Cait

Thank you! It was a big deal for me!! 🥰

I wasn’t meant to live my life in the shadows of shame. I have a disability and I’m not a failure. That’s all.

I checked the “yes, I have a disability” box on a form for the first time yesterday. This was a huge step for me b/c I’ve struggled to believe I have a legitimate disability. Even after my diagnosis, I struggled to believe that my brain is simply different and I’m not a failure at everything.

I don’t write because I need you to read it. I write because I need to tell my story.

If you’re an audiobook listener and struggling to finish a book, try changing the narrator and see if that helps!

This might be controversial, and sorry if it offends anyone, buuuuut: I switched from the Andy Serkis narration to the Rob Inglis narration of Fellowship, and it’s miles better. 😬 I love Andy and most of his work, but his audiobook recordings are too much for me! 🙉

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Is there a single person out there who is juggling all of this bullshit well?

Happy Valentine’s Day to all who celebrate, I’m sending you a non-toxic love bomb!

And Happy Friday to those who don’t celebrate, may your weekend be free from fascism and capitalism ✌🏻 😘 💖

Go vote for Commander Curls!! He deserves the honor! 🌊

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 yay!!! So excited for you!! 😁😁

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Text chat with my dad this morning:
Dad: Are you still writing?
Me: Yup. Why?
Dad: I read a preface to a novel and it reminded me of you.
Me (joking): Ah cool. Was it good?
Dad: It made me think of you. So yeah.
Me:

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💯

🤣🤣 this is fantastic!

Omgosh yes! Time and energy are my most valuable resources! I refuse to waste them on shenanigans, unless the shenanigans are fun ones 😆

Oooof, gut punch. This is next level! You’re doing great!

Single people who live alone don’t get enough credit for all the life we do without a partner, roommate, family member to help us.
So if this is you, please know I’m proud of you for doing as much as you are!

To the other awards shows, take note of what the Grammys have done to evolve and become a better organization and production. It’s 2025, be better.

They could have left out the corporate tax dodgers who donated to fire relief for a PR bump in favor of the real human hero’s.
But alas…. This is America and my wish remains a fantasy. 🤷🏼‍♀️

I only wish we got to see the inmate firefighters, who also risked their lives for no reward to help save people and homes, honored along with the LA County firefighters on stage. ALL firefighters deserve recognition.

This year’s Grammys were near perfect!! It was a show for the gays, the girls, and Black culture!! It was funny, charming, and heartwarming! Beyoncé finally got her album of the year!! Plus all of the live performances were simply EPIC!! 🤩

Happy Black History Month! Here is my favorite story about a Black American you may not know about: Robert Smalls. He commandeered a confederate ship and sailed himself, his family, and the other enslaved crew and their families to freedom. THROUGH waters controlled by the Confederacy.

Thanks for sharing! I didn’t know this story, and now I do!

I forgive myself for trying so fucking much to keep the peace when all they wanted was war.

My lifestyle would be so much more affordable if I just stopped eating food
🤔

😂😂 I have no idea if this is a foolish bet, but it sure is funny af!

Omgosh AAAALLL of this is so true!! I feel so seen by you all!! 🥰

It truly isn’t you!!
I CANNOT handle TikTok at all. It’s way too overstimulating and overwhelming. I can’t handle the ‘Gram either when the algorithm gets too into reels for my comfort. I’m never on the “for you page” b/c it’s all videos all the time and it’s too much!! 🙈

Dontcha hate it when you’ve got a great therapist and they always call you out on your bullshit b/c that’s what you pay them to do? 🤣

It’s not you. It’s Bsky.

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My poor Commander. He’s gonna need a hug.