and all it means at the end of the day is that their gender cannot be forced into a binary
07.01.2026 03:51 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0@lesboyceo.bsky.social
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and all it means at the end of the day is that their gender cannot be forced into a binary
07.01.2026 03:51 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0genderflux, etc. literally anything else!!!!! is non binary!!!!
this is also why the labels βnon binary womanβ & βnon binary man/boyβ exist. someone may primarily be or present one gender or the other while still being non binary. this is additionally why some trans men & women say this as well
into a binary!!!! it exists outside the two binaries of man and woman. anything or anyone outside of either of those two binaries falls under nonbinary. this includes literally anything that isnβt a fully aligned (or sometimes cis) gender.
bigender, genderfluid, xenogenders, agender, demiboy,
they have not βonly existedβ because of β¦ reason. theyβve just existed as themselves and have for many, many years.
for some reason, people like to equate non binary to they/them and being like some neutral, third gender. the whole point of it being NON binary is that. it literally canβt be put
existed when they had to assume the guise of a man to safely date another woman. where the hell did this come from? youβd be extremely wrong.. this was actually crucial to butch history, and many butches experience their identities differently. some WERE trans men. who cares?
07.01.2026 03:45 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0they experience it. men do not OWN masculinity. many non binary men are lesbians. a lot of you have much to learn about gender binaries and what certain labels actually entail and mean, as well as lesbian history
another argument people try to counter is that trans men lesbians have only ever
lots of people tend to bring up the argument the label is a βmockeryβ to lesbianism, or that this is the βone sexuality men are supposed to be excluded fromβ β¦what are you talking about, genuinely?
itβs not a new concept for lesbians to be associated with their own masculinity, in whichever way
++ bit of update on the thread
occasionally, fully aligned men may use the lesboy label (binary trans men for example) β thereβs nothing wrong w this! everyone who uses the label is different & has a different gender experience and identity for each individual person you ask
nobody gaf truly and if a βcisβ man is genuinely calling himself a lesbian maybe thereβs more to that than meets the eyeβ¦ you people say non binary people can be lesbians and then lose ur mind at lesboys & trans men as if they literally arenβt nonbinary πππ ctfu
07.01.2026 03:38 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0tiktok still stuck on level 1 gay π«© im soooo tired of the men lesbian argument
07.01.2026 03:36 β π 3 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0HIIII
07.01.2026 03:36 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0hi guys sorry i got super inactive. whatβs up lesboyssss
07.01.2026 03:34 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0so often when people call themselves a bi lesbian they use the term bi as a means to exaggerate that they are attracted to women AND those outside the gender binary/anyone else that doesnβt identify as a man. plus people tend to forget a lot of others have varying sexual + romantic attractions
25.01.2025 16:29 β π 5 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0like. most people assume bisexual is liking men AND women, period, but literally BY DEFINITION itβs liking more than one gender .. π that is not just subject to men and women
25.01.2025 16:27 β π 4 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0it especially baffles me to see the amount of people that get heated over bi/pan lesbians cause it really just reveals how little people know about bisexuality β οΈ
25.01.2025 16:22 β π 5 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0describe and align w oneβs identity! it is not harmful to anyone.. so exclus keeeeppp cryin. we will always be here ily lesboys + turigirls
25.01.2025 16:21 β π 3 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0people identify, and actually take the time to understand why they do. everyoneβs experience w their gender identity is different and you donβt have to understand it, but itβs a very much real and awesome thing once you do :-)!! there will always be new labels being made and created to help further
25.01.2025 16:13 β π 4 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0itβs weird how many people care about this label just to immediately bash on it and call it disgusting π€ lesbianism is far more complex than most people even know. stop being scared of shit you donβt understand and just learn! your life will be so much more peaceful once you stop whining about how
25.01.2025 16:11 β π 5 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0is one in the same. lesbian is intertwined with transmasculinity, which birthed butches and masc lesbians. you cannot separate the two ever. lesboy is basically a refurnished term for butch/masc lesbians that can also apply to numerous other people!
25.01.2025 16:09 β π 5 π 0 π¬ 1 π 03) lesboy is a term that can be used by, again,
- masc/butch lesbians
- he/him lesbians (pronouns β gender)
- multigender (bigender, genderfluid) lesbians
- nonbinary, agender, genderqueer, xenogender lesbians
itβs different for everyone. gender is such a complex and diverse concept, not everyone
- this is a wonderful carrd to read on lesboys that has numerous sources + history going back to the early 2000s ! if you take the time to read you could learn a lot
web.archive.org/web/20231127...
and if any exclusionists happen to scroll across this, i hope you take the time to read and educate yourself so you can learn something new! it should be the least of your worries to hate on and police otherβs identities online. the history behind these labels are very real :-)!
25.01.2025 15:55 β π 4 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0there are numerous sources out here to back the label and explain it to those who would like to learn. while the term/label lesboy is rather newβonly being coined a few years agoβ the history surrounding βmale/masc lesbiansβ and butches is not :-)
25.01.2025 15:53 β π 4 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0that people feel comfortable with, and this is one. just a huge misconception about the label D: people immediately want to hate on those who use it because they either donβt have the attention span to do a 1 minute google search, or are without the brain capacity to comprehend what it really means
25.01.2025 15:49 β π 4 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0me calling myself a boy. itβs just what makes me happy and comfortable! im not a boy at all and id never be attracted to one.. butches have called themselves men/boys for yearsβ they obviously donβt identify as oneβ and its just a means of reclaiming masculinity. itβs all about using terms or labels
25.01.2025 15:48 β π 4 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0nonbinary, genderfluid, bigender, genderqueer, etc. itβs not ACTUALLY used by men + those who are trying to make a mockery of lesbianism. in my case, im nonbinary + a butch lesbian, therefore i use masc terms + pronouns on myself. that doesnβt make me a boy, does it? nope! itβs the same case with
25.01.2025 15:46 β π 6 π 1 π¬ 1 π 0so first off:
1) lesboys are NOT cis/fully aligned men inserting themselves into lesbian spaces. this is a huge misconception many people have about the label + if u think thats what it is ur just completely wrong LOL
2) the term is typically used by masc/butch lesbians, especially those who are
this includes xenogenders as well, unfortunately some people still crying over those labels
25.01.2025 15:42 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0HI GUYS this acc is 4 any ppl w mspec/contradictory identities to follow!!!! i love yall! its just especially 4 lesboys cuz im one :^)
25.01.2025 15:41 β π 3 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0hi guys lesboys follow me
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