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Unapologetically trans. Apologetic about the rest. Non-binary trans femme (they/them)

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Thanksgiving can be every day if you practice gratitude!

23.11.2025 04:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Yeah, but there are better angles of attack.

22.11.2025 23:37 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 9    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Yeah, but that's just "bottom" and "left" without even considering the political compass meme.

22.11.2025 00:33 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

The worst thing Zohran could do in their eyes is win.

The notion that he's going to actually have to work with people and persuade those they hate instead of shun them outright is insulting to their purity.

21.11.2025 22:23 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 7    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Skeleton lifting weights, edited caption with inserted headlines reads:
Microsoft is a corporation that turns [Microsoft CEO claims 30% of its new code is written by AI] into [Microsoft finally admids almost all major Windows 11 core features are broken]

Skeleton lifting weights, edited caption with inserted headlines reads: Microsoft is a corporation that turns [Microsoft CEO claims 30% of its new code is written by AI] into [Microsoft finally admids almost all major Windows 11 core features are broken]

21.11.2025 18:44 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 244    ๐Ÿ” 120    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 2

Mamdani rolls for Persuasion: "Natural 20! ...My total is... 41. Let's goooooo!"

DM looking over the rims of their glasses, like their soul has left their body: "...Fucking Bards, I swear."

21.11.2025 21:34 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 169    ๐Ÿ” 51    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 4    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I think thereโ€™s some folks who legitimately have no way of getting or keeping a job.

That said, it sure does seem like MA requests are always in the form of egregious amounts of cash (โ€œI need $200 for my monthly phone billโ€) and not any other sort of assistance. That might be selection bias though.

20.11.2025 13:25 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

TdoR, TdoV, Trans Awareness Week, all kinda depressing, we should have a "Trans day of Incredible Sex" or smth, I'm just spitballing here

20.11.2025 10:08 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 174    ๐Ÿ” 30    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 7    ๐Ÿ“Œ 4
A screenshot from Celeste. Madeline stands by a memorial dedicated to those who perished on the climb up Celeste Mountain.

A screenshot from Celeste. Madeline stands by a memorial dedicated to those who perished on the climb up Celeste Mountain.

happy transgender day of remembrance

thank you for sticking around in the hardest of times. if you haven't, you are missed dearly

please live ๐Ÿ’œ

20.11.2025 10:57 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 10230    ๐Ÿ” 4423    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 5    ๐Ÿ“Œ 48

lol no.

The assumption that every trans person is socially stunted and starts to learn how to live only post-transition is hugely infantilizing to our whole community.

19.11.2025 15:57 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 10    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

It's not a foolproof plan but every political debate from now on should be a Normal Guy competition. Ask them to describe grocery shopping in detail. Talk about what it's like to have a friend

19.11.2025 02:13 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 8546    ๐Ÿ” 1607    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 110    ๐Ÿ“Œ 95

The best part is that the person in 2&3 very often *is* someone who wants and needs HRT, and just doesn't have access to it.

They're utterly miserable and manufacturing an exclusion when the "step 1" was meant to advocate for their needs!

18.11.2025 04:18 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Step 1 - someone says "trans folks who use/need HRT have different needs than trans folks who don't."
Step 2 - someone else decides that this is creating a "hierarchy" of "real and fake trans"
Step 3 - they decide that this is "transmedicalism."

18.11.2025 04:17 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

They are *going* to assume a gender based on appearance, and ain't no one gonna "they/them" everyone, and as established, asking pronouns in these circumstances is not realistic.

So what we have is a reality where *only* trans folks get a "they/them" which is a misgendering 95% of the time.

18.11.2025 02:58 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

What you're asking for is not realistic in any way.

Retail worker to another: "Hey, that customer looks lost, could you help..."

Retail worker shouts to customer: "Ey, you, what's your pronouns?"

Customer: "He/him"

Retail worker "...help him out?"

18.11.2025 02:56 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

โ€œSome of usโ€โ€ฆ like me?

Iโ€™d rather they just assume, tbh. Itโ€™s so much worse when they assume for every cis person and then make it clear that theyโ€™ve clocked us by asking pronouns only for trans folks.

Also, third person pronouns means youโ€™re talking about someone, not TO them. How would they ask?

17.11.2025 23:30 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Absolutely. By the same token, itโ€™s definitely nationwide. Iโ€™ll remind anyone whoโ€™ll listen that my home of Boston is one of the worst segregated cities in the nation!

17.11.2025 20:26 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

(And of the white folks disenfranchised, it's mostly college-age folks, who also vote to the left).

The South can be both horrifically racist and ALSO a majority population held hostage by an unpopular minority.

17.11.2025 19:18 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

It certainly would help, though?

When folks talk about "voter suppression," they're not talking about middle-aged liberal white folks being unable to vote.

It's Black and Hispanic voters being systematically disenfranchised, and fixing that sure could matter!

17.11.2025 19:16 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Dudes rock. Itโ€™s also been really rough seeing some folks with this knee jerk reaction against masculinity or T.

Yes Iโ€™m transfemme, but I still love the masculine parts of me.

No, babe, 0 is not a goal for T. The body needs some, stop thinking of it as poison.

17.11.2025 18:22 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 18    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Thatโ€™s an insult to Phyrexia.

17.11.2025 11:47 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Might just be a function of where one lives! Here in New England, the RH stays pretty high indoors in the summer by virtue of hot, humid air coming in and then being cooled.

17.11.2025 03:37 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

This isnโ€™t a โ€œmodern HVACโ€ problem. Itโ€™s just a matter of heating up cold fall/winter air to room temperatures.

Same issue with radiators from 100+ years ago.

Humidifiers are crucial for the winter!

17.11.2025 03:24 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

The fact of the matter is that if you wanted to prove hot point rather than being a contrarian, youโ€™d actually suggest something you prefer. But youโ€™re not doing anything being saying โ€œbah humbug.โ€

16.11.2025 04:41 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 3    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Splitting prizes is fine. Magic rules are EXTREMELY harsh on gambling or bribery because WotC is very cautious about that. So even โ€œletโ€™s flip a coinโ€ can be considered a DQ.

Intent doesnโ€™t much matter, they just wonโ€™t allow it, zero tolerance.

16.11.2025 00:21 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Bros, text your bros that you love them.

16.11.2025 00:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 48    ๐Ÿ” 8    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1
A mirror selfie of Ivy at work, green hair, thin-framed glasses and lipstick. Looking to the side, their body is at a 3/4 angle. Theyโ€™re wearing a gray shirt showing a necromancer raising a zombie that reads โ€œtis the season.โ€

A mirror selfie of Ivy at work, green hair, thin-framed glasses and lipstick. Looking to the side, their body is at a 3/4 angle. Theyโ€™re wearing a gray shirt showing a necromancer raising a zombie that reads โ€œtis the season.โ€

A screenshot of my FFXIV character Sinn Amonbunn, a gray-skinned female Roegadyn with similar hair to Ivy. She's holding up a tomestone as though taking a selfie. She is wearing a black leather jacket, dark dusty green pants, and has long red nails.

A screenshot of my FFXIV character Sinn Amonbunn, a gray-skinned female Roegadyn with similar hair to Ivy. She's holding up a tomestone as though taking a selfie. She is wearing a black leather jacket, dark dusty green pants, and has long red nails.

"It's so boring to make your character look like you" was such an egg thought.

Though in fairness, I made me look like my character.

02.05.2025 02:18 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 17    ๐Ÿ” 2    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

And to their faces!

14.11.2025 23:33 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 6    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I realize this is showing my age fully, but I'm getting RC Pro Am vibes (complimentary).

14.11.2025 14:29 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
November 14th: A Partially Muscled Skeleton Stands by the Perimeter Fence and Screams for Thirty Seconds Before Vanishing

November 14th: A Partially Muscled Skeleton Stands by the Perimeter Fence and Screams for Thirty Seconds Before Vanishing

happy Partially Muscled Skeleton Stands by the Perimeter Fence and Screams for Thirty Seconds Before Vanishing day

14.11.2025 06:39 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1773    ๐Ÿ” 859    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 11    ๐Ÿ“Œ 53

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