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@vanehsaw.bsky.social

chicana๐Ÿ–ค occasional cosplayer

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save your prayers, she would have laughed at them anyway

24.09.2025 12:46 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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My grandpa's little work space/desk still has this note from over 20 years ago where i wrote "vanessa's office" because they never removed it from where i taped it. also ft. my braille writer. i do my braille work for school here ๐Ÿฅฒ

22.09.2025 06:52 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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another one was found today. there could be 60 underneath the ground. who knows lol

21.09.2025 21:54 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

i'm so lucky to have my mom through all of this as well- i couldn't do life without her, just a sad way that life plays out. death and grief makes you feel like you're losing control of everything... i wish it was different

21.09.2025 08:12 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

since my grandpa's passing, it's been taking care of my grandma 24/7, grad school 24/7, but today i got to play a game with my friends for the first time since his death and it felt good to feel like myself again ๐Ÿฅฒ

21.09.2025 08:10 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Picture of the cartoon character representations of the Gorillaz raising a Palestinian flag

Picture of the cartoon character representations of the Gorillaz raising a Palestinian flag

Gorillaz say FREE PALESTINE

17.09.2025 23:02 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 14629    ๐Ÿ” 4373    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 52    ๐Ÿ“Œ 125
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today i learned that my tortoises had babies...

11.09.2025 20:34 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 6    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

wow i love them

05.09.2025 00:29 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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care bear yuri ๐Ÿ‘

04.09.2025 23:30 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 81    ๐Ÿ” 23    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 3    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Itโ€™s great having people in your life who actually want you around.

03.09.2025 21:07 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 11    ๐Ÿ” 8    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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the con crunch paid off!! #matsuricon was so much fun :D

#kpopdemonhunters #kpdhcosplay #kpdh

31.08.2025 17:23 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 12    ๐Ÿ” 4    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Baela and Hojo standing in the mirror taking a selfie as Foxxy Love and Doflamingo. Baela is holding funyuns

Baela and Hojo standing in the mirror taking a selfie as Foxxy Love and Doflamingo. Baela is holding funyuns

30.08.2025 22:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 28    ๐Ÿ” 4    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 3    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

i'm not ready to spend the rest of my life without you and it's barely been a week

25.08.2025 08:37 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I am very sick of celebrities.

24.08.2025 22:30 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 32    ๐Ÿ” 10    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1
comic panel of batman and raphael from tmnt
batman: this is where i saw my parents die raphael
raphael: discord hug emoji

comic panel of batman and raphael from tmnt batman: this is where i saw my parents die raphael raphael: discord hug emoji

18.08.2025 15:35 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 16559    ๐Ÿ” 3910    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 87    ๐Ÿ“Œ 93
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i'm feeling burnt out with everything going on but i'm gonna keep making my lattes (pumpkin spice)

13.08.2025 20:41 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Leo, Raph, Don and Mikey fighting their way through the Foot Clan in stage 1-1 of Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles: The Arcade Game.

Leo, Raph, Don and Mikey fighting their way through the Foot Clan in stage 1-1 of Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles: The Arcade Game.

TMNT: The Arcade Game

11.08.2025 18:22 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1413    ๐Ÿ” 411    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 20    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

i'm crying, you're making me wanna watch it now

09.08.2025 17:53 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
2. Emotionally Limited Parents
Misread Neurodivergence as
Defiance

Neurocomplex traits often get pathologized in emotionally rigid households. Curiosity becomes backtalk. Sensory sensitivity is framed as overreacting. Executive dysfunction gets labeled as laziness.
These misinterpretations aren't just invalidatingโ€” they're identity-shaping. Over time, kids absorb the belief that being different equals being difficult.

2. Emotionally Limited Parents Misread Neurodivergence as Defiance Neurocomplex traits often get pathologized in emotionally rigid households. Curiosity becomes backtalk. Sensory sensitivity is framed as overreacting. Executive dysfunction gets labeled as laziness. These misinterpretations aren't just invalidatingโ€” they're identity-shaping. Over time, kids absorb the belief that being different equals being difficult.

This is also about school.

08.08.2025 16:19 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1224    ๐Ÿ” 392    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 49    ๐Ÿ“Œ 88

๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ’” we got next year...

06.08.2025 22:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

yes! can't wait to talk about it with you ๐Ÿ˜Ž

06.08.2025 00:49 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

i really love twisted metal s2 so far. i have no complaints as it reminds me of the silly, funny, and sometimes serious games i enjoyed growing up :3

05.08.2025 20:41 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
A white banned says FEED GAZA in front of a digital drawing of red poppies with black and white details and green leaves in front of a blue sky with clouds

A white banned says FEED GAZA in front of a digital drawing of red poppies with black and white details and green leaves in front of a blue sky with clouds

List of resources in the thread โค๏ธ๐Ÿ–ค๐Ÿค๐Ÿ’š

02.08.2025 19:50 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3514    ๐Ÿ” 2451    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 13

changing all these kids diapers for the past 5 and a half years still couldn't prepare me for my grandma being the final boss of diapering lol

03.08.2025 17:25 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

happy birthday queen!! ๐Ÿฉท

01.08.2025 19:15 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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scratchies

31.07.2025 05:05 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

my mom has done everything she could so that i'm not feeling alone with this, but since they're not her grandparents and my dad's wife hates her for some reason (insecurity) and my dad refuses to speak to her, it's really fucking hard because he wants to be "in charge" but does little to nothing

30.07.2025 21:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

anyone else's great grandparents loved you like you were their own child, helped your mom raise you, just for them to write you in their will, and make their family disown them because of jealousy, leaving you snd your dad to care for them (who secretly is also jealous of you) i can't make this up

30.07.2025 21:02 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Artists, showcase your art style~ โœ๏ธ

feel free to QRT!!

29.07.2025 21:21 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 6    ๐Ÿ” 4    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

my mom is the only one who can make everything better... ๐Ÿ˜ข

27.07.2025 20:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 6    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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