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Andre Vlok

@andrevlok.bsky.social

Conflict and employment dispute specialist, negotiator, mediator, arbitrator, author Email : andre@conflict1.co.za Blog : http://conflict-conversations.co.za

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Heading home

11.10.2025 05:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Saving PortElizabeth...some straight talk in my weekly column in today's Herald newspaper ๐Ÿ“ฐโ˜•๏ธ

10.10.2025 06:52 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Early morning beach walk, with summer slowly settling in

09.10.2025 05:08 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 11    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Be careful โ˜•๏ธ

08.10.2025 04:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Book excerpt Skylines: the modern urban conflict manual - The Conflict Conversations

An excerpt from Chapter 1 from my latest book, Skylines: the modern urban conflict manual ๐Ÿ“š โ˜•

www.conflict-conversations.co.za/conversation...

06.10.2025 09:41 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

An excellent route, Mark. Unique beauty

03.10.2025 11:02 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Pics from my recent roadtrip through the Eastern and Northern Cape provinces of South Africa. Very rural, with a rough, awe-inspiring beauty in places. Also, a cool little bookshop and some treasures

03.10.2025 08:19 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Outdated workplace conflict and HR systems, and the harm it does. My weekly column in today's Herald newspaper ๐Ÿ“ฐโ˜•๏ธ

03.10.2025 07:10 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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In my weekly column in today's Herald newspaper....keeping an eye on polarization โ˜•๏ธ๐Ÿ“ฐ

26.09.2025 04:58 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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A surprising, but ultimately inspiring contribution to my theoretical and consulting work...storytelling as conflict tool. My 2024 article in Business Talk

25.09.2025 16:39 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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My series on modern Chinese conflict management and what we should be learning from it continues in the October edition of Business Talk

25.09.2025 12:10 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Gaslighting...the early years

25.09.2025 08:28 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Still icy, but edging towards summer

23.09.2025 05:52 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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In my weekly column in this Friday's Herald newspaper we look at the dangers of polarization, and how we can limit it in our lives ๐Ÿ“ฐโ˜•๏ธ

22.09.2025 07:31 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Time to start working on the next one ๐Ÿ“š๐Ÿ˜‰

20.09.2025 04:33 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 7    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Midday fresh air break ๐Ÿ•๐Ÿ•

19.09.2025 12:22 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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What do we learn from assassinations like that of Charlie Kirk, and our own long list of victims of political violence? My weekly column in today's Herald newspaper takes a look at some of the lessons, and solutions, that are available ๐Ÿ“ฐโ˜•๏ธ

19.09.2025 07:29 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Icy early morning beach walk. A great start to the day

17.09.2025 05:50 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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After a few months break from writing books, I am ready to return to that part of my work. And what an idea I have for the new book...

10.09.2025 10:11 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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I've never been great at conflict resolution. Not without a blade and several roles of plastic wrap.

Dexter

09.09.2025 17:55 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Priorities ๐Ÿ˜‰

08.09.2025 06:58 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Time and space for deep, slow thinking, The value of solitude. The perfect start to a busy week

08.09.2025 05:32 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Presenting a two day conflict workshop for the education environment...in this beautiful environment

07.09.2025 09:24 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Changing our relationship with conflict...my article in this morning's Herald newspaper ๐Ÿ“ฐโ˜•๏ธ

05.09.2025 05:48 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Another app reminds me of these debates and battles in 2021. Some of it still feels surreal

03.09.2025 09:48 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Much of our current political crisis management seeks to provide stop-gap solutions before important preliminary conflict work has been achieved. This is trying to build our house on shifting sands.

My recent Business Talk article on conflict in a lawless environment ๐Ÿ“ฐโ˜•๏ธ

03.09.2025 09:42 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Conflict resolution can therefore be regarded as a hedge against social entropy, and a means for translating the chaos of conflict into personal, relational and social evolution.

Kenneth Cloke

02.09.2025 19:25 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Spring has arrived. Early morning beach walk

02.09.2025 15:02 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Working on a Saturday. The hard life ๐Ÿ˜‰

30.08.2025 08:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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My weekly column in today's Herald newspaper continues the series on a few general conflict techniques. This week we take a brief look at workplace insubordination โ˜•๏ธ๐Ÿ“ฐ

29.08.2025 11:50 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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