Soma 💛

I'm unconvinced, you'll need to prove it a few more times for me

I really appreciate that whenever an absurd CBT contraption graces the timeline, I have multiple friends who will message me about it 🥰

Since he's also posted your material behind the paywall of his @justfor.fans page, it sure seems like that would be an explicit DMCA violation. I'd highly recommend following their steps for reporting it.

justfor.fans/legal?tab=p-...

I see it's time to share this again

bsky.app/profile/sead...

Suppose I'll just float it out there that this is ~extremely~ relevant to my interests and expertise

if you're looking for something to do tomorrow night

or whenever really

Agreed on all your points. Having experience on both sides of these scenes has helped me understand the commitment that is needed to play safely and how to mitigate potential issues. I hope that my regular play partners see me as sometime willing to put similar energy into scenes as what I ask for.

... and are likewise willing to give me guidance on how to best take care of their wants and needs.

There's certainly a "wrong way" to seek a scene, especially without an established relationship, but that directness has made my recent play a lot more fun and fulfilling than being afraid to ask.

Navigating the "well, we're both switches, now what" conundrum is always a bit tricky, but it's much easier when there's an willingness to engage from both parties. I'm grateful to have some close friends who, in recent months, have helped me rediscover the confidence to ask for things I enjoy ...

Still gimp, but now with even more straps and electro added

(Picture is from a delightful overnight scene years ago with @intogear.bsky.social . Here's a bonus photo of the "wake-up call" I received in the morning.)

Gimp, strapped securely to a cot, inside a neatly and tightly laced neoprene sleepsack

Discussion: How does one seek/negotiate long-term bondage scenes as a sub? For several reasons (logistics, safety management, reduced "active" interactions, feeling like a burden) I rarely feel confident asking. Any tips, especially from those who enjoy providing this kind of scene?

Not to be pedantic, but this looks like more than "almost" forced 🐶

Pretty sure I know which 😉

Did you know that Major League Baseball teams play 162 games a year? He suffered through an entire season!

I was on the outside of the sack, but he had to wait until the next morning before he was given an opportunity to cum. 😈

I believe it is this inflatable sleepsack sold by Studio Gum:
www.studiogum.com/Bondage-Bag/...

After a long work week sometimes all you want to do is kick back, put your feet up, and be denied an orgasm 162 times.

🚫💦: @crewbiker.bsky.social

Come back over and I'll remind you of yours :)

A dashingly handsome rubber dog kneeling while wearing a funnel hood filled with an unknown yellow liquid

Every once in a while, I have to prove that all the yellow gear is more than just a fashion statement.

🌊📸: @pupslugger.bsky.social

Glowing reflections of time spent programmed in my own facility.

📷: @mattinrubber.bsky.social
🔝: @onirim.bsky.social / @mattinrubber.bsky.social

"I bet you're reeeaaalll proud of yourself." -- a gimp who has just realized there's no way he's going to cum in his scene

Helpless

📸 @lockedsoma.bsky.social

My MIR weekend kicked off by loading the car after work and starting it to find out my catalytic converter got stolen, so that's neat

Anyway, on to searching for scenes that make me forget the real world exists

After an 11 mile hike in August, @lockedsoma.bsky.social and @mischiefpup.bsky.social enjoyed some outdoor sleepsack time. After the sun set, they eventually got some sacked star gazing too.

Halfway through. The things I knew would be tough have indeed been very tough to face, but I'm thankful for friends who've kept watch and pulled me out of some of my thousand-yard stare moments. Very appreciative of all who've made this fun so far and looking forward to more new experiences. 💛

A decade later and still one of the best ballbusting scenes that I've been on the receiving end of :)

dumb yellow dog making heart shape with hands

So, that's the goal. Let's make special things happen. I'll be showing up with a head full of ideas and a car full of gear, but ultimately it's about connecting and sharing in all that kink brings out of us. I hope I can live up to my word, and I hope this will be my best event yet. 💛

I want to play my part in making some special moments happen this week. Over the past few months in particular, I've had a number of scenes and experiences that have been truly special. And it's been made clear that they were special times for others, too. That truly means the world to me.

If there's a single thought from that post that's stuck with me the most, it's the need to ask myself "What am I building here?" Thinking about that question has helped change my outlook and my goals for the upcoming weekend.

One thing that's helped was reading @trikoot.net 's recent post about searching for meaning in kink. I highly recommend reading it if you haven't. It put words to feelings that I (and many others, I suspect) have felt when it comes to difficulties and frustration in seeking fulfillment through kink.

Even though my personal circumstances now are entirely different, going back this year feels like getting back onto a horse that bucked and trampled me. I've been all over the place emotionally for the past couple weeks, and I'm uncertain exactly what the event itself holds in store for me.