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Elaine (Love & Life)

@mscyprah.bsky.social

Digital Creator. Speaker. Life Coach. Author: The Power of Confidence to Achieve Your Dreams (+other books on Wellbeing, Relationships, Career & Inclusion). Providing insights and answers for tricky life issues. Greens for Go! People Power.😎

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When Should I Start My Own Business? Try our quiz to test your readiness

Wondering whether to give life to your passion?
Bluesky March
#WriteSky #art #writingcommunity #booksky #gamedev #Gaming #authors #Confidence #music #poetry #artist #loveandlife #money #ListenToBlackVoices #business #resources #selfbelief #passion
lovelifethegrowthguide.substack.com/p/when-shoul...

02.03.2026 12:33 β€” πŸ‘ 13    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Would he have been so vocal about where the votes came from if he had won? These people are so predictable.

For them, it seems results are only acceptable when they conform to expectations.

Suck it up, Farage and have some respect for voters!
You lost. End of.

01.03.2026 14:33 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Which Choice Matters To You More? You have suddenly become very popular!

This is a very easy choice for me. No contest!
Bluesky March
#WriteSky #art #writingcommunity #gamedev #Gaming #authors #wellbeing #poetry #romancelandia #loveandlife #money #wealth #challenge #ListenToBlackVoices #love
lovelifethegrowthguide.substack.com/p/which-choi...

01.03.2026 13:36 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Two Main Life Options: But Which Have You Chosen? As you wake up this morning from your sleep, and you think about your day, what kind of thoughts actually go through your mind about what the day could bring you?

How we unwittingly choose a path that we don't often desire.
Bluesky March
#WriteSky #art #digitalart #writingcommunity #booksky #gamedev #Gaming #authors #Confidence #wellbeing #bekind #poetry #loveandlife #ListenToBlackVoices #lifestyle #options
lovelifethegrowthguide.substack.com/p/two-main-l...

01.03.2026 13:08 β€” πŸ‘ 10    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Do We Divorce Because We Married The β€˜Wrong’ People? Boxing great, Muhammad Ali, once said, β€œA man who views the world the same at fifty as he did at twenty has wasted thirty years of his life.”

Strangely enough, we usually marry exactly the right person at that time!
February Saturday
#art #writingcommunity #gamedev #Gaming #authors #Confidence #wellbeing #poetry #artist #romancelandia #loveandlife #ListenToBlackVoices #marriage #divorce #love
primetimebyelaine.substack.com/p/do-we-divo...

28.02.2026 14:05 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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How Do You Handle Conflict? Dealing with confrontations isn’t easy, especially when we lack the confidence and interaction skills to do so.

I won't flinch from conflict, but I don't like it either.
February Saturday
#WriteSky #art #digitalart #writingcommunity #gamedev #Gaming #Confidence #wellbeing #video #poetry #loveandlife #ListenToBlackVoices #conflict #personality #childhood
lovelifethegrowthguide.substack.com/p/how-do-you...

28.02.2026 14:00 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Why Being 'Anxious And Annoyed' is Just Ambition with Nowhere to Go What causes that, and what can be done to change it?

Do you feel agitated most times? That feeling is trying to tell you something.
February
#WriteSky #art #writingcommunity #gamedev #Gaming #Confidence #wellbeing #bekind #poetry #loveandlife #ListenToBlackVoices #anxious #annoyed #stress #ambition
lovelifethegrowthguide.substack.com/p/why-being-...

27.02.2026 15:55 β€” πŸ‘ 12    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

It is so uplifting to have news that one can be truly happy about, especially at these depressing times!
Well done, Greens! A magnificent result.

27.02.2026 08:53 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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The True Power of Self-Appreciation A weekly action plan to reduce personal conflict

I try to appreciate me as much as possible. If I don't, I can't expect others to do it.
February
#WriteSky #art #gamedev #Gaming #authors #Confidence #wellbeing #bekind #poetry #loveandlife #ListenToBlackVoices #selfappreciation #selflove #power
lovelifethegrowthguide.substack.com/p/the-true-p...

26.02.2026 13:04 β€” πŸ‘ 10    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Feeling Anxious That Your Date Might Cheat? Worrying about the possibility of someone cheating comes out of fear and a lack of self-love.

Fear does not enable good feelings about ourselves.
Bluesky February
#WriteSky #art #gamedev #Gaming #Confidence #wellbeing #video #romancelandia #loveandlife #betrayal #selfappreciation #ListenToBlackVoices #socialnetwork #cheating #dating

lovelifethegrowthguide.substack.com/p/feeling-an...

25.02.2026 12:31 β€” πŸ‘ 9    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Are You Truly Satisfied With Your Job? This question is an easy one for me because I absolutely love what I do.

I love what I do, especially if it helps others in any way!
February Wednesday
#WriteSky #art #writingcommunity #booksky #gamedev #Gaming #Confidence #wellbeing #poetry #loveandlife #money #ListenToBlackVoices #jobsatisfaction #workplace #anxiety
lovelifethegrowthguide.substack.com/p/are-you-tr...

25.02.2026 12:25 β€” πŸ‘ 13    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Letting Go Of Anger After A Rejection Or Breakup If you're still churning inside at the loss of a relationship...

It's easy to be angry at the other person for a breakup, but is it helpful to you?
February Tuesday
#WriteSky #art #gamedev #Gaming #authors #Confidence #wellbeing #poetry #romancelandia #ListenToBlackVoices #breakup #relationship #anger #rejection
lovelifethegrowthguide.substack.com/p/letting-go...

24.02.2026 13:42 β€” πŸ‘ 10    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

The same to you too! πŸ˜€

23.02.2026 14:02 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Morning Magic: 6 Simple Touches for a Happier Day Believe it or not, according to a Harvard study, we spend nearly 47% of our waking hours thinking about something other than what we’re actually doing.

How are you feeling these days with all the stress in our world?
Bluesky February Monday
#WriteSky #art #digitalart #writingcommunity #gamedev #Gaming #authors #Confidence #wellbeing #bekind #poetry #ListenToBlackVoices #lifequality #happiness #harvard
primetimebyelaine.substack.com/p/morning-ma...

23.02.2026 13:43 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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"Taking It Slowly?" Why That's a BAD Idea! How often have strangers who wish to date one another talk about β€˜not rushing’ things, being β€˜friends first’ or β€˜taking it slowly’ in order to get to know each other?

Dating again, and planning to control it as much as possible?
February Sunday
#WriteSky #art #digitalart #writingcommunity #booksky #gamedev #Gaming #authors #Confidence #bekind #poetry #artist #romancelandia #relationship #couple #love #dating
lovelifethegrowthguide.substack.com/p/taking-it-...

22.02.2026 13:38 β€” πŸ‘ 10    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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How Do You Recognise Trustworthy People? Learning how to trust

Trust begins from the self. If you doubt yourself constantly, you're not likely to trust others either.
February Sunday
#WriteSky #art #digitalart #gamedev #Gaming #authors #Confidence #wellbeing #bekind #poetry #artist #trustworthy #friendship
lovelifethegrowthguide.substack.com/p/how-do-you...

22.02.2026 13:32 β€” πŸ‘ 10    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

""I didn't know this was going to happen.""

I doubt that very much, because Trump was very clear on his intended racist activities.

He knew this would happen. He just didn't think it would happen to HIM!

22.02.2026 13:24 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Insight: What Are The Origins Of Confidence When It Seems To Have No Base? You cannot see the grounds for confidence, but it always has a base of self-assurance.

Confidence is so underrated, yet without it we would feel fearful and inadequate.
Bluesky February
#WriteSky #art #writingcommunity #booksky #gamedev #Gaming #authors #Confidence #wellbeing #poetry #ListenToBlackVoices #selfesteem #selfbelief
lovelifethegrowthguide.substack.com/p/insight-wh...

21.02.2026 13:18 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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What Would Be Your Superpower, And Why? This is not a fair question because I wish I had tons of super powers to right all the wrongs in the world...well at least in my own country, to start..lol.

My choice is in the post, though it was a difficult one! 😎
Bluesky February Saturday
#WriteSky #art #digitalart #writingcommunity #booksky #gamedev #Gaming #authors #music #vtuber #wellbeing #bekind #poetry #artist #ListenToBlackVoices #superpower
lovelifethegrowthguide.substack.com/p/what-would...

21.02.2026 13:01 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Maintaining Your Confidence & Self-Esteem During Job Loss or Recession The economy has taken the biggest hit with millions of jobs being lost, many businesses being forced to close, and the delivery of goods and services disrupted.

If you are not self employed, these tips could be useful. February Friday
#WriteSky #art #digitalart #writingcommunity #gamedev #Gaming #authors #Confidence #wellbeing #bekind #artist #ListenToBlackVoices #jobloss #economy #selfesteem #recession lovelifethegrowthguide.substack.com/p/maintainin...

20.02.2026 09:17 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Healing Faster After A Breakup How to prevent splits from being too painful

If you find it hard to let go of a past #relationship, something else is behind it.
February Thursday
#WriteSky #art #digitalart #writingcommunity #gamedev #Gaming #authors #Confidence #wellbeing #bekind #video #poetry #breakup #pain #hurt #couple
lovelifethegrowthguide.substack.com/p/healing-fa...

19.02.2026 13:11 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Scientists Reveal The Most Powerful Combination That Extends Your Life Could this be the magical combination for longevity?

How is that combination serving you right now?
Bluesky February Wednesday
#WriteSky #art #digitalart #writingcommunity #booksky #gamedev #Gaming #authors #wellbeing #bekind #poetry #followme #money #wealth #education #socialnetwork #health
lovelifethegrowthguide.substack.com/p/scientists...

18.02.2026 12:52 β€” πŸ‘ 11    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Should Money Be The Key Measure of Success? Why the focus on wealth could be destroying our world

Not a good state for equality, but what's the alternative?
February Wednesday
#WriteSky #art #digitalart #writingcommunity #booksky #gamedev #Gaming #authors #Confidence #wellbeing #bekind #furryart #poetry #wealth #money #billionaire #luxury
lovelifethegrowthguide.substack.com/p/should-mon...

18.02.2026 12:48 β€” πŸ‘ 12    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Recognising Your Childhood Influences There are lots of things I would have changed about my childhood fifty years ago, especially the ignorance and superstition that surrounded us as children.

There's a lot I would change but one, in particular, still make me shiver!
February Tuesday
#WriteSky #art #digitalart #writingcommunity #booksky #gamedev #Gaming #authors #wellbeing #bekind #poetry #artist #ListenToBlackVoices #childhood #culture
lovelifethegrowthguide.substack.com/p/recognisin...

17.02.2026 09:16 β€” πŸ‘ 11    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Difficulty Recalling Names Are you good at recalling someone’s name after you’ve met them?

The reasons why we forget names, and key ways to remember them.
February Monday
#WriteSky #art #writingcommunity #booksky #gamedev #Gaming #authors #Confidence #wellbeing #bekind #video #poetry #artist #ListenToBlackVoices #1 #forgetting #names
lovelifethegrowthguide.substack.com/p/difficulty...

16.02.2026 13:09 β€” πŸ‘ 13    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Feeling Unhappy at Work? 6 Red Flags It’s Time For a Change It could be time to exit!

If you are not self-employed, these tips could be useful.
Bluesky February Sunday
#WriteSky #art #writingcommunity #gamedev #Gaming #authors #Confidence #music #wellbeing #bekind #artist #ListenToBlackVoices #workplace #unhappiness #lowmorale
lovelifethegrowthguide.substack.com/p/feeling-un...

15.02.2026 12:46 β€” πŸ‘ 12    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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4 Key Questions To Ask Yourself Before Your Next Relationship The answers could save you from much heartache later on

Common sense needs to rise above the excitement at these times!
Bluesky February Valentine's Day
#WriteSky #art #writingcommunity #gamedev #Gaming #authors #Confidence #wellbeing #bekind #poetry #romancelandia #love #couple #dating #relationship
lovelifethegrowthguide.substack.com/p/4-key-ques...

14.02.2026 13:19 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Insights: Can We Accidentally Fall In Love? Understanding the attraction process

Can we control how we fall in love, and with whom?
Bluesky February Valentine
#WriteSky #art #digitalart #writingcommunity #gamedev #Gaming #authors #music #wellbeing #bekind #poetry #artist #romancelandia #love #couple #dating #relationships
lovelifethegrowthguide.substack.com/p/insights-c...

14.02.2026 13:12 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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How To Make Friends Easily Turning a stranger into a friend is seen as a really bold pivot - from isolation to connection- but most people fail with it because they stay stuck in the same β€˜small talk’ mode that seldom leads any...

It can be quite daunting trying to make friends, especially if you don't trust others.
Bluesky February Friday
#WriteSky #art #digitalart #writingcommunity #gamedev #Gaming #authors #Confidence #music #wellbeing #friends #friendship #ValentinesDay
lovelifethegrowthguide.substack.com/p/how-to-mak...

13.02.2026 15:18 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Insights: Is Valentine’s Day A Stupid Idea? Celebrating Valentine’s Day can be a polarising topic.

How do you feel about the celebration? Will you be doing anything on the day?
February Thursday
#WriteSky #art #digitalart #writingcommunity #gamedev #Gaming #music #vtuber #wellbeing #bekind #poetry #romancelandia #valentinesday #love #dating
lovelifethegrowthguide.substack.com/p/insights-i...

12.02.2026 09:14 β€” πŸ‘ 10    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0