฎ๐๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป. Not about whether you should unmask - about understanding yourself better.
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Includes worksheet + supporting notes - please share
23.10.2025 06:44 โ
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VIDEO: Interoception - understanding & supporting | Pooky Knightsmith
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๐ก๐ฒ๐ ๐๐ถ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ผ: ๐๐ป๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ผ๐ฐ๐ฒ๐ฝ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป
Our ability to sense what's happening inside our bodies. For many neurodivergent children (and adults), those internal signals don't come through clearly.
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Video and some supporting notes. I really hope it's helpful.
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21.10.2025 06:28 โ
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๐๐ผ๐๐ป๐น๐ผ๐ฎ๐ฑ: ๐ง๐ฟ๐ถ๐ฐ๐ธ๐ ๐ ๐ผ๐บ๐ฒ๐ป๐๐ ๐ฃ๐น๐ฎ๐ป
A simple way to plan ahead for supporting overwhelm.
Fill it in together; what helps, what doesnโt, and how to respond kindly when things get tricky.
PDF & Supporting notes: www.patreon.com/posts/downlo...
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15.10.2025 06:22 โ
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DOWNLOAD: The Sensory Audit Checklist for Teachers | Pooky Knightsmith
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Free audit checklist to help you identify and fix the sensory barriers to learning: www.patreon.com/posts/downlo...
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10.10.2025 05:20 โ
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My latest video looks at understanding autistic communication, practical bridge-building tools, and transforming awkward moments into genuine connection
youtu.be/JX1x9ujIOqg
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23.09.2025 06:57 โ
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DOWNLOAD: Low-Demand Communication Toolkit
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Perfect for anyone supporting PDA, anxiety, or trauma responses in education. The gentle scripts and practical strategies work because they preserve autonomy while achieving learning goals
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22.09.2025 06:25 โ
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YouTube video by Pooky Knightsmith: Neurodivergence & Mental Health
6 Ways to Build Trust with Students Fast
6 ways to build trust with new students
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18.09.2025 19:40 โ
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7 Quick Wins for EBSA: Morning Anxiety
Join Pooky Knightsmith for 7 practical strategies to support children struggling with morning anxiety - no extra workload required.
Apologies to anyone who hit the "sold out" page on my (free) webinar earlier today
I've just upgraded my Zoom license and released more tickets. If you missed out before, you can grab a spot now.
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18.09.2025 11:39 โ
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YouTube video by Pooky Knightsmith: Neurodivergence & Mental Health
The Double Empathy Problem: What Every Teacher Needs to Know
๐ง๐ต๐ฒ ๐ฑ๐ผ๐๐ฏ๐น๐ฒ ๐ฒ๐บ๐ฝ๐ฎ๐๐ต๐ ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ผ๐ฏ๐น๐ฒ๐บ
Breakdowns in autism & communication arenโt one-way failures, theyโre mutual misunderstandings.
So how do we make it work?
By creating more moments of authentic connection
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16.09.2025 05:57 โ
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New downloadable for you:
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13.09.2025 08:20 โ
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SLIDES: Autistic Girls โ Unmasking, Belonging & Believing | Pooky Knightsmith
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New slides & notes:
๐๐จ๐ง๐๐ฆ๐ง๐๐ ๐๐๐ฅ๐๐ฆ: ๐จ๐ป๐บ๐ฎ๐๐ธ๐ถ๐ป๐ด, ๐๐ฒ๐น๐ผ๐ป๐ด๐ถ๐ป๐ด & ๐๐ฒ๐น๐ถ๐ฒ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด
Fresh from a recent INSET session - practical, heart-led strategies
www.patreon.com/posts/134247...
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(speaking enquiries - pooky@inourhands.com )
12.09.2025 09:54 โ
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We hope the new school year has started smoothly for you all.
It might be time to turn your attention to booking some exciting things for the year ahead?
Take a look at our website www.speakingofbooks.co.uk or email ellie@speakingofbooks.co.uk Weโd love to hear from you
12.09.2025 07:28 โ
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Building Trust with School Anxious Students
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Simple ideas that work - maybe watching this could be 5 minutes well spent in your next team meeting?
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09.09.2025 12:05 โ
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Pookyโs Weekly Round-Up: Issue 117
Challenging behaviour, co-regulation strategies, and salty shoes
My weekly email took an unscheduled detour but it's finally landed in your inboxes...
You can read it there or catch it here: open.substack.com/pub/pookykni...
Lots of free resources - please read & share
08.09.2025 06:32 โ
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๐ก๐ฒ๐ ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ๐ฐ๐ฒ: ๐ฆ๐๐ฎ๐ณ๐ณ ๐ฆ๐ฐ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ฝ๐๐ ๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ ๐ฆ๐ฐ๐ต๐ผ๐ผ๐น ๐๐ป๐
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What to say when students are overwhelmed, can't enter class, want to go home, or are withdrawn. Conversation starters that validate & support.
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07.09.2025 06:28 โ
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Slides and resources from a popular session that looks beyond behaviour helping us to understand ands support our students
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Please feel free to use & share
(for bookings please enquire via ellie@speakingofbooks.co.uk )
05.09.2025 06:09 โ
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YouTube video by Pooky Knightsmith: Neurodivergence & Mental Health
EBSA: Supporting Students Back to School After Long Absences
EBSA: Supporting Students Back to School After Long Absences
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03.09.2025 11:45 โ
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DOWNLOAD: 10 Classroom Changes That Keep Pupils in School
These are simple ideas to prevent school anxiety / EBSA from a classroom PoV
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31.08.2025 07:01 โ
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๐ก๐ฒ๐๐ฟ๐ผ๐ฑ๐ถ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ด๐ฒ๐ป๐ ๐๐ฟ๐ถ๐ฒ๐ป๐ฑ๐น๐ ๐ฆ๐ฐ๐ต๐ผ๐ผ๐น๐
These slides explore 6 principles to make your school more ND friendly - maybe food for thought for your upcoming INSET sessions or team meetings?
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Hopefully helpful, please share if so
29.08.2025 07:55 โ
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๐ก๐ฒ๐ ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ๐ฐ๐ฒ: ๐ฆ๐ฒ๐ป๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐-๐๐ฟ๐ถ๐ฒ๐ป๐ฑ๐น๐ ๐๐ผ๐บ๐ฒ ๐ง๐ผ๐ผ๐น๐ธ๐ถ๐ ๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ ๐ป๐ฒ๐๐ฟ๐ผ๐ฑ๐ถ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ด๐ฒ๐ป๐ ๐ฝ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ป๐๐
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(Because your sensory needs matter just as much as your children's)
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19.08.2025 16:31 โ
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Interviews can be overwhelming - especially for neurodivergent young people.
Iโve created a free, practical guide with 10 tips to help reduce anxiety, boost confidence, and support self-advocacy.
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05.08.2025 18:29 โ
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