Flash (they/them)

Submission starts with choice.
It starts from strength.

What is given freely
carries more power than anything taken.

#PowerInSurrender #KinkPositive #submissive #chastity #teamlocked

Step 1: basic routine. Walk, fresh air, shower, eat, drink. Housework in small doses. Do something you enjoy, today I'm baking brown butter chocolate chip cookies. Tonight I'm hosting a charity event - today I find balance and reorientation.

The choice is always yours where you stand in life. Radical self-acceptance is not forcing yourself to be happy, it is recognising where you are right now and meeting yourself there with honesty and care. From that place, real change begins.

#pawsitivity #humanpup #humanpuppy

Sometimes you need to think on your own and make your own choices for a while. Questioning a core belief I've had most of my life. This deserves presence.

End of an era

#chastity #uncaged

Uncertainty is hard, especially when you crave safety. Be gentle with yourself while things are unclear. You are allowed to pause, feel, and move forward slowly.

#pawsitivity #humanpup #humanpuppy

Something fundamental changed. I felt the need to pause instead of giving from habit. No clarity yet.

I stayed with the pause.

#pawsitivity #humanpup #humanpuppy

Something is better than nothing *hugs* proud of you pupper.

Being held doesn’t always look like being understood.

#pawsitivity #humanpup #humanpuppy

You have power over your mind, not the chaos around you. Focus on what you can control - your thoughts, your actions, your wag. Realise this, and you’ll find a strength that no storm can shake.

#pawsitivity #humanpup #humanpuppy

YouTube video by European Puppy and Handler Beyond The Bark – An Intro to Events | Your First Puppy Play Event

I was honoured to be part of the pilot episode hosted by @enigmaesq.bsky.social, alongside @spar-ky.bsky.social

We spoke about first #puppyplay / #fetish #events easing nerves, preparation and choosing what feels right for you.

#community #consent #education #humanpup #humanpuppy

Anger showed up today.
I didn’t turn it into resentment or a lesson.
I listened, spoke plainly, and stayed with my body while it passed through.

#pawsitivity #humanpup #humanpuppy

Proud to see RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! nominated for Fetish Media of the Year at the X-Awards.

Honest, sober-inclusive conversations in kink spaces matter.

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#KinkPodcast #SoberKink #FetishCommunity #MentalHealthMatters #SexPositive

Dog on a plane!!!!

The charity cycle is over and time for the trip home. It is always sad leaving Gran Canaria and my.chosen family in Maspalomas.

#humanpup #humanpuppy #pupplay #dogsonaplane

You are allowed to move at the speed of trust.

#pawsitivity #humanpup #humanpuppy

So the 22nd was my birthday but I was slightly distracted doing a 2 day charity cycle in Gran Canaria with @pupemrys.bsky.social. tonight I finally got changed to enjoy the birthday cake (protein bars) our puppy got me.

Halfway up a mountain - 3h13m into the cycle and the views are breathtaking

#chastity #gay #cycling #teamlocked #chastityclub #lycra

Today is the day! Day 1 is a 95km cycle from the South of Gran Canaria to the North through the middle. In #chastity too; canny express how comfy @kink3d are for me doing sports and endurance exercises.

#teamlocked #chastityclub #lockedsub #gay #cycling

I wish easyJet had data on their flights to make the mile high #cagecheck easier 😈. Either they have changed their mirrors of being back in the gym is showing in my arms already after a few short weeks back.

#chastityclub #teamlocked #musclepup #chastity

DOG ON A PLANE!!!!

Time for the plane ride to do the charity cycle ride tomorrow and Friday.

#humanpup #humanpuppy

If your thoughts are racing, name three ordinary things you can see. Neutral is fine.

#pawsitivity #humanpup #humanpuppy

Short-term sacrifices can feel challenging, but they are the steps toward your long-term dreams. Stay focused, keep your determination close, and trust the journey. You are building something meaningful for your future.

#pawsitivity #humanpup #humanpuppy

Final gym session before the 200-odd kilometre cycle on Thursday and Friday. I’m musky, worked, and fully charged. I’m taking applications for a massage and a willing cock I can use for my pleasure. Step forward if you can keep up

#humanpup #humanpuppy #musclepup #chastity #chastityclub #teamlocked

Casual intimacy isn’t easy for me. Last night I listened to myself, gave permission where it felt right, and stayed present rather than pushing or avoiding. That felt good.

Today’s practice is care, not achievement. Banana bread with cinnamon butter.

#pawsitivity

A morning of self love baking some chocolate orange cookies, vibing to tunes, all after an intense week of work *chefs kiss*

#humanpup #humanpuppy

Today I noticed the guilt that came with admitting I have a problem. I didn’t dress it up as courage or growth. I let the discomfort be there and stayed honest with myself anyway.

#pawsitivity #humanpup #humanpuppy

Heard you need a service pup? On my way *wag*

#chastity #teamlocked #humanpup #chastityclub

*blush* thank you for saying - he is adorable and it's warming to have him around just being dogs.

Oh hell yes! I feel larger parts of the gay community are so hung up on age. It's a mindset and TBH people who are older are generally more experienced so more fun, in my opinion.

huff! TBH after a marathon I'm not going anywhere fast and won't put up a struggle *evil wag*