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Father, husband, night owl, writer.

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Poise is the personification of presence.

Itโ€™s what happens when your mind and body stop arguing about where they are.

09.11.2025 23:48 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

"Attention without feeling... is only a report."

Mary Oliver on what attention really means โ€“ a gorgeous meditation nested into her gorgeous elegy for her soul-mate www.themarginalian.org/2015/01/20/m...

09.11.2025 05:47 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 22    ๐Ÿ” 4    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Watched the first episode of Pluribus. Canโ€™t wait to watch the next, but kinda have to. I think each episode needs space to breathe a bit.

08.11.2025 08:17 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Black Friday tends to get noisy. This oneโ€™s quiet โ€” intentional, even.

Join the early access list before it opens to everyone else:
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08.11.2025 01:56 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Harry says โ€œManners maketh manโ€ in the movie The Kingsman right before the room explodes into violence. A sharp reminder that polish isnโ€™t presence.

In a world like ours, perhaps "method maketh man" โ€” how you choose, not just how you appear.

08.11.2025 00:06 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Time doesnโ€™t take orders. It just keeps moving. The trick isnโ€™t control โ€” itโ€™s collaboration. => mikevardy.com/making-peac...

07.11.2025 09:09 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Iโ€™d say that everyone should look into cognitive behavioural therapy but that would mean Iโ€™ve fallen into a thinking trap.

07.11.2025 02:22 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Developmental edits just came back for my next book.

The โ€œavoidant adapterโ€ in me wants to do anything but look at them. But the โ€œsustainable strategistโ€ in me wants me to make sure that we keep making progress so that we stay on track.

The struggle is real.

06.11.2025 20:32 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

We are a one car household, so I have to time it right. And often the stuff thatโ€™s available isnโ€™t something that my picky teenage son will be interested in.

I keep tabs on things, but thatโ€™s usually the extent of it.

06.11.2025 19:29 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

We try to use FoodHero and other apps like that, but it doesnโ€™t always work out. So we just plan accordingly and do we do what we can.

06.11.2025 19:23 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I feel so much better when I go for a daily walk.

06.11.2025 19:11 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Our household has become more intentional about our grocery shopping over the past several years. Trying to buy more local, but yet balancing that by saving money on things that are incidental.

Itโ€™s not a perfect way to go, but we are perfecting it each and every week.

06.11.2025 19:10 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Pretty sure Iโ€™m gonna watch Coco again this weekend.

06.11.2025 19:09 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Itโ€™s a poutine with dinner kind of night, which is a step above a poutine for dinner kind of night.

06.11.2025 01:39 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

โ€œYou never waste time. Time wastes you.โ€ - Ty Lookwell

05.11.2025 08:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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James Kimmel Jr. Talks About The Science of Revenge and the Power of Forgiveness In this episode of A Productive Conversation, I sit down with James...

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05.11.2025 08:34 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Email done with care earns trust. Hear how at the free #ListGrowthSummit (Nov 11โ€“13). Join us โ†’ sparksummits.com/LGS25-Mike-...

04.11.2025 16:28 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Weapons (2025) Opening Scene 1080p HD
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The opening scene to Weapons is haunting. And the musical choice makes it all the more so.

youtu.be/KGb-wExTzo8?...

04.11.2025 16:26 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Instead of asking myself what I need to do every morning, I drink out of this mug and ask THIS question.

02.11.2025 19:35 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Hannah Bookbinder Talks About ADHD, Awareness, and Unlocking Inner Superpowers In this episode, I sit down with Hannah Bookbinder, founder of...

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ Just published a new episode of A Productive Conversation: Hannah Bookbinder Talks About ADHD, Awareness, and Unlocking Inner Superpowers. Have a listen:

29.10.2025 19:26 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Anthony Verdino Talks About Simplifying CBT and Finding Balance Through Mindful Productivity In this episode of A Productive Conversation, I sit down with Anthony...

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22.10.2025 07:34 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Tonight was a โ€œswitch up the fountain pen rotationโ€ kind of night.

19.10.2025 04:54 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I do for this book.

18.10.2025 18:44 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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All things must passโ€ฆ including the week. Going into the weekend with George as my guide.

18.10.2025 03:34 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Been more quiet lately.
Sometimes you have to live the story before you can write it.
Second draft: complete.

16.10.2025 02:45 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Skye Waterson Talks About ADHD, Attention, and Building Systems That Actually Work When youโ€™re managing ADHDโ€”or simply navigating the distractions of...

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ Just published a new episode of A Productive Conversation: Skye Waterson Talks About ADHD, Attention, and Building Systems That Actually Work. Have a listen:

15.10.2025 07:34 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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PM Talks S2E10: Clarity This episode is the latest in our monthly series PM Talks, where Patrick...

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08.10.2025 07:34 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Maybe starting revisions of my next book with the acknowledgments wasnโ€™t my best idea.

Easy to write, sureโ€”until I got halfway through and started tearing up mid-Focus Fix session.

TimeCrafting Trust members mightโ€™ve wondered if I was OK. (Technically yes. Emotionallyโ€ฆ โ€œin progress.โ€)

07.10.2025 21:03 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

The problem is that I think people will shift permanently to daylight savings time instead of standard time.

I meanโ€ฆ We will get used to it, but I donโ€™t think itโ€™s the ideal time to settle on.

05.10.2025 16:28 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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A wonderful way to end the day.

05.10.2025 06:15 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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