@askasub.bsky.social
writer. podcaster. fairy submother. 🧚🏻♀️ as seen in Vice, TIME, the Savage LoveCast & in your favorites folder since 2019 http://linktr.ee/askasub
Another week, another blog I'm sharing by @askasub.bsky.social ⛓️🍑✨🩷
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“bottoming for watersports is an act of feminist resistance”
18.06.2025 17:01 — 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
when people ask what happens *after* i get locked in the human-sized dog cage
18.06.2025 17:00 — 👍 4 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 0i’m done with gay panic time to start fisting
02.06.2025 22:23 — 👍 12 🔁 3 💬 0 📌 0
me combing through two dozen dating app profiles a day that are completely identical to each other
01.06.2025 06:41 — 👍 7 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 0
“aftercare seems like a lot of work are people really doing that”
me:
when the baby subs ask me about Fake Dom red flags
27.05.2025 05:06 — 👍 8 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
me, an indoor kinkster, trying to go to a party
27.05.2025 04:05 — 👍 9 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0
me preempting the mansplaining on a date with a silver lake / brooklyn straight man in carhartt
27.05.2025 04:02 — 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
me actually taking the time to read what someone’s into before messaging them on a dating app
27.05.2025 03:59 — 👍 9 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 0
me googling what a particular hanky color means
27.05.2025 03:58 — 👍 8 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
tfw you catch feelings for someone with a primary partner and now you have to read polysecure
27.05.2025 03:51 — 👍 4 🔁 3 💬 0 📌 0
when i, a bottom, develop feelings for another bottom
27.05.2025 03:51 — 👍 5 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0
showing up to a date with a man who prefers natural makeup
26.05.2025 04:20 — 👍 5 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
when yet another person i was really vibing with ghosts after three days of conversation
26.05.2025 04:18 — 👍 6 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
me actually having to put myself out there to meet people
26.05.2025 04:15 — 👍 8 🔁 2 💬 0 📌 0
me charging my vibrator before partnered s*x
26.05.2025 04:11 — 👍 8 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 0
me finding out how much impact toys cost
26.05.2025 04:09 — 👍 9 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 2i am once again asking for the women of los angeles to stop making Good Luck Babe so hard for me to listen to
15.05.2025 19:20 — 👍 8 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
you SAID to “make myself at home”
13.05.2025 19:05 — 👍 8 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 0
me getting into non-monogamy: love is expansive! people are beautiful! my emotional skills will prevent me from feeling pain!
every six months:
me when asked what type of sub i am
03.05.2025 23:29 — 👍 8 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 0
Impact tops when they forget to lay out all the equipment in a convenient way
22.04.2025 21:52 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
k💕nksters making their dating app profiles
22.04.2025 21:52 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0
me opening the dating apps to find a thousand “want to surprise him for his birthday” couples
22.04.2025 21:51 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0
when i can’t help but talk back knowing i’m gonna feel it in my butt tomorrow
22.04.2025 21:50 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0
when i’m getting impact in front of another sub & pretending to be tougher than i am
22.04.2025 21:49 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0
me opening the dating apps to find a thousand “want to surprise him for his birthday” couples
22.04.2025 21:48 — 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
k💕nksters making their dating app profiles
22.04.2025 21:48 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0
Impact tops when they forget to lay out all the equipment in a convenient way
22.04.2025 21:40 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0