Poise is the personification of presence.
Itโs what happens when your mind and body stop arguing about where they are.
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Father, husband, night owl, writer.
Poise is the personification of presence.
Itโs what happens when your mind and body stop arguing about where they are.
"Attention without feeling... is only a report."
Mary Oliver on what attention really means โ a gorgeous meditation nested into her gorgeous elegy for her soul-mate www.themarginalian.org/2015/01/20/m...
Watched the first episode of Pluribus. Canโt wait to watch the next, but kinda have to. I think each episode needs space to breathe a bit.
08.11.2025 08:17 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Black Friday tends to get noisy. This oneโs quiet โ intentional, even.
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Harry says โManners maketh manโ in the movie The Kingsman right before the room explodes into violence. A sharp reminder that polish isnโt presence.
In a world like ours, perhaps "method maketh man" โ how you choose, not just how you appear.
Time doesnโt take orders. It just keeps moving. The trick isnโt control โ itโs collaboration. => mikevardy.com/making-peac...
07.11.2025 09:09 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Iโd say that everyone should look into cognitive behavioural therapy but that would mean Iโve fallen into a thinking trap.
07.11.2025 02:22 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Developmental edits just came back for my next book.
The โavoidant adapterโ in me wants to do anything but look at them. But the โsustainable strategistโ in me wants me to make sure that we keep making progress so that we stay on track.
The struggle is real.
We are a one car household, so I have to time it right. And often the stuff thatโs available isnโt something that my picky teenage son will be interested in.
I keep tabs on things, but thatโs usually the extent of it.
We try to use FoodHero and other apps like that, but it doesnโt always work out. So we just plan accordingly and do we do what we can.
06.11.2025 19:23 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0I feel so much better when I go for a daily walk.
06.11.2025 19:11 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Our household has become more intentional about our grocery shopping over the past several years. Trying to buy more local, but yet balancing that by saving money on things that are incidental.
Itโs not a perfect way to go, but we are perfecting it each and every week.
Pretty sure Iโm gonna watch Coco again this weekend.
06.11.2025 19:09 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Itโs a poutine with dinner kind of night, which is a step above a poutine for dinner kind of night.
06.11.2025 01:39 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0โYou never waste time. Time wastes you.โ - Ty Lookwell
05.11.2025 08:36 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0๐๏ธ Just published a new episode of A Productive Conversation: James Kimmel Jr. Talks About The Science of Revenge and the Power of Forgiveness. Have a listen:
05.11.2025 08:34 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Email done with care earns trust. Hear how at the free #ListGrowthSummit (Nov 11โ13). Join us โ sparksummits.com/LGS25-Mike-...
04.11.2025 16:28 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0The opening scene to Weapons is haunting. And the musical choice makes it all the more so.
youtu.be/KGb-wExTzo8?...
Instead of asking myself what I need to do every morning, I drink out of this mug and ask THIS question.
02.11.2025 19:35 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0๐๏ธ Just published a new episode of A Productive Conversation: Hannah Bookbinder Talks About ADHD, Awareness, and Unlocking Inner Superpowers. Have a listen:
29.10.2025 19:26 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0๐๏ธ Just published a new episode of A Productive Conversation: Anthony Verdino Talks About Simplifying CBT and Finding Balance Through Mindful Productivity. Have a listen:
22.10.2025 07:34 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Tonight was a โswitch up the fountain pen rotationโ kind of night.
19.10.2025 04:54 โ ๐ 5 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0I do for this book.
18.10.2025 18:44 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0All things must passโฆ including the week. Going into the weekend with George as my guide.
18.10.2025 03:34 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Been more quiet lately.
Sometimes you have to live the story before you can write it.
Second draft: complete.
๐๏ธ Just published a new episode of A Productive Conversation: Skye Waterson Talks About ADHD, Attention, and Building Systems That Actually Work. Have a listen:
15.10.2025 07:34 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0๐๏ธ Just published a new episode of A Productive Conversation: PM Talks S2E10: Clarity. Have a listen:
08.10.2025 07:34 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Maybe starting revisions of my next book with the acknowledgments wasnโt my best idea.
Easy to write, sureโuntil I got halfway through and started tearing up mid-Focus Fix session.
TimeCrafting Trust members mightโve wondered if I was OK. (Technically yes. Emotionallyโฆ โin progress.โ)
The problem is that I think people will shift permanently to daylight savings time instead of standard time.
I meanโฆ We will get used to it, but I donโt think itโs the ideal time to settle on.
A wonderful way to end the day.
05.10.2025 06:15 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0