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She is sunshine in the rain,and wisdom in the wilderness.πŸ’•

MVP Kamala Harris today at Howard University #HU #107Days

26.09.2025 22:04 β€” πŸ‘ 319    πŸ” 113    πŸ’¬ 13    πŸ“Œ 17

Do not debate white people about your humanity. It will be a waste of your time and they are not going to change their minds.

25.09.2025 15:05 β€” πŸ‘ 778    πŸ” 236    πŸ’¬ 7    πŸ“Œ 2

That’s their superpower. They’re able to tap out of anything that’s not white centered.

23.09.2025 16:18 β€” πŸ‘ 21    πŸ” 6    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

White people be like I'm studying to be antiracist. Wait I have to listen to a Black person & believe them? Naw that's too much, I'm out.

23.09.2025 16:17 β€” πŸ‘ 229    πŸ” 57    πŸ’¬ 9    πŸ“Œ 2

Jokes aside this nation is exhausting.

Mind your mental health and surround yourself with folk who authenticity return your love.

πŸ’•

10.09.2025 22:30 β€” πŸ‘ 263    πŸ” 47    πŸ’¬ 9    πŸ“Œ 5

How many Black people died trying to get civil rights?

10.09.2025 19:59 β€” πŸ‘ 54    πŸ” 14    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Like if civility was all it took, we would not still be here.

10.09.2025 20:09 β€” πŸ‘ 21    πŸ” 10    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Lmao this country has always had political violence, America ain't above shit

10.09.2025 19:48 β€” πŸ‘ 163    πŸ” 50    πŸ’¬ 8    πŸ“Œ 19

Black people:
For the love of God… PLEASE STOP SELLING YOUR GRANNY HOUSE!!!!

Gotdamn! That’s your money! That’s your safety net! That’s your gen wealth!

09.09.2025 03:53 β€” πŸ‘ 69    πŸ” 16    πŸ’¬ 7    πŸ“Œ 0

if i had the opportunity to ask a question of anyone in the administration, given this "war in chicago" messaging, i would ask them how many americans the president intends to kill in his war

06.09.2025 16:55 β€” πŸ‘ 21576    πŸ” 5446    πŸ’¬ 336    πŸ“Œ 188

This is real life. We really dealing with the worst administration known to man and we just gotta keep trucking like everything is ok.

It’s bleak, bro.

06.09.2025 17:21 β€” πŸ‘ 1006    πŸ” 203    πŸ’¬ 43    πŸ“Œ 13

Learning when to shut up is an underrated skill.

05.09.2025 19:30 β€” πŸ‘ 185    πŸ” 73    πŸ’¬ 8    πŸ“Œ 1

Even if you hate your job, don’t leave. Now is not the time.

04.09.2025 15:52 β€” πŸ‘ 48    πŸ” 16    πŸ’¬ 4    πŸ“Œ 6

Don’t let anyone tell you that you’re too sensitive.

Maybe they just lack emotional intelligence.

03.09.2025 10:23 β€” πŸ‘ 86    πŸ” 21    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 6

Sometimes faking a smile is easier than explaining why you’re sad.

03.09.2025 11:29 β€” πŸ‘ 10    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Pursuing a woman and proceeding to treat her as if she deserves nothing don’t sound crazy to you?

You don’t want to celebrate her, buy her flowers, buy her gifts, pay for things? You obviously don’t like her, just the idea of her because you were ONLY physically attracted!

31.08.2025 01:12 β€” πŸ‘ 83    πŸ” 28    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 12

Happy Anniversary!

31.08.2025 18:38 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

You know what’s crazy…there’s a version of you in someone’s memory that doesn’t exist anymore

30.08.2025 15:56 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I think a lot of it is because more people are avoidants than they realize.

29.08.2025 23:05 β€” πŸ‘ 13    πŸ” 9    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 3

Just saw someone refer to the β€œmale loneliness epidemic” as the β€œmale consequences epidemic” and I just think that’s so much more accurate.

28.08.2025 08:07 β€” πŸ‘ 452    πŸ” 125    πŸ’¬ 7    πŸ“Œ 9

My biggest fear is to be out in public minding my business and i end up viral online 🀣

27.08.2025 21:52 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 5    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1

Black people are not a societal problem. Racism against Black people is.

23.08.2025 13:55 β€” πŸ‘ 2118    πŸ” 502    πŸ’¬ 37    πŸ“Œ 28

But for those who acknowledge they've done harm, apologize for that harm, change the behaviours that caused that harm, And seek to make sure others don't cause the harms they themselves have caused? What else is repair and transformation if not that?

20.10.2024 05:23 β€” πŸ‘ 188    πŸ” 14    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 1

…But it is also the case that those directly harmed are under No obligation to accept anything at all from those who harmed them, no matter how heartfelt.

And those facts have to sit in tension.

But i try to hold space for true change.

20.10.2024 05:26 β€” πŸ‘ 210    πŸ” 19    πŸ’¬ 4    πŸ“Œ 5

I love this. Reframe

21.08.2025 22:39 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

All you need is a little delusion and audacity and you can seriously do anything

21.08.2025 21:47 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

The answer is aggressively confronting racism.

Which is why it’s up to the whites.

20.08.2025 20:50 β€” πŸ‘ 80    πŸ” 30    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 2

OMG! 😳 so sorry that happened to you! Hope they have a swift healing & recovery!! β€οΈβ€πŸ©Ή

20.08.2025 17:08 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

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