🌸🦄✨ SuNnY

Structural dissociation is not imagination.

It shows up as:

• memory gaps
• shifts in state
• feeling like someone else is at the front
• emotional amnesia
• body-level reactions we didn’t consciously choose

and it harms folx w actual disorder bcuz it gives others the impression that structural dissociation and parts switching can be controlled.

that’s very invalidating across society for peeps like us

that’s the kind of bs that gets our moral code attacked by folx who insist our disorder is fake

ahh yes one reason this is harmful is the nature of trauma itself:

one of the main survival tricks of a trauma brain is minimizing

“If others are pretending, maybe I am too.”

Trauma based #dissociation is not chosen. It’s not curated. It’s not aesthetic.

You can imagine characters.
You can daydream.
You can roleplay.
You can even intentionally create inner companions.

But that is not the same as trauma wiring.

when misinformation spreads about dissociation, it causes harm:

• people w real trauma get dismissed
• clinicians get more skeptical
• stigma increases
• disorder starts looking like a trend instead of a survival adaptation

hope this msg reaches the right one: ur spreading nonsense & it’s gonna confuse people n hurt folks who are already struggling

also, thanks for showing us we r exactly where we need to b on our journey towards stability (plus helping us leave a place no longer aligned w us)

clearin up a misconception we encountered the other day on a discord server:

u cannot tulpamancy urself into having OSDD bcuz u think u have an alter. making a tulpa doesnt give u OSDD

like why does this even need to be said? OSDD is a traumagenic disorder. u don’t just come down w
#misconceptions

All of us deceived
By the depths and scale of these
Insidious schemes.
#emoetry #deceived #haiku #senryu #poem #writing #writingcommunity
@mwplovesmusic.bsky.social

a close up photo of an amethyst crystal in evening sun

here’s an #amethyst geode chunk in the light of setting sun.

forget the details but amethyst can be used to improve dreams/sleep, improve intuition, n reduce anxiety

#CrystalHealing #WitchSky

Sometimes
it infuriates me
that I still care for you

even though
you hurt me

on purpose

I probably take too much
responsibility

I've been told
that I definitely do

but even still
I'm not perfect

and know I
probably also
hurt you

but maybe you
deserved it

(From yesterday's drafts)
#poetry

tfw daddy calls n for a few minutes n yall end up on the call for hours 💖👍🏼✅

The foundation for healthy relationships is *trust*.

*not my content*

yah may b!!

floofy 🫶🏻

man Dubai chocolate rly is everywhere now

it’s one of our favorites 😊

ty 💖 loving how we both had the same idea

ty
saving

GENTLE REMINDERS For The Week Your best can look different every day Slowing down doesn't mean giving up You will get there in your own time It's okay to do what's best for you Small steps are better than no steps It's okay to feel your feelings *found on Pinterest

wow good job! u did so good. beautiful moss agate too 💖

may b, but have u considered that may b ur workin ur way thru complex feelings about belonging, expectations others put on u w/o ur permission, expectations u may have put on urself, and so on? and that might color ur perspective…

we’re proud as heck of u sweetie 💖 for just bein u every day ✌🏼🫶🏻🫂🌷☺️

a cartoon character says " a little from column " Alt: a cartoon character says " a little from column "

if ur like us, it’s both. but in their defense, they had to be covert, right? so the fact ur noticing more could mean parts r feeling safe enuff to start repairing themself. well that’s how we view our approach to functional multiplicity at least 🫶🏻💜🌷

stg that was the biggest bowl hit we ever had in our life 😳

she dips out to go do whatever she need to do back in her little headspace. she just needed us to feel whatever feeling it was she was carrying. if that makes sense

very relatable, thinking about losing the thought makes us spiral harder. the important thing was probly the memory of the mask. like for us, we don’t hafta remember talkin bout it bcuz we were there, in some ways. whatever part needed to work thru the feeling, got to talk it out, then she dips to

that’s where we r at now too 🫶🏻 good for yall 🥹

Soul Meets Body

removed this one a bit ago but it’s time to come back

im glad bcuz this is like a return to ground after a long voyage, probly in a spaceship 🚀

open.spotify.com/track/5yc59J...

👍🏼

thanks! the synth in it rn is rly peaceful ☺️

yall doin such a good job of caring enuff to take cake of the 🦷, even tho it feels kinda scary sometimes 🫂

proud of yall ✌🏼