Seattle Lad seattlelad - Bluesky Statics

Was half-asleep in bed this morning texting one of the guys who fisted me last night and I texted: “last night was so fun - can’t wait to get naked with you again, daddy”

And then realized I had somehow sent it in my extended family WhatsApp chat 💀

28.02.2026 19:18 — 👍 7 🔁 0 💬 2 📌 0

That said, of course there are certain risks involved with elements of assplay - this IS an extreme kink & I don’t mean to dismiss that. But I do what I can to minimize risks, I overshare with my doctor, I give my hole time to recover between particularly intense weeks… and I sleep just fine ✌️(3/3)

27.02.2026 21:26 — 👍 6 🔁 0 💬 2 📌 0

The idea that fisting inevitably damages your body over time isn’t really rooted in science, just kink-phobic assumptions. Our holes are pretty damn resilient and magical, though! (2/3)

27.02.2026 21:26 — 👍 8 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

Hey thanks! Not at all - heavy assplay doesn’t lead to incontinence; if anything, it makes my sphincter stronger 💪🏻

I know many guys who have fist bottomed for 40 years & still have everything working fine. I know people who are incontinent & have never had so much as a finger up their hole (1/3)

27.02.2026 21:26 — 👍 26 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

There’s nothing disrespectful about coming up to me & saying exactly that: you enjoyed playing with me and want to do so again! Chances are very high that I do too 😉

Also feel free to DM me 🤷‍♂️ My dance card is pretty full but I’m never offended by someone shooting their shot - only flattered 😊

27.02.2026 21:14 — 👍 22 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

I have no interest in being “owned” full-time ✌️

27.02.2026 21:06 — 👍 4 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

I love power dynamics and the trust & intimacy necessarily involved in dom/sub roles, but the healthiest, most sustainable dom/sub arrangements rely on both partners having independence to step outside that dom/sub headspace & then CHOOSE to reenter (and adjust) that dynamic again and again (4/5)

27.02.2026 21:06 — 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

But we’re also both our own people. I’m proudly polyamorous, proudly a slut, proudly vers, proudly a switch… so I’m not interested in being exclusive to one guy… and I’ve got a very full life outside of kink that I have no interest in compromising for a dom/sub dynamic. (3/5)

27.02.2026 21:06 — 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

I don’t generally refer to him as my “dom” because that feels reductive (it’s only one part of our dynamic) - but it’s certainly a core part of our relationship. (2/5)

27.02.2026 21:06 — 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

Depends on how you define “owned.” I’ve got a wonderful lover who keeps my pussy wrecked and my heart full and yeah, in a way, he owns me - I certainly remind him of that often while he’s actively using me however he wants for his pleasure 😈 (1/5)

27.02.2026 21:06 — 👍 28 🔁 1 💬 2 📌 1

I have! Earlier in my hole-stretching journey I did this regularly. Haven’t been quite as into long-term plugging recently - but I do love sleeping plugged, on occasion, after a particularly slutty night, when my hole is well-stretched and full of strangers’ loads 😈

27.02.2026 19:07 — 👍 22 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

I love being a good slutty son for a daddy 😈🥵😉 Happy to engage in this roleplay - I’ve got plenty of daddy issues to tap into haha

27.02.2026 05:45 — 👍 31 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

I enjoy coaching new fist tops from time to time, but it’s not generally something I do with a one-off hookup - it’s more something I’ll do if I have a regular fuck buddy or friend who’s never tried fist topping and wants to explore it 👊

27.02.2026 05:43 — 👍 26 🔁 1 💬 1 📌 0

my hands are medium sized but on the collapsible and soft side 😉🤜

27.02.2026 04:29 — 👍 38 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

would love to try erotic hypno - it’s one of very few kinks I have yet to try on my kink bucket list 😉

27.02.2026 04:25 — 👍 28 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

Use Sniffies to find popular cruising spots; go super late at night; bring a slutty friend to stand lookout if you’re nervous; and have an escape route planned if needed - don’t back yourself into a corner 💁‍♂️

27.02.2026 04:05 — 👍 29 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

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