As Ive always said: Gaylor is the world's biggest group project. Its too big for any of us to hope to solve it independently. Ensuring we AREN'T on our own (kid) through some of the toughest times we've ever lived through seems to be half the point.
WE'RE New Romantics now, too
05.03.2026 01:20 —
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None of us are in Taylor's brain, we're all operating in theoretical space, & even if someone wasn't a romantic muse doesnt mean they werent a muse in another sense.
My approach to theorycrafting has always been not to find one true theory but instead to see: what if all the theories could be true?
05.03.2026 01:20 —
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Muses don't have to be romantic. Friends, family, mentors, inspirations, fans, colleagues & more.
Sometimes 2 artists dated. Sometimes they used their art to have conversations about norms and taboos of the day. Sometimes they have a ghost story contest with their pals & Frankenstein's born.
05.03.2026 01:20 —
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Whilst I don't do much muse analysis bc I focus primarily on Taylor as her Own Muse, I also think many things can be true at the same time.
The artist, muse, and audience are all important. Without all 3 no art happens. But the narrator isn't reliable. Which means we can never get it right, 100%
05.03.2026 01:20 —
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Sadly? Tiktok. Boomers clown on Gen Alphas for using TikTok as a search engine but it finds me what I'm looking for more often than most others.
05.03.2026 01:08 —
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All of us are making shit up. All the time. Cool, queer-lens, big brain, learning-about-queer-history-but-also-types-of-cacti-&-Greek-gods, NR, pattern recognition, neurodiverse, collective, researched, endlessly inspiring, incredibly diverse shit. But we’re making shit up nonetheless. All of us.
04.03.2026 23:21 —
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When I first started dealing with it and didnt know how to manage, my temperature intolerance was insane. I'd hot flash, sweat myself and my bed wet, then when it went away I was shivering unable to get warm. My ARFID progress reset so I could eat like 10 things... such a mess
05.03.2026 01:05 —
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I wish that the discussion about muse vs museless could just be kinder. Not everyone agrees and thats fine. None of us know anything for fact. But harsh things are said that put down the people who do make muse focused content. Why do we need to do that? Can't we just critique with nice words?
04.03.2026 20:57 —
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I’m so glad it helped but also yeah that would freak me out!!
05.03.2026 00:36 —
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SAME cause I also liked Bam Margera lmao
05.03.2026 00:35 —
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That’s Shane after top surgery lmao
05.03.2026 00:28 —
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Yes it’s really ridiculous how hard it is to get a doctor who knows anything. Our culture values fertility so much that most gyns prioritize fertility and knowledge about preserving it above all else. And that goes 100% counter to what perimenopausal patients need.
05.03.2026 00:27 —
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Holy shit, I'm so sorry they put you through that, you'd hope they would care about their kid more! That sounds like a super tense situation, so i hope you have some time to get that outta you, soon!
05.03.2026 00:19 —
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I can see it! Those Scandinavian genes!
05.03.2026 00:16 —
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Eosera's Ear Itch MD has been super helpful for that for me! It's got natural oils to moisturize the skin in an applicator that safely delivers it where it needs to be.
05.03.2026 00:08 —
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I was listening to HIM last night remembering my crush on Ville Valo
He looked like an L-Word cast member.
04.03.2026 23:59 —
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The really interesting thing is that the rehearsal footage didnt get uploaded til Julyish of 2022. For a 2014 performance. It was interesting to hold on for it that long and to release it when very little else was.
04.03.2026 23:40 —
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My shoulders and neck are so so weird. I can tell my period is coming when my neck and shoulders just fuck up.
04.03.2026 23:35 —
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Also... these rehearsals are usually to line up cameras to the choreo which is why this was recorded in the first place. Somewhere between rehearsal and live they went from having her lips in frame to having a side view. Possible lyrics to thwart lip readers or to make the pointing more obvious
04.03.2026 23:34 —
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We also can compare it directly against the rehearsal footage that got shared, where she DOESN’T say she which makes it a lot more clear
04.03.2026 23:24 —
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I think I'm stealing your periods cause mine are every 2-3 weeks. Blech.
04.03.2026 23:18 —
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Also the itchy ears and feet are perimenopause too. And brain fog. And dry eyes. And becoming more sensitive to polyester or to restrictive clothing. And new food sensitivities esp if you have MCAS. And Perimenopause starts earlier than you think (mid-late 30s) & can come sooner if youre stressed.
04.03.2026 23:17 —
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No one talks enough about the neck stiffness and spasms that hit during perimenopause due to fluctuating hormone levels
04.03.2026 22:02 —
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Whooooooa
04.03.2026 22:01 —
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I was SO MAD when JGL cut his hair... it makes sense now.
I wouldn't let myself realize I was gay so I just dated any guy who had long hair and a bubble butt & at the time I never understood why I was so turned off if they cut their hair.
Tho nowadays I do love women with short/no hair.
04.03.2026 18:54 —
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Hope this dude is right and we get a Noah Kahan x Taylor Swift collab
04.03.2026 18:19 —
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Pretty sure it’s a rose but idk if we have ever gotten a “good” look at it
04.03.2026 18:16 —
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Yes! I think AI is getting injected in EVERYTHING making it worse. It’s constantly entering letters from the other side of the keyboard, autocorrecting right words to wrong and otherwise making my life miserable. But my Android is basically as bad.
04.03.2026 18:11 —
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Jfc why is everything in the universe primed for Taylor lmao
04.03.2026 18:10 —
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Uhhhhg FILM not FAN
04.03.2026 17:59 —
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