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Finally getting around to being here sad about TT Family caregiver to my dementia dad isolated at home need community & friendship too

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Decided to sleep in and why do I feel like I didnโ€™t sleep at all ๐Ÿ˜… happy lunar new year ๐Ÿงง๐Ÿงง๐Ÿงง๐Ÿงง

17.02.2026 18:24 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Good for you!!

11.02.2026 00:52 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Thatโ€™s so sad. I could never survive without my space heater. I feel like they all have anti-tripping things nowadays or they turn off automatically.

10.02.2026 19:40 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Week 3 of trying to go to a daily meeting stayed up late but Iโ€™m here at the meeting didnโ€™t skip or forget :) yay day 8 / 90

10.02.2026 09:23 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

It is really infuriating to see how misogyny really does unite men across the sociopolitical spectrum. And, in so far as the Epstein files go, they sort women into two categories: fuckable or irrelevant. When they near a hint of accountability they complain about not being able to make women prey.

05.02.2026 19:33 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 7533    ๐Ÿ” 1848    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 152    ๐Ÿ“Œ 63

Stressing out Still woke up with a terrible tummy ache I cannot stop thinking about the thing that I have to hurry up and wait on 30 days Appeal process.

02.02.2026 16:24 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I feel like everybody moved to there . Whatโ€™s wrong with Substack now? ๐Ÿ™ƒ

31.01.2026 22:14 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I thought I signed up for a class and now I canโ€™t find the log in but Iโ€™m up early lol

31.01.2026 16:14 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Unable to eat so sad

30.01.2026 05:15 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Just found out my dad got denied care ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ’” why do they do this stress out his only caregiver and lie too he has dementia yes he doesnโ€™t wander but he needs more care than 25 hours a week unfortunately so stressed & worried

30.01.2026 03:24 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Ceramic mushroom sculpture, about 1.5 feet tall.

Ceramic mushroom sculpture, about 1.5 feet tall.

The mushroom lamp is switched on.

The mushroom lamp is switched on.

I sculpted and wired a ceramic mushroom lamp!
#ceramics

28.01.2026 17:41 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 500    ๐Ÿ” 128    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 19    ๐Ÿ“Œ 4

Wow, I canโ€™t imagine making 30 phone calls in a day or in a row. Just making one I need an actual nap.

28.01.2026 23:12 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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a sheep wears a yellow bucket on its head Alt: a sheep wears a yellow bucket on its head

THERE IS SO MUCH MISINFORMATION BEING SHARED ON HERE ๐Ÿ˜’

USE DISCERNMENT ๐Ÿ™„

BlueSky is becoming one big cesspool of fear mongering lies ๐Ÿคฅ

FB vibes ๐Ÿคฎ

Research everything ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘
Stop playing follow the leader ๐Ÿ˜ฎโ€๐Ÿ’จ

28.01.2026 23:08 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 11    ๐Ÿ” 2    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Any one listening to the walkers first time in ages I needed the next chapter NOW and

28.01.2026 23:10 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

At this point if I was abducted by aliens ๐Ÿ‘ฝ๐Ÿ›ธI would consider it a rescue mission.

28.01.2026 00:57 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3486    ๐Ÿ” 474    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 154    ๐Ÿ“Œ 32

Iโ€™m considering putting on meds yโ€™all I am struggling remind me to talk to my therapist about it next week

28.01.2026 05:09 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I just stopped looking at the news and put on a serial killer documentary to relax.

27.01.2026 18:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1879    ๐Ÿ” 201    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 134    ๐Ÿ“Œ 19

Missed the meeting last night I guess back to day 1 :( instead of day 8 considering the random comments, Iโ€™m getting on YouTube maybe a good thing

27.01.2026 17:06 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Got a 2nd trans phobic comment by another user this is so odd because Iโ€™m not talking about gender or LGBTQ issues. My page is not about being trans. I am not trans but complete strangers are talking about me being trans because I have facial hair so on YouTube

27.01.2026 17:05 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Decided to do a 90 in 90 since Iโ€™m depresiรณn at the moment but I have a tummyache and distracted and missed my favorite meeting because I was doing 3 things at once ugh ๐Ÿ˜ค

27.01.2026 05:19 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Trying to use YouTube as Tiktok and Iโ€™ve got a trans phobic comment. Iโ€™m not trans. I never get comments too, so itโ€™s like my first comment. ๐Ÿ™

26.01.2026 21:41 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

My brother is watching Dad, so that I canโ€™t get respite at all. And Iโ€™m really missing my Dad.
Bed rotting Letโ€™s get up. Iโ€™m gonna go check on my dog that has been sleeping on Dad bed. Maybe he misses Dad too.

25.01.2026 22:35 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Damn, they even updated the lemonade app, but it does say powered by Tiktok I was dumb, and I didnโ€™t follow everybody on the other apps

I still need to delete it off my phone. Not writing up. Didnโ€™t back up anything.

25.01.2026 07:53 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I think a lot of us get hope wrong. Hope, I do not believe, is an emotion. In fact, hope makes space for lots of emotions to exist alongside it. You can DO hope scared, angry, sad etc...

Hope doesn't find us. We make hope through action and struggle. It's a practice of living and is re-made daily.

25.01.2026 02:05 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5164    ๐Ÿ” 1810    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 62    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I donโ€™t lol

25.01.2026 01:57 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Well, I have looked at the news today. I'm going back to bed.

24.01.2026 17:30 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5200    ๐Ÿ” 252    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 136    ๐Ÿ“Œ 12

We all know someone like Alex in our lives. We all have an Alex in our lives.

24.01.2026 19:53 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 521    ๐Ÿ” 60    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 9    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I slept seven hours last night. Iโ€™m pretty sure itโ€™s because I am not on TikTok. Just wanted to make the observation. Staying off of TikTok today too. Taking it one day at a time.

24.01.2026 17:50 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Iโ€™m having a really hard time eating lately what are the kinds of things you eat and you canโ€™t eat and everything sounds awful. Iโ€™ve been having a lot of peanut butter toast, for example

24.01.2026 02:17 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Day one off have been dying to get on all day trying my best

24.01.2026 02:15 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0