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@chancekismet.bsky.social

Transfemme furry/pup living in London (She/They) Dr of psychology by day, dancer by night Learning to live & love with my inner fam as we heal from a lifetime of dissociation A person, just like everybody else πŸ’•

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All hail the Crocs of Greater Sin +5 πŸ™

12.03.2025 09:45 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Sometimes, you journal & write a lot, setting the world to rights & engaging in deep, incisive self-reflection

And sometimes... ^^

12.03.2025 03:16 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

This game should totally have Kevin Michael Richardson voicing a Baludur's Gate style, "You must gather your parts before venturing forth" whenever you try to get Harry to do something while he's lost in conversation with his necktie xD

11.03.2025 15:34 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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This may be my favourite Reddit reply of all time

11.03.2025 13:44 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Oh no xD

11.03.2025 08:42 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Anyway, Disco Elysium's great, and here's me gooning on a swing in Portugal

(Harry would be proud. His Horrible Necktie would be liable to disagree πŸ‘”)

11.03.2025 08:40 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Don't get me wrong, the fact that IFS has popularized ego state models is great, because they have so much to offer anyone who's got /any/ unresolved material living in their feelings basement (hint; that's most of us)

Just make sure you've got the right support if you're here-&-now-spicy is all ^^

11.03.2025 08:02 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

It basically took ego state models that were developed for helping people with Dissociative Identity Disorder / Other Specified Dissociative Disorder (DID / OSDD)...

... and made it more friendly to people who had "normal development", for dealing with smaller chunks of past unresolved material

11.03.2025 07:55 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Trauma and Dissociation Informed Internal Family Systems: How to Successfully Treat C-PTSD, and Dissociative Disorders Shared via Kindle. Description: <p><b>Treat C-PTSD and dissociative disorders successfully.</b></p><p>Learn in-depth information about Internal Family Systems (IFS) and how to diagnose and treat peopl...

Importantly - Internal Family Systems (IFS) is really popular right now, and it has a lot to offer, but as above...

Vanilla IFS is known to be harmful for people with C-PTSD & DDs; it can help, but needs a DD trained therapist - this book is excellent: read.amazon.co.uk/kp/kshare?as...

11.03.2025 07:42 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I'd love to replay it & write something on it - feel like I've read a bunch of half-baked, poorly informed articles on the topic, and it'd be a really good teaching tool (and thing to explore for my own interest / benefit)

11.03.2025 07:35 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

... but that might just be me misremembering from the player's perspective, where you can neatly see this well organized system on a page, where everyone has a known role, and Harry hears & talks to everyone

His experience, I'll grant you, often feels a lot more chaotic and uninformed xD

11.03.2025 07:33 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Disco Elysium is a really neat way of explaining Internal Family Systems therapy to people

It's also kind of inherently triggering if you experience life through the lens of C-PTSD and dissociation - because like IFS, assumes, Harry seems able to recognize the difference between parts and self xD

11.03.2025 07:31 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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... and when meatspace gets boring...

10.03.2025 09:42 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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The kind of shit I get up to at home when I'm bored

10.03.2025 04:12 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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I πŸ‘ love πŸ‘ this πŸ‘ girl

30.07.2023 19:18 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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I πŸ‘ love πŸ‘ this πŸ‘ girl

30.07.2023 19:10 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Love this girl.

Shorky cuddles with @chancekismet.bsky.social

<3

26.07.2023 09:40 β€” πŸ‘ 13    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Love you too, beautiful best girl - so very much ^^

πŸ’–

26.07.2023 09:47 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Until this app does video (or I host elsewhere)...

From my latest dance sesh

26.07.2023 09:39 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

"What fresh hell is this?" - Dorothy Parker

:D

26.07.2023 09:21 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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