What turns me on?
When lovers are thoughtful in small ways, like remembering my coffee order or bringing fresh flowers
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What turns me on?
When lovers are thoughtful in small ways, like remembering my coffee order or bringing fresh flowers
Wanting can feel dangerous.
I wrote this poem during one of those low moments, when my protectors got loud.
Instead of giving into them, I just listened.
Our guard dogs always retreat though.
And when they do, I can't help but wonder what might take its place...
Depends on how you look at it...
it's not worth my time to write them anything more ๐
In the case of getting an email like the one above, they'll get a reply like this:
"We're not a good match. I don't see people who crassly email me.
Good luck on your search."
Guys from TER won't screen due to discretion, but then will send you this:
"Are you still sucking d*ck for a living ?
I ask because it has been over 2 years since you were reviewed on TER"
SMH
Do you love sushi and Japanese whisky?
If so, comment below what your favorite is ๐
Itโs that time of year again.
Sunlight lingers past dinner and the air feels a little flirtier.
Let's take advantage of warm days. Now's the time to take action on your summery urges. โ๏ธ
I'd love to fill the summer with al fresco dinners, rooftop drinks, or sunny walks.
leijlafoss.me
Looks like an amazing tour! Have you started the book yet?
26.06.2025 19:35 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0โI had a fascinating conversation with Leijla,โ says Bruce the adult site broker, host of the podcast and CEO of Adult Site Broker.
โShe is interesting, intelligent, and witty. This is one youโll all enjoy.โ
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Itโs a no-cost, deeply supportive way to shake off the funk of 2025. You can start working towards a brand that actually represents you. And attracts the clients and income you want.
Link to join the challenge: leijla-foss.eo.page/branding-cha...
Here's the info:
-$0 to join
- 5 days of guided branding exercises
- up to 30 minutes per day of work
- Telegram chat for accountability and support
- connect with other driven sex workers
- LIVE video Q&A with me on the last day
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*ATTN SW*
Are you looking at your business in 2025 and thinking:
โWait... this isnโt quite what I wantedโ
We've all been there. Scrolling aimlessly. Emails dry. You're questioning everything: rates, branding, photos, ad copywriting.
That's why I'm announcing: โญ 5-Day Branding Challenge โญ
Ugh, yes, those vibes for summer!
27.05.2025 21:21 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0What turns me on?
When lovers are thoughtful in small ways. Like remembering my coffee order, bringing fresh flowers, etc.
RT if you love sushi and Japanese whisky ๐
18.05.2025 22:23 โ ๐ 7 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Gorgeous photo!
16.05.2025 13:36 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Let's watch the sunrise together this weekend
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Ugh, I remember the food from Italy
It was *chefs kiss* ๐ค
What are you reading this week?
I'm reading a book called SPIN Selling, a recommendation from lover I met in Vegas
Almost anything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes, including you ๐
So if you're feeling stressed, you know where to find me.
www.leijlafoss.me
If you see I'm impersonal here, it's not because I'm shy.
It's because I save my full self for my admirers who see me IRL.
The ones who support me, help me fulfill me dreams.
My dream is not to be internet famous. My dream is to make a positive impact.
With every picture I share, I try to tell a thousand-word storyโone that shows who I am.
I want you to know the woman whoโs on the other side of the screen.
Last week I unveiled The Executive Editโmy curated, personal email list.
Wanna join?
leijlafoss.me/prospectus/
Do you worry about
greying hair
how much $ you make
or the size of your ๐?
(I can tell you from afar, it's not!)
I embrace "perfectly imperfect". For me & you ๐
I appreciate men who have scars & stories, know growth comes from flaws, and how seek excellence not perfection
Thank you, J, for the lovely arrangement. It's the perfect spring centerpiece for my table.
25.04.2025 21:40 โ ๐ 5 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Decisions shape lives.
And this one? Itโs easier than you think.
Reach out to me.
๐ง hello@leijlafoss.me
I did a quiet rebrand this weekendโ
I updated my rates and how I'm doing things.
I'd love to show you around and show you the new me.
Visit my website to check it out.
leijlafoss.me
Ladies: imagine where YOU could be in 6 months:
- Time for hobbies, yoga, or things you love.
- Branding that attracts clients who adore you.
- $5K more per month
Everything changed when I took the leap and invested in myself.
DM me for info about coaching for SW
Passion for life doesnโt come by accident. Itโs built with every decision, every moment
Connection works the same way
Great connection isn't random. Itโs curated with care. Like a perfectly tuned engine. Powerful, deliberate, exciting
I show up fullyโfor my passions, goals, and my lovers.
This year, I chose a guiding word: ENOUGH
Itโs my reminder I donโt have to be perfect. I can be strong *and* vulnerableโand so can you.
If that feels like relief, Iโd love to create a space where the world feels lighter. ๐
You are enough, too
There never seems to be enough hours.
Yet we donโt really need more hours or days. Itโs taking moments for ourselves that make life feel alive again.
We need to *make space* for these experiences.
Because even Caesar took time to savor the life he worked for.