Diaper laddd

when you think about it, there's no real evidence that I sleep in diapers 🤫

thought I was past needing these 😪

insisting that the whole nappy thing is unnecessary vs. waking up and finding out that it's not 🫣

Nice AI art, @tykables.com

Will not be purchasing your products again and will be encouraging friends to do the same.

Our community is based around real art and expression. I will not support brands that cut corners with AI content and devalue the art that makes our community meaningful.

Omg Howl's Moving Castle and a padded eve, this is such a vibeee

Playing minecraft so I can build myself a world where I'm not kept in nappies

*reposting as a fairly unkindly worded message did point out that without an interraction label this is going to appear in minecraft feeds which is fair enough*

i know it's probably a small minority but nonetheless i don't want to be bracketed together with people openly and unashamedly fetishising other people's medical conditions

just seen a post on the adult bedwetting subreddit about how abdls have been bullying/harassing the folks who post about their issues there… i'm over a lot of the shame i feel about being abdl but damn, embarrassed to see people in our community behaving this way :/

not to use an oxymoron but if i have to be in these can i have some more adult looking nappies?

and that's how you get teased for being a major dork 🤭

yeah thought sooooo

hmmm is someone compensating for their dire need to put a big ol nappy on for bed every night? 🤔

i think we should be putting more faith in my ability to not wet the bed 🙃

what if I just did a really good job of not wetting the bed?

it's true, but at the cost of my dignity?

ambitions for sexy and cool, stuck with embarrassing and cute 😮‍💨

being nappied for bed is embarrassing but apparently that's just how it is when you're staying away from home 🫠🫣

someone needs to come pat my bum in these pretty soon tbh

uhhh we got any less embarrassing pjs that i could wear??

same nappies chris hughes wore on cbb fyiiii

any advice on how to communicate more effectively or in a way that's sustainable for me would be much appreciated - and please feel free to say what I'm getting wrong here.

Also if I haven't responded to a message from you, feel free to send me a follow up as I literally never mind being nudged :))

it's not that I just hate the idea that people are mad at me (although tbh I do dislike the feeling), but clearly I'm messing people around in terms of their expectations and it doesn't feel good when you're waiting uncertainly for someone to pick up the conversation again -

10/?

- I experience periods when frequent messaging about kink or being obliged to message does make me uneasy
- because there are lots of kinksters out there, I'm probably chatting to a few people and I expect others are doing the same, so sometimes chats get buried and go undiscovered for a while

9/?

basically, I want to be able to explore & chat w people, & look into forming kinky relationships/friendships, but I also want it to be clear that:
- my relationship, friendships, and family take up a large portion of my life
- my work and ambitions for my work also take up a lot of time

8/?

-evidently I'm failing at being basically kind to people, because I've literally upset some kinky folks a few times now. Ultimately I think what I'm doing wrong creating is a commitment by expressing interest in meeting up, when I should explain my relationship with kink/being open more clearly

7/?

It feels weird to say that your personal life has taken precedence to someone you've messaged a couple times, or that it feels safer to explore kink privately for a while after expressing an interest in meeting up. In a lot of cases, we don't even know each other's names. On the other hand-

6/?

Basically, I want to be able to chat with people and potentially explore further, but for some folks it feels like 20 mins of chatting one day creates an obligation to then keep them in a loop going forwards. I think I want the tools to better communicate how I function as a kinky person

5/?

I suppose my understanding of it is that kink and often takes the backseat to other things. Someone might be feeling very invested in exploring kinks one day, but the rest of their life might take priority the next day, or they need to take a step back from kink for a while.

4/?

Obviously if plans have been made, I'll communicate directly & up-front (and often find that I'm the person waiting to find out if pre-communicated plans are happening or not), but I still feel I'm misleading folks when we talk about the possibility of exploring/meeting & then don't follow up

3/?

A lot of my kinky pals are go-with-the-flow type people, and if we don't hear from each other or get back to each other regularly, it's not a big deal. But there are lots of cases where I'll message someone briefly and it'll trail off, often because of me -

2/?