On this All Hallows Eve, the dogwood outside my window stands bare, and I’m thinking of many who have passed on, including a dear former colleague who died yesterday morning. Life is so vulnerable.
All of us go down to the dust, yet even at the grave we make our song: Alleluia, alleluia, alleluia.
31.10.2025 16:10 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
As a cis woman in a long term straight-looking relationship, talking about being bi isn’t easy. But I’ve realized being seen matters to me.
So on this Bi Visibility Day, I want to affirm that bi+ identities are real and do matter. There are many different ways to be bi, and they are all valid. 🩷💜💙
24.09.2025 01:07 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
I’ve always been bisexual and I always will be. It’s a simple truth. I have known this without doubt for close to 15 years and have been quietly open about it for 10. I had my first crush on a girl more than 25 years ago, though of course it was confusing at the time.
24.09.2025 00:54 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0
Why is it so hard to come out as bisexual?
Marching in this year’s Pride parade felt like a breakthrough moment - but not all declarations need to be so grand, writes Lucy Anna Gray
I don’t know how visible I actually am on this platform, but today is #BiVisibilityDay so here I am, visible, I guess. Claiming a bisexual identity feels complicated to me, so I keep it pretty quiet.
This article does a good job of explaining why it’s hard: www.independent.co.uk/voices/bisex...
24.09.2025 00:51 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0
A sandy beach under gray skies, Washington state, low tide.
A selfie of a smiling woman on a sandy beach in Washington state, the air heavy with mist.
No matter where I go, what latitude, what continent, what ocean is nearby, whatever the weather or the season, the coastline is consistently my happy place.
28.08.2025 16:36 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
Finally some small measure of justice for Rümeysa, but “45 days too late” is right.
09.05.2025 19:55 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
So many stories like this lately. Such horrible disregard for human lives.
27.03.2025 22:56 — 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
Hardcover book with ornate cover art titled “Thousand Year Old Vampire”
I am so excited to play this solo journaling RPG that just arrived in today’s mail.
12.03.2025 23:21 — 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
Also I couldn’t decide which day was my birthday, having crossed the International Date Line, so I chose today, which was my birthday in the part of the world from which I hail.
18.02.2025 08:08 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
A selfie of a sopping wet woman with fogged glasses at the top of a hiking trail in Wellington, New Zealand.
Currently in the Southern Hemisphere, for the first time I got to see what it’s like to have a summer birthday. Went on a very soggy hike to a viewpoint almost entirely obscured by clouds and mist (and with foggy glasses, so I couldn’t see much anyway). It was certainly an adventure!
18.02.2025 08:02 — 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0
Every day since January 20 has been a shitshow. We are living in truly dangerous times.
05.02.2025 02:22 — 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
“The arc of the moral universe is long but it bends toward justice.”
Reminding myself to live the next four years in particular as though I believe Dr. King’s words are true, even though it feels today like we are a long, long way from justice at so many levels.
20.01.2025 16:56 — 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
Selfie of a smiling woman wearing sunglasses in front of a field of sunflowers, with a cloudless sky overhead.
Posting for the first time in this space while thinking of warmer days.
12.01.2025 22:16 — 👍 7 🔁 0 💬 3 📌 0
