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Wayne Scott

@wainscoting.bsky.social

Writer & Psychotherapist in Portland, Oregon. "The Maps They Gave Us: One Marriage Reimagined" is out. https://www.waynescottwrites.com

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Wayne Scott (@wainscoting.bsky.social) and Matthew Nienow discuss how shame becomes a portal, how narrative-building and healing are connected, and reimagine masculinity in an era where toxic manhood is glaringly, aggressively dominant across Western cultures.
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12.07.2025 03:52 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 7    ๐Ÿ” 2    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1
"Never Just One Story: A Conversation with Wayne Scott by Amy Bond" written in white at the bottom of Scott's author photo. To the left of these words is the book cover for The Maps They Gave Us beneath the full white Rumpus logo.

"Never Just One Story: A Conversation with Wayne Scott by Amy Bond" written in white at the bottom of Scott's author photo. To the left of these words is the book cover for The Maps They Gave Us beneath the full white Rumpus logo.

"The most important thing to remember is that there is never just one story."

Amy Bond interviews @wainscoting.bsky.social about The Maps They Gave Us (@blacklawrence.bsky.social).

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21.04.2025 13:02 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 2    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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@wainscoting.bsky.social shares his memoir: The Maps They Gave Us. We scrutinize society's expected marriage script vs. how self-acceptance + working with spouse to craft a new marriage story leads to a family based on love. buff.ly/pZpaaRO
#booktalk #memoir #bisexual #nonmonogamy #loveislove

21.03.2025 12:30 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 3    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Thanks, Mary! You were one of the speakers and told a delightful story as I recall. I have gotten so much literary mileage out of that wedding! Hope you're doing well! We are feeling deeply for all our friends in DC area (which is where I think you still are, right?).

18.03.2025 17:29 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Thereโ€™s a new box in the house. Youโ€™d never know this is *my* special day.

03.03.2025 19:59 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Contact - Wayne Scott Get in Contact Sign up for my Newsletter My monthly newsletter includes writings, art, quotes, and videos related to healing, creativity, and staying inspired, as well as upcoming continuing education...

Since 2019 I've been writing a micro-blog (5 crisp paragraphs) focusing on endurance strategies, applying wisdom from fields as diverse as neuroscience, psychotherapy, and literature. The next one, "The First Page of the End of Despair," comes out next week. To sign up: waynescottlcsw.com/contact/

09.02.2025 21:30 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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The Maps They Gave Us: One Marriage Reimagined - Black Lawrence Press Welcome to Will and Grace with kids, cats, and a mortgage. In a memoir that celebrates the creative possibilities of intimate relationships, writer and psychotherapist Wayne Scottโ€™s The Maps They Gave...

blacklawrencepress.com/books/the-ma...

11.01.2025 21:24 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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The Silent Treatment A teenage boy being bullied at school experiences a life-saving version of manhood with a patient, quiet therapist.

"Once upon a time, there was a therapist, a teenage boy, and a very long hour."

My piece about refusing to talk to the wonderful therapist I was mandated to see as a 14 year old boy.

The power of silence and humility.

www.psychotherapynetworker.org/article/the-...

11.01.2025 21:21 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Contact - Wayne Scott Get in Contact Sign up for my Newsletter My monthly newsletter includes writings, art, quotes, and videos related to healing, creativity, and staying inspired, as well as upcoming continuing education...

Because I teach new therapists, I often respond to the question โ€œHow does therapy work?โ€ I've gotten the answer down to something pithy. It's in my micro blog--5 crisp paragraphs, not counting 'hello'--coming out next week. You can sign up for it, if you're curious. waynescottlcsw.com/contact/

15.12.2024 21:11 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Miriam Cesar Chavez

27.11.2024 06:42 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Reading and loving Anne Michaelโ€™s โ€œHeldโ€

23.11.2024 02:21 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I keep wanting Bluesky to be like the old Lit Twitter with people sharing quotes and poems they loved and talking back and forth about the important books they were reading together.

23.11.2024 02:16 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Wait. What? Weโ€™re allowed to skip back and forth between platforms?

Very intriguing lines!

23.11.2024 02:13 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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My debut memoir, โ€œThe Maps They Gave Us: One Marriage Reimagined,โ€ about a couples adventures in marital therapy, hits the shelves in time for Valentineโ€™s Day 2025, if youโ€™re tired of giving roses.

(There. My first Bluesky post. And the book cover even gets hidden as โ€œAdult Contentโ€!)

19.11.2024 06:02 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 8    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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