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Daenelia

@daenelia.bsky.social

Web dev & designer, of an age, drinking coffee, cuddling chihuahua and cat, into stories - books - films - tv - games -, Europe, kinda creative but sometimes lazy, not into bucket lists, no time for a new hobby (but always wanting to try something new).

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I am celebrating already. I've got my sunglasses and everything.

06.03.2026 07:23 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

For a Siamese, 10 years is still young! Or ... they always have this wise old man aura anyway.

Prince would look lovely on any floor, with the sunrays of spring warming him, while you try not to trip over him.

This cat is a keeper.

06.03.2026 07:17 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Mind you. I have brought home a surprise cat home before.
... I've already used up that card.

05.03.2026 09:40 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I think that's a great idea, in general. But. Surely there are people in the region that can take this lovely cat in.

I also would have to ask my cat if he'd like such a clever roommate. I think I could convince him. But the other human in the house probably would not want a second cat.

05.03.2026 09:39 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

It's all about making miles! Just crochet a lot, wrong or right. You'll learn from mistakes! And you will treasure them πŸ˜„

05.03.2026 08:42 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I'd pick him up immediately if I wasn't in Europe.
Siamese cats are so smart. Good mousers, the ones I knew. Also, they're kind, but still cat enough not to respect you too much. You can hold conversations with them. They're dignified and calm.
His name is Prince. What more do you need?

05.03.2026 07:26 β€” πŸ‘ 14    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I've just had a lot of time to learn the hard lessons, mike 😁

But tbh, it's really nice if you smile at people in your neighbourhood.

03.03.2026 16:31 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I've felt the sun on my face, warming me up. That spring scent and a gentle, warmer breeze.

Things are awful. And so out of my direct control.

But I can control how I greet people with a smile. So I do that.

03.03.2026 13:54 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

You shouldn't have to convince anyone of how uniquely hard it is because it's actually obvious. I can't even advise because I am not in your position.

Don't give up finding time for yourself, too. Read Woolf's A Room of One's Own, for instance. You can't be on call 24/7.

03.03.2026 10:25 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

It's better to just live your life.

People who think their life is content don't have anything meaningful to share.

03.03.2026 10:14 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Art gives back so much more. Return on investment, measured in happiness and humanity.

03.03.2026 10:12 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I actually think I've evolved past hating people based on the arbitrary place they were born.

But I do still judge people by their actions towards others.

03.03.2026 09:42 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I'm more scared of the word armageddon in this context. I don't even know if that biblical Jesus was ever really born.

03.03.2026 08:29 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I don't know. Courage is even thinking about a first step. Because you open your mind you new possibilities.

03.03.2026 08:20 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I remember my first ever trying a crisp: just plain salted. Magical. Then paprika just kicked it up a notch. And today I'm old enough to go back to simple salted. Perfect.

03.03.2026 08:19 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Wednesday is our B5 day πŸ˜„ I'm just a child of appointment tv. I love having shows associated with days of the week. I'm looking forward to it! It's such a great show and I'm so happy we have it on disc now.

03.03.2026 08:14 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Either way, talking to a psychologist can really help. Not your GP. Someone who understands brains and people. You say you made a mess of things: that's what you need help with. Your mental health, so you can start living.

02.03.2026 06:48 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

You're at least high functioning. You can be outgoing and autistic. Or have a combination of autism and adhd.
It's okay if your brain just works different. But it's nice to know. And helpful.

01.03.2026 20:35 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I'm not sure how it is in the UK. In the Netherlands, the assessment is done by a psychologist. They do an intake, very pleasant, and after that, they go through a questionnaire in person. You can bring someone along for support. But also to verify answers. Sometimes you're not aware of stuff.

01.03.2026 20:33 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

There's a questionnaire, for yourself and parents. It's got nothing to do with being chatty. 😊

01.03.2026 20:14 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Have you been able to do an assessment with a professional? It can lead to more help. There are strategies you can adapt.
I wouldn't be surprised. If you've been masking, that's valuable experience to use those strategies so you won't have to mask.

01.03.2026 18:48 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Maar de leider kan ook zo vervangen zijn. Of dit het moment i van regime verandering, dat zal nog moeten blijken.

01.03.2026 10:55 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I just realised I can start knitting baby stuff too! Awesome! Very nice blanket 😊

01.03.2026 09:58 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

If Star Trek didn't change and adapt, it wouldn't push us in the right direction. We need the different point of views, the what ifs, the challenge to the status quo. Yes. There is no end destination. There's only the next journey.

01.03.2026 09:36 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Pep Guardiola didn't back down about the boos at Elland Road as play paused to allow Muslim players to break their fast for Ramadan.

β€œIt’s a modern, modern world, right? You all [saw] what happened in the world again today, right? Respect the religions, respect the diversity, that is the point.”

28.02.2026 23:21 β€” πŸ‘ 2113    πŸ” 319    πŸ’¬ 76    πŸ“Œ 25

Okay, I started the day quite gloomy. I'm sure you can relate.
But then someone announced their pregnancy and I can't help but smile. That's great news. It's wanted and I think it will be a wonderful family.
Gotta keep fighting for a better world, for this little one and all the others.

01.03.2026 09:26 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Additionally, or alternatively, buy your favourite book and gift it to someone.

01.03.2026 09:03 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I love lace. And that colour is ... so lovely!

I've only managed unintentional lace. Dropping stitches when I didn't need to...

01.03.2026 09:00 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I think your view might be more accurate ☹️

But until everyone realises we've got more in common than what separates us, stuff like this will keep happening.

01.03.2026 08:31 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

It does. Some people do end up deleting comments.
Doesn't bluesky have a comments option to use on blogs? Might be the solution you're happy with.

28.02.2026 18:29 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0