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Kirri

@kirri.bsky.social

Counsellor (BAppSocSc(Couns)), domestic and family violence advocate (GradCertDomFamViolPrac), writer/editor/IG curator, dynamically disabled, concerningly good at Cards Against Humanity

116 Followers  |  151 Following  |  358 Posts  |  Joined: 03.07.2023
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the fact that people were told β€œtoday you are going to an elementary school to lie to teachers and kidnap kids” and didn’t immediately tell their bosses to go fuck themselves is all you need to know about why ICE should be dismantled

10.06.2025 01:44 β€” πŸ‘ 19202    πŸ” 6648    πŸ’¬ 262    πŸ“Œ 192
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Watch the slow motion: it appears to me that the officers discuss the photographer and reporter before the one on the end fires on them (it looks to me like he's aiming at the camera, not the reporter, but you decide)

09.06.2025 02:53 β€” πŸ‘ 13352    πŸ” 5281    πŸ’¬ 1104    πŸ“Œ 1068

Aah, there it is

04.06.2025 23:43 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Community and culture were shown to be major factors in determining outcomes of perpetration - those with strong social supports and positive relationships with other men were less likely to use violence.

It supports what we've been saying: Men, you need to talk.

04.06.2025 00:08 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

120,000 men were surveyed in a longitudinal study and one-third of respondents were prepared to admit they perpetuated abuse in their relationships.

Perpetration increased with age - regardless of cultural background, sexuality, socioeconomic status, etc.

04.06.2025 00:08 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

"This fandom is so dead"
"I need a new fandom"
"No one cares about this thing anymore"

JUST LIKE THINGS
YOU CAN JUST LIKE THINGS

28.05.2025 14:32 β€” πŸ‘ 4838    πŸ” 1888    πŸ’¬ 57    πŸ“Œ 148
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Exhibit B: AI Ella Abomah vs real Ella Abomah (there wasn't even a need to remake this with AI, just why?)

29.05.2025 06:12 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Exhibit A: Who an AI bot wants you to think is Inuit woman Ada Blackjack vs the real Ada Blackjack

29.05.2025 06:09 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Everything about the widespread use of AI is concerning but can we talk about its increasing applications on social media to whitewash history and erase people of colour from their own stories, by replacing them with Caucasian imposters?

29.05.2025 05:59 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Imagine being the moderator of a sub where people discuss awkward fictional pairings, a user expresses discomfort with a 16-year-old dating a 14-year-old, they get dogpiled, but you ban that user and not those dogpiling them for having The Wrong Opinion

18.05.2025 07:33 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

"The first rule of burning down the patriarchy is to never use other women as kindling." - Clementine Ford

And yet

13.05.2025 07:18 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

If you can't even call it by its name, you're never going to change anything.

07.05.2025 02:56 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

A friend who works in crisis support told me that their teams are being trained to use the term "people who use #violence" instead of "#perpetrators" when addressing #domesticviolence.

To which I ask: For whose comfort are you softening the language?

07.05.2025 02:56 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Just one example; I enquired about a certification pathway on a protocol that really spoke to me at the time. They said it’d not only be thousands for the training, but i’d need to β€˜subscribe’ in order to be permitted to practice - at over $200 PER MONTH. That is some bullshit.

06.05.2025 05:42 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Do you reckon we could have a chat about the gatekeeping of training and certification in the therapeutic space? Psychs, counsellors etc. trying to establish themselves are stymied because OPD is so cost-prohibitive.

Seriously, who’s got $3000 to pay PER course? Not just in this economy but ever?

06.05.2025 05:35 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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a woman sitting on a couch looking at a cell phone with the letter m on her jacket ALT: a woman sitting on a couch looking at a cell phone with the letter m on her jacket

Everyone looking at their phones, turning on their TV’s, and opening YouTube tomorrow morning now that they’ve been marked as safe from the Trumpet of Patriots

03.05.2025 12:24 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

While #dutton is wishing #alifrance well for winning his seat and saying she’ll be a good local member, remember that he said she’s β€œunfit for office” and that she uses her #disability as an β€œexcuse”

03.05.2025 11:39 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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I’m sorry for what I said when I was hangry

22.04.2025 02:43 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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I feel personally victimised by Ticketek (Mastercard presale for second show)

22.04.2025 02:04 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Got in after 1.5 hours, kept refreshing to look for tickets, and then I was booted out from the sale.

Someone joined the queue at the minute the sale started, only had around 500 people ahead of them, and got tickets in minutes.

The queue does not exist. It is a concept of a queue.

17.04.2025 04:39 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Explain to me how the number of people ahead of me in the Ticketek queue for Gaga tickets is going UP, not DOWN.

(Bots, it's bots.)

17.04.2025 03:05 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 1
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Today on β€˜shit TikTok pretends it doesn’t see but YOU’D better not fight back against being threatened or else you’ll get the account strike’

02.04.2025 11:49 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

One doesn't need a career in journalism to guess how many people need to view, discuss, and sign off on the front cover (let alone the full issue) before it runs.

The response from ACM was a flaming bag of crap, and you know it.

18.03.2025 21:55 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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@lisamallan.bsky.social Hi, Lisa. As the editor of the Newcastle Herald, can you explain why the paper has continued to run Trumpet of Patriots ads on 50% of the front page, and amplified hateful rhetoric despite clear and large community objection - and more from within your staff?

18.03.2025 21:55 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

(Unfortunately I got stuck into it as I thought I was coming out of a pretty nasty flare and it seems I never learn because it sent me right back into it)

18.03.2025 00:42 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
A gif showing animated character Bugs Bunny walking in a ring and flexing his biceps

A gif showing animated character Bugs Bunny walking in a ring and flexing his biceps

I just pulled my spot cleaner apart to fix the nozzle that stopped dispensing fluids and only hosed half of the kitchen on accident so i'm a BIT of an electronics technician

18.03.2025 00:20 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
A picture of television personality Aisha Tyler captioned with one of her catchphases from the program Whose Line Is It Anyway, "Let's make some stuff up"

A picture of television personality Aisha Tyler captioned with one of her catchphases from the program Whose Line Is It Anyway, "Let's make some stuff up"

Spending money that the country supposedly doesn't have to spare on paper mills to align with personal/financial agenda

09.03.2025 23:40 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
A cropped screenshot from animated series The Simpsons shows a man tearing up with a strained, crinkled face

A cropped screenshot from animated series The Simpsons shows a man tearing up with a strained, crinkled face

Me trying not to make the joke

09.03.2025 22:06 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
A screenshot of a message in a group chat alerting the recipient about a cricket in the toilet

A screenshot of a message in a group chat alerting the recipient about a cricket in the toilet

Some Aussies: Yeah, so everything here can kill ya, big whoop. Hasn’t got me yet. I’ll punch a shark idgaf

Other Aussies:

26.02.2025 10:45 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

None of the problems listed in OP’s post are the fault of transgender people existing.

They are not your problem, but they are your preoccupation.

24.02.2025 21:50 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0