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I’m not here to attack anyone. I’m asking a real question. Is this ethical dominance, or is this misuse of power? I’m open to being corrected and I’m open to discussion. Mind you, this all happened in time span of 11 days,....

I made mistakes & owned them. When I asked for money I genuinely needed to get to work, I was suddenly blocked everywhere. No aftercare. No discussion. No support. No money returned. I’m now in overdraft & debt.

I want to share a recent experience & invite an honest discussion.I entered a findom dynamic that felt good at first. We talked clearly about limits, monthly budget, & I paid my tribute. A few days later we agreed to a control game where I would send all my salary & then ask for expenses as needed.

If you’re someone who values consent, integrity, and connection alongside kink, we may align well. If your approach is purely extractive or rushed, we probably won’t.

What I’m looking for is not just a Domme, but someone who understands power with care. A confident, ethical dominant who can be playful, firm, guiding, and human. Someone who values communication and clarity, and who understands that submission does not mean lack of agency.

I’m financially realistic and transparent. I can offer tribute within my means, will clearly state my monthly budget before we start.

I’m from a conservative background & live a very adult, real-world life. That means discretion, safety, and limits are extremely important to me. Nothing involving family, work, or public exposure outside of pre-agreed fantasy is acceptable. I take boundaries seriously and expect the same in return.

My submissive side leans toward sissy and feminisation themes, humiliation within agreed boundaries, mindplay, and Total Power Exchange.

About Me
I’m a 32 year old submissive based in Manchester UK. I’m thoughtful, emotionally aware, and still very much in the process of understanding myself. I don’t pretend to have everything figured out, but I do know what matters to me.
I value trust, structure, consent, and emotional presence.

ITs okay thank you though

Dommes: if you’re into control, exposure, sissification, and long-term play — I’m ready to talk.

Manchester based, open to online or IRL.

#Findom #TPE #SubLife #HumiliationKink #SissySub #Femdom #BlueskyKink #Mindplay #KinkCommunity

I want a Domme who gets it. Who enjoys power, not just payment. Who wants to build something twisted, trusting, and real — not just drain & block.

Subs: don’t settle for someone who doesn’t care about your submission, just your wallet.

Just had a rough experience with a “Domme” who was all about instant cash, no care for real connection or kink.

I’m a submissive into TPE, humiliation, blackmail (consensual), mindplay. I tribute within my means, but I’m not here to be used and ghosted.

If you’re a Domme who enjoys actual control — not just content sales — message me.

If not? No shade. But I know what I’m here for.

I’m a real submissive.
What I crave is humiliation, blackmail kink, exposure play, mind control, TPE.
Not porn — power.

I don’t want to be teased by nudes. I want to be broken down within safe, negotiated limits. I want to feel owned, used, reshaped into a sissy slut who begs for approval.

I’m not here for porn. I’m here to surrender.

I’ve sexted with plenty of so-called Dommes. Most send pics, talk about their vids, and expect me to get off. And that’s fine — but it’s not what I’m looking for.