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The Autistic Coach | Matthew (he/they)

@theautisticcoach.bsky.social

I build neuroaffirming communities by empowering my fellow autistic humans with advocacy & self-care tools for navigating an NT world based on productivism AuDHD ♾️ πŸŒ€ Χ“Χ–Χ©Χ’Χ Χ“Χ’Χ¨ΦΎΧ˜Χ¨Χ™Χ™Χ£ #POTS #Dyspraxia ♿️ theautisticcoach.com Also @autisticrabbi.bsky.social

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AuDHD Group Workshop - Autism ADHD Life Coaching | Autism ADHD Workshop β€” The Autistic Coach The Autistic Coach offers a 5-week AuDHD workshop for autistic + ADHD adults in the UK, US & Europe. Each 90-minute session, led by an autistic coach, explores energy management, executive function, inertia, burnout, and masking. Access to Work approved, with neuro-affirming tools, strategies, a

If you like my content, you're really going to like my workshops.

www.theautisticcoach.com/audhd-group-...

05.03.2026 22:35 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Newly Identified Autistics Life Coaching Group | Autism Workshop β€” The Autistic Coach The Autistic Coach offers a workshop for newly identified or newly diagnosed autistic adults in the UK, US & Europe. Led by an autistic coach, this group provides strategies, tools, and support to help you understand your autistic identity and thrive. Access to Work approved, offering a safe, in

Did you just understand that you're autistic?

What's next?

My 6-week workshop will guide you thru the next steps in a supportive community.

www.theautisticcoach.com/newly-diagno...

05.03.2026 12:05 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

And when the world keeps telling you your patterns are wrong, you learn to distrust your own perception.

That’s the real violence.

05.03.2026 20:25 β€” πŸ‘ 13    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

Autsitic humans aren’t β€œtoo sensitive.”

We’re noticing things others never had to notice.

The lights - the tones of voice - the pauses before someone answers - the shifts in someone’s face.

Autistic survival is pattern recognition.

05.03.2026 20:25 β€” πŸ‘ 25    πŸ” 11    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

Come learn with me this April!

05.03.2026 19:42 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
autistic peer support coaching - theautisticcoach.com

autistic peer support coaching - theautisticcoach.com

If you're autistic and working in the UK you're eligible for Access to Work for peer-support coaching.

I'm an approved provider and I'd be thrilled to work with you.

www.theautisticcoach.com/personal-coa...

04.03.2026 10:15 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Unironically told that inclusion means letting autistic kids hand out Siddurs once a month.

04.03.2026 20:30 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

spot on

05.03.2026 17:26 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

An autistic meltdown isn’t a failure.

It’s your nervous system finally telling the truth.

For hours - days - sometimes for years.

You kept going.

You kept performing.

And then your body says, "that's enough"

Meltdowns aren’t the problem - they're telling you something crucial.

05.03.2026 17:13 β€” πŸ‘ 21    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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From Neuroqueer Rhetoric to Neurocommunism: Ontology, Praxis, and New Forms of Life Some thinking I have been doing about 'Neurocommunism'

My first substack post is live!

β€˜Neurocommunism refers to a political ontology in which forms of collective life are organised around neuroqueer sensory, communicative and relational practices rather than normative capitalist productivity and communicability’.

05.03.2026 11:56 β€” πŸ‘ 9    πŸ” 5    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

You’re not broken cos of your brain my friends

If you’re broken, it’s because people broke you down.

100%

05.03.2026 14:23 β€” πŸ‘ 16    πŸ” 6    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Sure I have superpowers.

Not being able to leave my bed for a week when the sound of my own sneezing causes me to shutdown.

Not being able to communicate with the majority of people I meet.

Of not knowing when to has the toilet.

Of being unable to use public transport.

Those kind.

04.03.2026 14:28 β€” πŸ‘ 14    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0
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Jewish Disability Inclusion Seminars & Trainings β€” The Autistic Rabbi(nical Student) This two-part disability and neurodiversity training for rabbis, cantors, rabbinical students, Jewish professionals, and synagogue board members examines how disability, neurodivergence, and ableism shape synagogue culture. In Session 1, participants receive practical education on disability and neu

Are you a rabbi, cantor, or other Jewish community leader?

Do you want to learn about what inclusion looks like from an actual autistic person in the community?

I'm an autistic rabbinical student and educator and my new seminar is just for you.

Please share.

www.theautisticrabbi.com/seminars

04.03.2026 15:15 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1

The aggression and sneer that some people speak to disabled people with is downright shocking

05.03.2026 12:34 β€” πŸ‘ 19    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0
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Newly Identified Autistics Life Coaching Group | Autism Workshop β€” The Autistic Coach The Autistic Coach offers a workshop for newly identified or newly diagnosed autistic adults in the UK, US & Europe. Led by an autistic coach, this group provides strategies, tools, and support to help you understand your autistic identity and thrive. Access to Work approved, offering a safe, in

Did you just understand that you're autistic?

What's next?

My 6-week workshop will guide you thru the next steps in a supportive community.

www.theautisticcoach.com/newly-diagno...

05.03.2026 12:05 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I have spent the better part of a decade very publicly stating how I’ve rarely personally faced antisemitism in France.

Sadly, I cannot say that anymore.

05.03.2026 11:57 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

He added that Jews were dividing Arab and European societies, which are naturally friends.

He concluded by saying that all Jews should "go home."

No one reacted. Despite him screaming this at the top of his lungs for 5 stops.

Meanwhile, I was just trying to go eat lunch and enjoy the day.

05.03.2026 11:53 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

The joys of riding the Paris MΓ©tro while looking Jewish.

A man approached me, claiming that Jews have and are continuing to destroy Europe and the Middle East.

He said that Hitler was a great man, a proud European, and a friend of the Middle East.

05.03.2026 11:53 β€” πŸ‘ 9    πŸ” 7    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

Ou le pays

05.03.2026 11:51 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Il a ajoutΓ© que les Juifs divisaient les sociΓ©tΓ©s arabe et europΓ©enne, qui sont naturellement amies.

Il a conclu en affirmant que tous les Juifs devraient Β« rentrer chez eux Β».

Personne n'a rΓ©agi.

Pendant ce temps, j'essayais simplement de dΓ©jeuner.

05.03.2026 11:23 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Ligne 4.

Un homme m'a interpellΓ© en affirmant que les Juifs avaient dΓ©truit l'Europe et le Moyen-Orient.

Il a dΓ©clarΓ© qu'Hitler Γ©tait un grand homme, un EuropΓ©en fier et un ami du Moyen-Orient.

05.03.2026 11:23 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 1

Thanks for answering!

Do you often voice this need? Or is your environment not so open to this ?

05.03.2026 11:11 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Toxic positivity is a form of internalized ableism

naming difficulties and challenges as disabled people isn't ableist or "negative" or "victim politics"

it's reality and it's OK to give that a voice

It's more than OK - it's essential

we can be positive and love ourselves AND speak our truth

05.03.2026 11:03 β€” πŸ‘ 21    πŸ” 9    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1

For my disabled comrades who work - what do you wish your manager and team knew?

05.03.2026 10:28 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Call me a shmuck, but disability influencers who promote productivity and hustle culture are throwing the rest of us under the bus

04.03.2026 20:29 β€” πŸ‘ 28    πŸ” 6    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I’ve lived under fire, nonstop gunfire, bombs, and air raids.

Constant fear.

It left me with my PTSD.

Something impotent needs to be said…

03.03.2026 16:18 β€” πŸ‘ 15    πŸ” 5    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I remember how isolating it felt when people told me β€œjust isolate” - β€œtry to minimise stimuli” - β€œI’m with you”

As if those are options in war…

I have nothing but love and care for all my autistic comrades living under constant blaring of sirens, melting down non stop, with no end in sight.

03.03.2026 16:18 β€” πŸ‘ 17    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0
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Jewish Disability Inclusion Seminars & Trainings β€” The Autistic Rabbi(nical Student) This two-part disability and neurodiversity training for rabbis, cantors, rabbinical students, Jewish professionals, and synagogue board members examines how disability, neurodivergence, and ableism shape synagogue culture. In Session 1, participants receive practical education on disability and neu

Are you a rabbi, cantor, or other Jewish community leader?

Do you want to learn about what inclusion looks like from an actual autistic person in the community?

I'm an autistic rabbinical student and educator and my new seminar is just for you.

Please share.

www.theautisticrabbi.com/seminars

04.03.2026 15:15 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1

Sure I have superpowers.

Not being able to leave my bed for a week when the sound of my own sneezing causes me to shutdown.

Not being able to communicate with the majority of people I meet.

Of not knowing when to has the toilet.

Of being unable to use public transport.

Those kind.

04.03.2026 14:28 β€” πŸ‘ 14    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

I understand that part - and thank you for apologising. It shows how embedded in the language prejudice against autistic people is.

04.03.2026 14:25 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0