Brad Desmond

Do you feel guilty when you look away from the unpleasant things happening in the world right now?

“You don’t need to be famous. You don’t need to be flawless. You only need to show up — fully — for the life that is still yours.” - Patricia Routledge:

Beyond the red flags..don't miss the good stuff.

Ouch.!

"When I look at the world collectively I’m pessimistic, but when I meet with individuals I am optimistic."

- Carl Rogers.

Dear ABC.

The world just saw one of your employees verbally attacked by the world's most powerful man. Please check that he is okay. And don't just tick a box. Actually support him and reaffirm his job security.

The problem is our simplistic, black and white thinking. Two things can be true at once. Empathy AND compassion make better people.

'Don't hold back. The more unlived your life, the greater your death anxiety.'

- Irvin D. Yalom

‘Empathy’ is not a new age term.

Empathy comes from the Greek for emotional involvement. Empathy was found by humanistic therapists to be catalyst for growth and therapeutic change. Empathy makes better therapists, partners, parents, friends and leaders.

We need more empathy.

I never met a happy racist. Accepting diversity is a parallel process to self-acceptance. People either develop both, or neither.

How do we encourage people to grow out of racism?

The sound of gaslight.

That didn’t happen.
And if it did, it wasn’t that bad.
And if it was, that’s not a big deal.
And if it is, that’s not my fault.
And if it was, I didn’t mean it.
And if I did…
You deserved it.

With so much ugliness in the world, deliberate distraction is legitimate self-care.

“Denial can be healthy if it allows time for the individual to absorb harsh realities gradually.”

- George Vaillant.

'How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours.'

- Wayne Dyer.

A lot of gaslighting goes unnoticed. If you are suddenly side-tracked, confused or explaining yourself you’ve been gaslit.

It helps when I remember the universe is under no obligation to provide me with only good experiences.

I have clients who like to discuss their issues with AI in between sessions, and often they receive great insights and feedback. Then they can't wait to tell me about it thus showing, at the end of the day, we humans will always prefer humans.

If you want your partner to be submissive you aren’t ready for a grown-up relationship.

Family Violence will reduce significantly when IVO breaches are treated as indictable offences. Most people are surprised that police can issue warnings or fines, like traffic offences, even for repeated breaches.

Carl Jung said accepting the opposites within one’s ego is the path to growth. This includes taking ownership of one’s masculine and feminine sides. Unfortunately, ‘toxic masculinity’ blocks this process creating a generation of incels and angry man-babies.

Should parents be worried about the ‘manosphere’ and toxic masculinity?

"The lack of meaning in life is a soul sickness whose full extent and import our age has not yet begun to comprehend."

- Carl Jung.

The idea that doctors either lack, or deliberately withhold best practice treatment, and that self-appointed wellness influencers know better is comical, and dangerous.

And yet this is the basic premise of the wellness industry.

...you demand the special, secret tips described by the wellness industry. You want the premium advice doctors withhold from the general public. You even offer to pay more for this.

Now the doctor is looking at you, unable to tell if you're a weirdo or a plain idiot.

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🧵 Here’s a thought experiment.

You’ve been overdoing the food, booze, and couch scrolling. You feel tired and sluggish, and you decide to see the doctor.

But you tell the doctor you don’t just want the regular advice given to everyone. You demand...

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Beat the winter blues. During August (Southern Hem) daylight hours gradually increase leading to earlier/brighter mornings. If you position drapes etc to let in the morning sun you can increase serotonin and improve mood. -free!

In the Middle East they fight over history, chosen status, victim status, and religious hate.

Genocide is just people plus ideas. We are not so evolved.

Humans are the only animals that kill each other, not out of necessity, but over ‘ideas’.

The final solution was motivated by ideas of racism, right-wing nationalism and 'racial purity'.

The Cambodian ‘killing fields’ were motivated by left-wing nationalism and anti-intellectualism.

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MP convicted of sex crimes loses bid to stop parliament expulsion Convicted sex offender MP Gareth Ward has lost his bid for court orders to prevent his expulsion from NSW parliament.

This convicted sex offender fought to remain in parliament. What does it say about us that he thought he might win?
www.abc.net.au/news/2025-08...

This is insanity.