Yes!
10.02.2026 03:12 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Yes!
10.02.2026 03:12 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0
What happens when you risk everything and open up a coffee shop as two trans people?
This. β€οΈ
Thanks for making our first week incredible, Toronto. We love you.
Emma, thank YOU for coming! We loved meeting you and chatting with you. You have a seat at Understory anytime π«Ά
10.02.2026 01:30 β π 3 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Hi! My partner and I are trans and this weekend we opened our dream coffee shop in Toronto called Understory (505 Church St if youβre local). Itβs been packed every day with people from all walks of life and the joy I feel is immeasurable. In these dark times, I just want to show you a little lightβ€οΈ
02.02.2026 11:17 β π 340 π 58 π¬ 39 π 4Itβs so wild π
26.01.2026 16:02 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Itβs deeply familiar. This is our patio table.
26.01.2026 16:00 β π 4 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Vancouver-based Hootsuite is catering to an organization that disappears children and shot a woman dead in her car.
22.01.2026 23:52 β π 47 π 17 π¬ 2 π 1A woman and a man stand behind a black stone and wood counter with a pastry display and plants on it. They are both smiling widely.
A sneak peek at our queer lilβ coffee shop a few days before we open. π₯°
22.01.2026 14:10 β π 127 π 2 π¬ 19 π 0Nothing is worth the struggle of surviving Pearson π
18.01.2026 12:52 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Canβt wait to show you some pics too! Almost there π
17.01.2026 23:43 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Everyoneβs doing the whole β2016 to 2026β thing so I figured I might as well share my subtle changes.
17.01.2026 23:42 β π 142 π 2 π¬ 3 π 0
Hi! Iβm still here! Iβve been really busy getting our coffee shop through the last few days of construction and setup so we can open soon.
Tired. Happy. Entirely worth it. Canβt wait to provide a new inclusive space for my neighbours. β€οΈπ³οΈββ§οΈπ³οΈβπ
I donβt often respond to trolls these days, but when I do it tends to look like this.
And then they delete their comments.
For a few days, but thatβs it. I was driving myself places after a couple of weeks.
30.12.2025 19:08 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0(If they get bigger they can be the pec daddies but thatβs going to take some more work)
29.12.2025 21:23 β π 35 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0A man with mastectomy scars and tattoos stands in front of a camera, looking off to the side and slightly up.
This is nine weeks post-op. Iβm back to normal workouts, normal days, now with added scar gel and massage.
Whatβs not there? The weight of dysphoria. That weight disappeared when the twins did. May I introduce my new roommates, the pec brothers.π
Wondering what to do this quiet boxing day? Listen to @ericavogel.bsky.social and @mavenofmayhem.bsky.social chat about what people get wrong about trans people. π
open.substack.com/pub/unboxing...
Happy holidays and merry Christmas to all of you. Love is what makes a family, so whoever youβre with today, may you feel whole and happy. β€οΈ
Back to hanging out with my partner, her dad, my kids, her kid, my ex & her partner (who is also my current partnerβs exπ)
I love this beautiful, messy life.
My partner took this photo of me yesterday.
βWow. Is that me?β I asked incredulously.
Sheβs trans, too. She knew exactly what I meant. Was the man I was seeing in the photoβfinally, after years of seeing a womanβme?
She smiled. βYes, it is. Thatβs you.β
Thatβs me. π₯Ί
Just so I'm clear on this, computer memory has tripled in price because a bunch of it that hasn't been produced yet has been ordered to populate GPUs that aren't installed in data centers that aren't built yet in order to service a demand that doesn't exist to make profits that don't happen.
15.12.2025 12:21 β π 16182 π 6530 π¬ 187 π 320
To my #academic and #history and #genderstudies friends: THE INTERMEDIARIES is exactly the kind of book the current admin donβt want you to teachβ #trans history, #LGBTQ fight against nazis, real π§ͺ science. Knowing yβall, you may be teaching it anyhow. If so, please say!
wwnorton.com/books/978132...
Iβm just going to call it my mansition now.
15.12.2025 18:47 β π 55 π 1 π¬ 1 π 0
This is more βI own a record storeβ
Which is a great look tbh π₯
After MTG lied about me for weeks, she said that she felt bad for my unborn child because he'd have me as a mother. Her rhetoric led to threats against my family.
No one, even her, should receive threats like those, but I'd like to see her own up to the role she played in creating them for others.
Thanks π«Ά
07.12.2025 20:42 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0ππ
07.12.2025 20:42 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Thanks! Itβs approaching neck beard territory in some places so Iβm going to need to tame it soon π
07.12.2025 17:21 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Rowan stands in a tank top with arms crossed and smiling widely
I just finished my first strength workout since having top surgery and smiled the whole way through (even during pushups).
The euphoria. OMG π₯Ί
Rowan poses with a black t-shirt that says Zippertits in white lettering
Today is my six week follow-up appointment after top surgery. This will likely be the very last time I ever wear a binder, and thatβs AMAZING (compression binders are used after this surgery for a few weeks to help healing).
ANYWAY I know what shirt Iβm wearing
Not to mention that waivers are VERY costly, take months to get, and are generally only accepted if the crime youβve been convicted of happened a good while back AND you can prove (via character references, etc) that youβre what they would deem an upstanding citizen. Good luck with all that, Graham.
29.11.2025 16:50 β π 3 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0