Divorce laws in this country are fucked for women and kids, not deadbeat men like Oliver.

Alimony is not common anymore unless there is a genuine financial need and in practice this is just whining about men needing to contribute anything to their impoverished kids. Why would Oliver Anthony be a genuine interlocutor?

Do you think whites need programs to become “healthy white people”? That’s the accurate comparison because whiteness, like manhood is a socially constructed identity to oppress others who don’t meet its standards

In a non-patriarchal world where men didn’t have majority of power, such programs would also be unjustified

It’s not my job as a feminist to believe anti-feminist junk science and reverse discrimination fantasies, though.

You have not coherently responded to the statistics or articles I posted. You have also not responded to the fact that parental alienation was coined by a pedophile psychiatrist.

In the Child’s Best Interest As a contentious custody dispute drags on for years, both sides agree on one thing: The child at the center of it is being abused. Is his mother or father to blame?

Propublica reported a case where there was documented physical and sexual abuse and neglect of a child by his father for *years*. The court found that the mother's reports of abuse were a "danger" to the child's health, and the father was awarded custody.
www.propublica.org/article/both...

This concept of "parental alienation" was invented by Richard Gardner, a psychiatrist who testified against victims of abuse in hundreds of custody battles. He openly argued that reporting child abuse, thereby "stealing” the child from the father, was more harmful than actual abuse.

The reason for this is because in addition to the general climate of hostility towards women and children who are victims of abuse by men, there is widespread belief (by people like you) in the courts that women fabricate claims of abuse in order to "alienate" their children from the father.

Nice anecdotal evidence.

When a mother reports that her husband abused her or her child, she is disbelieved a majority of the time. When she reports her child was sexually abused, she is disbelieved 85%+ of the time. If she reports physical & sexual child abuse, she loses custody 50% of the time.

Good for you, but “you” in my other comment was for manosphere viewers generally

PUAs and Redpillers wrote rape manuals and most popular figureheads abused women, you are genuinely a bad person if you give money/support to men who assault women regardless of if you personally also do it.

Only small portions of Islamists, neo-Nazis, etc commit violence but almost all engage (if only passively) in communities that promote violence. Same for manosphere.

Most upvoted thread on the most popular incel site was one celebrating a 17 y/o girl having her throat slit.

That’s because the manosphere is just a collection of disparate but connected groups but neo-Nazism is a specific idea.

You’re constantly sympathy-posting for the manosphere because you simply don’t care about patriarchy or their well-documented violence against women.

They are human traits that should not be enforced based on gender. Not every “masculine” trait is good and vice versa.

By that vague definition, single mothers are more “masculine” than 95% of men.

Why should those traits be exclusive/more common in men?

Apply this to racist neo-Nazi groups and not just manosphere groups like you usually do

Family court/custody bias against men is a myth though

Pinker also argued that women are biologically wired to do more housework

The statistical evidence there is for male variability is well, highly variable (from the book “Delusions of Gender”)

No I guess you just see them as “just victims of patriarchy as well :(“ which is almost as ignorant

Also Jews and Asians are more educated than white Christian people and I don’t see you crying about how they’re actually oppressed, because that’s obviously nonsense.

And yet, it’s still higher than ever for both sexes.

Men can make good money without a college degree, my brothers make decent money in HVAC and trades, whereas low-paying female-dominated jobs require degrees

Males are not marginalized in education (they’re in fact given preference in college admissions) and are more educated than they ever have been, they just aren’t the majority of college students anymore.

The concern I have isn’t really about politicians specifically or even that the manosphere is normalized, but that the narrative framings will be.

If people believe “women oppress men” or “false accusations are common” then it doesn’t matter if they denounce the manosphere on a general level

The Mainstream Pill On July 13, 2019, in Utica, New York, 17-year-old Bianca Devins was murdered.

I know it wasn’t your intention but there is currently an effort by media (esp guys like Josh) and academics to legitimize manosphere ideas in the mainstream. I am sensitive to that as a girl from a family that immigrated from an even more patriarchal country…
politicalresearch.org/2021/07/01/m...

Thank you.

It’s not that I think saying negative stuff constantly would help but I don’t actually have much hope for anything helping, and it definitely isn’t what’s making it worse.

Earlier this year at my highschool a bunch of teenage boys spread images of me and half the girls in my grade and generated nudes with AI, tell me how me being sexually harassed isn’t part of patriarchy?

Masculinity isn’t a natural phenomenon, and we shouldn’t gender positive behavior (which is what the whole concept of “positive masculinity” does)

Girls have worse mental health according to almost every reputable source lol