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@shduetzmann.bsky.social

Founder of EngagedFamilyGaming.com | Helping parents connect with their kids through games! Runs SideQuestSolutions.org | Helping small biz owners grow with SEO & content!

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We are bringing our biggest ever Family Gaming Zone back to EGX! South Hall S1680.

Over 100 games to choose from with experts on hand to suggest titles, explain PEGI and parental controls for consoles, Roblox and PC. www.familygamingdatabase.com/Family+Gamin...

See you there? Shares welcome.

21.10.2025 16:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 35    ๐Ÿ” 24    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 11
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Guesting builds authority without the grind. Podcasts, blogs, and interviews let you tap into new audiences and borrow trust. The key isnโ€™t just showing up. Itโ€™s nailing your pitch, prepping well, and delivering value so your name carries further every time.

02.10.2025 00:35 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Stuck staring at a blank content calendar? Download the Content Kickstarter Kit โ€” your 3-step reset to plan 30 days of scroll-stopping content in under an hour.

Itโ€™s basically batching with a built-in multiplier: one deep dive turns into five snack-sized bits that travel farther, faster.

side-quest-solutions.kit.com/contentkicks...

30.09.2025 22:05 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Stuck staring at a blank content calendar? Download the Content Kickstarter Kit โ€” your 3-step reset to plan 30 days of scroll-stopping content in under an hour.

Distribute across platformsโ€”Instagram, LinkedIn, TikTok, X, whatever matches your audience.

Repeat weekly so each long piece earns five times the visibility without reinventing the wheel.

30.09.2025 22:05 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Stuck staring at a blank content calendar? Download the Content Kickstarter Kit โ€” your 3-step reset to plan 30 days of scroll-stopping content in under an hour.

Examples:

A quote pulled from the text.
A key stat or bold claim framed as a quick post.
A short story or example clipped from the longer piece.
A โ€œhow-toโ€ step broken out visually in a carousel.
A teaser hook repurposed for a short video script.

30.09.2025 22:05 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Stuck staring at a blank content calendar? Download the Content Kickstarter Kit โ€” your 3-step reset to plan 30 days of scroll-stopping content in under an hour.

What the Longform โ†’ 5 Shorts System Is

Think of it as content recycling with structure:

Start with one long piece (blog, article, podcast transcript).

Extract five smaller takesโ€”each one stands on its own.

30.09.2025 22:05 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Stuck staring at a blank content calendar? Download the Content Kickstarter Kit โ€” your 3-step reset to plan 30 days of scroll-stopping content in under an hour.

Your longform blog post doesnโ€™t have to be a one-and-done.

With the Longform โ†’ 5 Shorts system, one article can fuel a week of content (micro-posts, quotes, carousels, or reels) all ready for socials.

Want the full breakdown? Grab the Content Kickstart Kit when you sign up for the Weekly Quest Log

30.09.2025 22:05 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Stuck staring at a blank content calendar? Download the Content Kickstarter Kit โ€” your 3-step reset to plan 30 days of scroll-stopping content in under an hour.

3 posts a week = predictable but powerful. Pillar + Engagement + Offer keeps your feed fresh. Want my 15-minute setup template? Download the Content Kickstart Kit by signing up for the Weekly Quest Log.

side-quest-solutions.kit.com/contentkicks...

29.09.2025 22:02 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Celebrate with us! Our biggest @officialpax.bsky.social Family Gaming Room:
๐Ÿ•น๏ธ 100s PS5/Xbox/Switch games
โ™ฟ Accessible Tech from Respawn
๐Ÿ”ฅ Games from @wholesomegames.com
๐ŸŽฏ Parental controls and @esrb.org explainer sessions
โœ๏ธ So many Guestbook comments

www.familygamingdatabase.com/search/list/...

08.09.2025 10:46 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 59    ๐Ÿ” 35    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 5
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Ludocene: A Game Discovery Tool for Family-Friendly Video Games โ€“ Engaged Family Gaming Discover how Ludocene helps families find the best kid-friendly video games. Smart swipes, real reviews, and trusted recommendations for every age.

Ludocene, a free tool for game discovery, is live!

engagedfamilygaming.com/parent-resou...

06.08.2025 13:14 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Very, very excited to share the launch of Ludocene.

This is a curated game selection engine that will absolutely help you and your family find your next favorite game!

06.08.2025 13:11 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

My nickname in highschool was "Duetzmania."

28.07.2025 16:10 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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The goal isnโ€™t to be a great gamer.
Itโ€™s to be their person.
The one who shows up.
The one who cares.
The one who says:
โ€œI see how hard youโ€™re trying. Keep going.โ€

28.07.2025 16:09 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Think like a sports parent.
You donโ€™t need to play soccer to cheer from the sidelines.
Same goes for games:
โ€ข Ask about their strategy
โ€ข Applaud their effort
โ€ข Support their growth
This is practiceโ€”just with pixels.

28.07.2025 16:09 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Let them be the teacher.
Say: โ€œI donโ€™t get itโ€”can you show me?โ€
When your kid explains a mechanic or teaches you a move, they learn it better.
Youโ€™re building confidence and communication skills.

28.07.2025 16:09 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Learn alongside them.
If theyโ€™re stuck, look it up together.
โ€ข Google the level
โ€ข Find a walkthrough
โ€ข Watch a tutorial
Youโ€™re not just helping them solve the problemโ€”youโ€™re modeling how to figure things out.

28.07.2025 16:09 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Be their cheer squad.
Sit beside them. Watch them play.
Celebrate wins. Validate frustration.
They donโ€™t need a coach.
They need to know youโ€™re paying attention.

28.07.2025 16:09 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Ask, donโ€™t advise.
You donโ€™t have to know how to win. Just ask:
โ€ข โ€œWhatโ€™s your plan?โ€
โ€ข โ€œWhatโ€™s the hard part?โ€
โ€ข โ€œHow would you explain this to someone else?โ€
Questions like these build strategy and problem-solving skills.

28.07.2025 16:09 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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You donโ€™t need to be good at games to help your kid get better at them.

Seriously.

Even if youโ€™ve never touched a controllerโ€”or you fall off every platformโ€”you can still be a great gaming parent.

๐ŸงตHereโ€™s how:

28.07.2025 16:09 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

@writualmagic.bsky.social inspired me!

1 like = 1 piece of Stephen Duetzmann lore.

28.07.2025 16:05 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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The game is probably not broken. What to do when your kids get stuck in video games. #parenting #videogames #videogame #greenscreen TikTok video by EngagedFamilyGaming

I made a TikTok for the TL;DR crowd.

www.tiktok.com/@engagedfami...

23.07.2025 18:43 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Next time you hear:

โ€œThis game is broken!โ€

Try this first.

The game probably isnโ€™t broken.

Theyโ€™re just learning how to figure it out.

โœจ Thatโ€™s gaming. And thatโ€™s growth.

23.07.2025 18:41 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Helping them beat the level is great.

But helping them push through frustration?
Thatโ€™s the win that lasts way longer.

Problem-solving > rage quitting.

23.07.2025 18:41 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

How to really help them get unstuck:

โ€ข Search with specific keywords
โ€ข Watch a walkthrough together
โ€ข Browse Reddit or GameFAQs
โ€ข Use it as a teaching moment

23.07.2025 18:41 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Is it actually a bug?

Glitches do happen.

If something wonโ€™t load, or a quest wonโ€™t trigger, try:

โ€ข Googling the issue
โ€ข Checking fan forums

It might not be their fault at all.

23.07.2025 18:41 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Is it a skill issue?

This isnโ€™t a digโ€”itโ€™s part of gaming!

Some parts just take:
โ€ข Practice
โ€ข Timing
โ€ข A deep breath

Remind them:
Theyโ€™re not bad at games.
Theyโ€™re just still learning.

23.07.2025 18:41 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Did they miss a clue?

Games often hide key info in dialogue or environment details.

Ask:
โ€ข Did you skip a cutscene?
โ€ข Check your quest log?
โ€ข Look around for hidden paths or triggers?

23.07.2025 18:41 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Kids say "broken" when theyโ€™re stuck.

But the issue usually falls into one of three buckets:

๐Ÿ” Missed a clue
๐ŸŽฎ Skill challenge
๐Ÿž Actual bug (yes, sometimes!)

23.07.2025 18:41 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

โ€œTHIS GAME IS BROKEN!โ€

If you're a parent, you've heard this during a meltdown over a video game.

Before you delete it, unplug it, or throw the controller out the window...

Letโ€™s talk about whatโ€™s really going on. ๐Ÿงต

23.07.2025 18:41 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Understanding Gaming Microtransactions: What Parents of Teens Need to Know โ€“ Engaged Family Gaming As console and PC games evolve, so do their business models. For parents of teens and pre-teens (13-17),

Stephen @shduetzmann.bsky.social from EFGโ€ฌ has shared an excellent article aimed at parents who are finding it difficult to grasp their children's in-app or game purchasing habits. You can read more here:

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#parents #news #videogames #microtransactions #finance #kids

29.05.2025 14:46 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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