From Sis, With Love

Sorry siblings, I’ve been at the hospital for all this time, but I’m partly back.

Happy New Year and remember that this year we are not giving full time position in our lives to people who are only part time there.

From Sis, With love

Yes, Where do I sign?

It’s ok to feel blue, you can’t be a happy bubble everyday, there are certain times when you will need to recharge your energy.

Give yourself some grace too, treat yourself better than anyone else. Cherish yourself , you ARE unique.

From Sis, With Love

It’s Christmas, it isn’t time to fight, or be mad at people, learn to move on and avoid people who doesn’t respect your boundaries and be happy, I which peace, health and happiness to all of you.

Merry Christmas to all of you!

From Sis, With Love.

Dear siblings,

Remember that People don’t lie to you because the truth might hurt your feelings, they lie to you because the truth might provoke you to make choices that don’t serve their interests.

Learn to distance yourself from these kinds of people.

From Sis, With Love

Dear siblings:

“Ups and downs” are supposed to be uncontrollable things that LIFE puts you through, not purposeful things that your PARTNER puts you through. Life will make it harder if it has to be, there’s no need to make it harder with who’s supposed to be your peace.

From Sis, With love

Communication is always easy when you’re with someone who wants to be with you, their inconsistency is the key to let you know, you have to leave.

From Sis, with Love

Being too available for people who aren’t available for you, it’s a form of self disrespect.
Put your energy on who is corresponding you with the same energy.

#Selfrespect is a must and knowing your worth is the starting point.

From Sis, With Love

Always tell yourself the truth, I repeat, ALWAYS TELL YOURSELF THE TRUTH, if you lie to yourself the same way you’re laying to the rest, you’re up for a rude awakening when the truth will come to light…
And the truth,
WILL ALWAYS COME TO LIGHT

From Sis, with Love

Remember to do your nighttime skincare routine, pimples don’t know you’re tired and preventing them is always better than fighting it and the aftermath (hyperpigmentation, blemishes, etc)

Drink water up until 30 minutes before bed.

From Sis, with Love

Dear siblings,

In a couple, the partner deserves respect… But YOU deserve respect too, if your boundaries (which you’ve communicated) are crossed ONCE, don’t you stay and wait for them to be crossed a second time.
Know your worth and move on with dignity, therapy isn’t cheap.

From Sis, with Love

This is not an advice, just that when I am sad I eat a little rectangle and magical 🤣🤣I can never know what happened 🤣🤣

From Sis, with love

Hate and Love are two sides of the same coin.

I won’t tell you not to hate, but make sure you’re not projecting your feelings or being influenced by others.

It’s easy to say we “hate” someone because our friend does, each person’s experience is different. Forge yours.

From Sis, With love.

Good morning,

Remember to take your vitamins, drink water and smile, don’t hide your smile from others just because you don’t want them to think you’re crazy, “normal” people are the crazy ones, be happy and enjoy life.

From sis, with Love

Hey babies! I was on night shift at work and had little to no time left… that’s why I told you all to prioritize yourself, because the firms/enterprises/corporations won’t care about you or your health.

I am thankful for ALL of you, and I want you all to know that you are loved and appreciated.
whichever internal battle you are fighting, keep fighting, life is hard but it’s good, is going to hit you hard but it will also reward in other ways.

I’M PROUD OF YOU!

From sis, With love

To my siblings working or/and those about to work, don’t do extra hours for another person’s business! It’s not yours. Don’t kill yourself and sacrifice your quality time. One thing is for necessity otherwise forget about that. They’ll replace you in a blink, prioritize yourself.
From sis, with love

Remeber:

Things are what they are.
Problems have solutions.
Which is we should choose the path of least resistance.

Pain is inevitable.

Suffering is a choice.

Stay safe, be good to others and always remember that you are important, loved and appreciated.

From Sis, with love

Skincare tip of the day, sharing is caring:

I had a wedding, and 2 days before a massive unicorn appeared on my forehead… guess what?
I applied this bad boy 4 times a day for those 2 days and the morning of the wedding and that unicorn was long gone without leaving mark.

From Sis, with Love

Amen! And gives power to her support system, it’s not an easy situation.🙏🏾

Life takes away people who should not be in your life, changes your job where you were not happy, reunites you with people who are worth it and sincerely loves you.
You’ll go through bad things, and when you are in those, remember that something better will always come.
From Sis, with Love

Blood is not always thicker than water, sometimes you have to choose yourself and water down that blood. Don’t accept disrespect, don’t accept disrespect.
Boundaries are set to avoid being walked on like a doormat. You are worthy, lift your head, fix your crown, I love you.

From Sis, with love

It’s Tuesday… T of Tzone!
Wash your face, toner, then serum, moisturizer AND SUNSCREEN, skin cancer doesn’t care about skin color.

For my make up lovers, buy a sunscreen that’s also spray, as you have to reapply every 1-2hours.
It will also prevent hyperpigmentation.

From Sis, with love

For the ones feeling blue lately:
I know it feels lonely at times and sometimes you just want to lie down and cry, allow yourself to feel, let it all out, the world has made you think crying is a weakness and it isn’t. Talk to me. I’m Rooting for you, you’re not alone.
From Sis, with love

We all make mistakes, but we must also learn to be accountable. If we hurt someone we must learn to apologize and do it genuinely and consciously change the behavior. Remember: apology without change is a form of manipulation.

From Sis, with love

“The problem is you think you have time” I have to make time, it’s different.
And it is, my job doesn’t allow me to have it all, but I make time to have as much as possible.
I spend time with those I love, do what I enjoy and find the moment to enjoy being with myself.
My Advice.
From Sis, with love

Dear siblings, dating advice:

“THE WORDS MUST MATCH THE ACTIONS”

Believe ONLY in what you see, consistency is key, intentions too, write down what you would accept in a partner, the non-negotiable, and what you think you can offer.
Never lower your standards, it will come.

From sis, with love.

Spanish saying:
“La belleza física se vuelve obsoleta cuando no es concordante con la belleza del alma”
Siblings, value yourself, cherish yourself, fall in love with yourself. Then try the same for others. Physical appearance fades, the soul and character is what counts.

From Sis, with love

The intention shouldn’t be being perfect, it should be to create things with the intention of it being perfect.

Remember no one is perfect, but you can make the perfect things if you intend on it. Look at popcorn, the GPS, The SIM card.

Keep pushing, you’ve got this.

From Sis, with love

#believe

You DON’T have to be the strong 24/7, you know? it’s ok to be down (don’t stay there too much), it’s ok to cry, it’s ok to stay in bed, it’s ok to be lazy sometimes times.
Don’t become one of those people who function on stress hormones.
Breathe, you will make it, plan, write.

From Sis, with love