Vexa Wilde

Yes you can!

Thank you for your unending support friend 🫶

It has not been easy but I’m glad I’m away from my ex now and that’s what’s most important.

I am! I’m doing much better. I feel relieved to be away from my ex. Truly!!

Thank you 🥺🙏

Distance from harm can be its own kind of stability. I’m grateful for the people who show up. I’m still here. I’m building something out of the ashes.

Weekend One (Living in My Car) Living in my car is scary and unstable—but it’s also been a relief. Weekend one taught me that stability isn’t always a building; sometimes it’s distance from harm, a power plan, and the people who…

Field Notes from the Fringes: Weekend One (living in my car) is live on Ashes & Alchemy. It’s scary, practical, and—surprisingly—relieving.

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Underground EDM Isn’t Lawless — It’s Curated (How to Preserve the Vibe) What does “underground” mean in EDM? A deep dive into speakeasy culture, etiquette, consent, and preserving the scene.

New post: The Underground Isn’t Lawless — It’s Curated
A little manifesto, a little love letter, a lot of “handle yourself well or the door closes.”
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#UndergroundEDM #RaveCulture

Synastry 101: How Two Charts Create Chemistry (and Friction) Synastry isn’t destiny—it’s a toolkit. See how two charts create chemistry, friction, and growth across love, friendship, family, and work (with practical ways to handle it).

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#synastry #astrology #magiceveryday

A Letter to Peace (A Prayer for Relief When You're Tired) A raw, honest letter for anyone running on empty—asking for peace, steadiness, and a softer way to survive the storm.

A raw letter written from the edge of exhaustion—asking for peace, relief, and a softer way to survive. Includes ways to support domestic violence survivors.

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Understanding 8th and 12th House Synastry in Love Explore the depths of 8th and 12th house synastry, where intense soul ties transform romantic connections into profound experiences.

8th/12th house synastry:
hot. healing. haunting. occasionally unhinged. 🫠
I wrote about it + how to navigate it with boundaries.
drop your placements if you’ve lived it 👀
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Festival Parking Lots: Embracing Chaos and Sisterhood Experience the joyous chaos of festival parking lots and the deep connections forged on the dance floor in this heartfelt festival journey.

Apocalypse Festival 2025 recap, day one:
✨ sisterhood
✨ ugly-cry moments
✨ falling back in love with this scene
💛💛💛💛💛
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Ashes & Alchemy Ashes. Art. Aftermath

I built a little home on the fringes of life. Come sit with me there. 🥀✨

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Stop ✋

Wallpaper check!!

Twitter is cooked and it’s so sad. I’ve been using that platform for 15 years and now it’s awful :(

I’d much rather be a faerie skipping through the trees and picking flowers forever, but alas I am a single mom living in the USA lmaoooo

I know that’s life, but I pride myself on being stable, dependable, and responsible. So when things go sideways I feel like I fumble the ball, and the people that rely on me suffer. And I go radio silent while I pull it all back together again.

I haven’t been posting a lot bc honestly life has been such a roller coaster. Ive felt really ashamed of how one minute I feel like I’m doing great and then next, I’ll have the rug pulled out from under me.

Heyyyyyy how is everybody feeling lately??

Glad I brought joy to your inner child 🫶 happy birthday my friend
💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚

ICE at Workman and Mission with Marines embedded.

Sometimes you tech the house and sometimes the house techs you

For years I’ve told myself I don’t have a type…. And yet, lately, a type seems to be emerging…

Apparently I am weak in the knees for nerdy men with glasses and long hair 😂

Try not to let it get you down! It’s something that’s fixable if you want to. It’s just a number 🫶

I’m so sorry, friend 😭🫶

I’ve been avoiding the scale 😭

Lounging by the pool

Pool day w/ my bestie 💚🫶

💯

Girl, same. And people are so open about it 🤢

This is who runs this account!!