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Thatโ€™s the one!

10.03.2025 18:12 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

The new guy on my team is about to learn why we all hate the boss.

10.03.2025 16:41 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Yseultโ€™s version of my way is such a good song to weep to.

10.03.2025 16:39 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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received flowers at the end of our date. thoughtful gifts and actions are always appreciated over here ๐Ÿ’•

02.02.2025 22:23 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 7    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Hereโ€™s what the wealthiest Californians donated toward the wildfires and hereโ€™s who has donated.

ChatGPT is bad for the environment, but in this case it made sense for the analysis I wanted to show.

14.01.2025 05:40 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I will be genuinely sad if they shut down TikTok.

10.01.2025 16:25 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Iโ€™m not saying Keenan Ivory Wayans and Rhyheim are the same person.

Iโ€™m just saying nobodyโ€™s seen them in the same room at the same time.

01.01.2025 23:54 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 31    ๐Ÿ” 7    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 3    ๐Ÿ“Œ 4
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I Miss You (feat. Teddy Pendergrass) by Harold Melvin & The Blue Notes on Appleย Music Song ยท 2007 ยท Duration 8:31

Truly one of my favorites

02.01.2025 00:31 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Good point!

29.12.2024 19:28 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Anyway, big reason I no longer host: I donโ€™t want to ruin my sheets for a man who only sees me as a nut. If youโ€™re my man, obviously no problem. If you care about me and we sleep together, no problem.

But itโ€™s a bit too much not really caring around the other person in a post-PREP world.

29.12.2024 09:22 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Iโ€™m not sure. And this isnโ€™t a fully formed thought but I feel like painting is mostly a thing with raw. Back in the condom days, I really canโ€™t recall that many instances of it happening.

Maybe the type that I sleep with is more of what changed?

29.12.2024 09:19 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Itโ€™s been nice to be in community with black men (gay and straight) who are focused on community and improving their family, friendship, and dating relationships.

Iโ€™ve had some really wonderful in person conversations this month that affirm the power of community โ€” and continued investment.

29.12.2024 00:17 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

And followwwwwwwww my leaddddddde and youllllllllll beeeeee

29.12.2024 00:12 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Thatโ€™s good to know about yourself. What sparks joy for you?

I only follow someone Iโ€™m not sure of if I know what to expect from their content. If itโ€™s just beauty, thatโ€™s often easier for me. I struggle when itโ€™s looks and questionable opinions. Then Iโ€™d rather not view myself as an endorser

29.12.2024 00:06 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

And I know some people are just creators and compel others to follow. I just donโ€™t like feeling like a blind follower. Sorta taking a different approach over here compared to Twitter and itโ€™s interesting to see

29.12.2024 00:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I hate feeling like a fan. When someone has an insane following to follow ratio, my instinct wonโ€™t allow me to follow now matter how fine they are.

I hate that about me. A bit.

28.12.2024 21:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I feel so meh. Let me take a bath in the hopes my troubles and tensions melt off.

28.12.2024 00:33 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I like Aldis hodge so thatโ€™s part of it. I definitely was bored last night and binged about 5 episodes. I think you should give it to episode 3 to decide if you stay or go

24.12.2024 15:10 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

2024 is the year I became a Panda Express person.

24.12.2024 07:58 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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holding space for your meat tonight

24.12.2024 04:43 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 47    ๐Ÿ” 3    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Cross has had some predictable plot points but itโ€™s still fun to watch

24.12.2024 06:35 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Every time I see yalls meats, I understand. I have bf peen. Yall are the men they say they going to see a man with a horse about.

24.12.2024 06:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I feel like I see more holes and poles on here than on the other
Platform. Not mad, just didnโ€™t expect that

24.12.2024 05:11 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Thank you! Do you like how they fit? I need to see where I can try on. My feet are very very wide

20.12.2024 23:15 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Oh I like these. I wonder whatโ€™s the brand / like? Hoping they have extra wide options

20.12.2024 14:15 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I couldnโ€™t be a housewife because I hold a grudge too much. No, I canโ€™t move on and make amends in under a week. I gotta take a few weeks

20.12.2024 03:12 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1

I donโ€™t have a blusky boyfriend yet.

Seeking: black male who provides me with endless praise, a gentle spirit, and a romanticism that one day weโ€™ll meet but probably never will. Must be 25 and up ๐Ÿฅฐ

19.12.2024 15:56 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I do expect to spend more time here after Jan 20. I know that other place will be insufferable but itโ€™s hard to fully pull away from where the engagement is.

The dopamine hits are what so many of us are chasing.

19.12.2024 15:51 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

My Fitbit might have been the best purchase of 2024. She really keeps me informed.

19.12.2024 15:50 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

The Wicked movie is was long, but I really wanted them to loop back to No One Mourns The Wicked after Defying Gravity. Because you donโ€™t realize how good the first song is until you rewatch / replay the soundtrack.

19.12.2024 15:48 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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