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@desertdadbear.bsky.social

Standard issue dadbear. πŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆπŸ» NSFW 18+ He/him/Dad. BigDumbBear on Recon, DesertDadBear on Scruff, cpuready on Instagram.

4,039 Followers  |  747 Following  |  399 Posts  |  Joined: 27.08.2023  |  1.9341

Latest posts by desertdadbear.bsky.social on Bluesky

Definitely a dad thing!

27.12.2025 02:38 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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That time @desertdadbear.bsky.social asked to see my gloves. May Santa bring you what you want for 2026. #CigarDaddy

24.12.2025 22:07 β€” πŸ‘ 302    πŸ” 12    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0

so happy to hear this - that changed my life for the better; after decades of low level panic, it was such a relief to just relax and enjoy sex - hope you have a similar experience!

19.12.2025 02:51 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Not if I don’t beat him to ya…

19.12.2025 01:53 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Γ€ bientΓ΄t…

19.12.2025 01:52 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

No worse way to take you out of the moment, agreed!

19.12.2025 01:50 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Throat training with @desertdadbear.bsky.social
Sound on. Part 4 of 4.

13.12.2025 17:40 β€” πŸ‘ 398    πŸ” 48    πŸ’¬ 8    πŸ“Œ 0

A dream come true, Sir. Thank You again.

14.12.2025 03:24 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Throat training with @desertdadbear.bsky.social
Sound on. Part 1 of 4.

13.12.2025 17:34 β€” πŸ‘ 257    πŸ” 21    πŸ’¬ 9    πŸ“Œ 0

Seriously the worst - and what a way to take you out of the moment!

11.12.2025 15:08 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

No. What the heck?

09.12.2025 22:16 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

(Sighs contentedly)

08.12.2025 00:04 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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OwenΒ Pallett – I Am Not Afraid β€œI Am Not Afraid” is the first track on In Conflict, Owen Pallett’s fourth full-length album. The song is notable for, among other things, its use of gender neutral pronouns, a

i am always reminded of this song: β€œI am no longer afraid / the truth doesn’t terrify us / my salvation is found in discipline”

genius.com/Owen-pallett...

08.12.2025 00:01 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Day 3 of Twelve Boots of Xmas

Every day for 12 days I’ll be polishing a pair of boots to practice the skills.

Today’s pair was generously provided by @bdsmps.bsky.social. Hopefully I’ve done them justice.

Come follow along on IG

www.instagram.com/p/DR9H_m6Ebt...

07.12.2025 08:15 β€” πŸ‘ 110    πŸ” 8    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0

Seems highly unlikely - no one is gonna buy me as that guy’s son πŸ˜‚

06.12.2025 17:56 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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More rope on @desertdadbear.bsky.social

06.12.2025 17:48 β€” πŸ‘ 148    πŸ” 11    πŸ’¬ 7    πŸ“Œ 1
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My first reaction: nope. Nope nope nope. Not gonna happen… and it’s hard for me to say exactly why. There’s a power dynamic here; what your Dad gets up to is none of your business. You’re here to serve.

06.12.2025 13:12 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Never tried that, no real interest on my part, but always happy to try new things with friends!

04.12.2025 21:51 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

You, my friend, are always welcome…

04.12.2025 20:20 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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This is an interesting one! The short answer is yes, unconditionally; your Dad is proud of you and wants you to feel safe, loved, and happy with yourself. Mind you, as we are both consenting adults and not actually related, your Dad might well big spoon you - which *will* lead to you getting bred…

04.12.2025 12:37 β€” πŸ‘ 24    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 4    πŸ“Œ 0

Very sexy!

04.12.2025 00:30 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Just getting started. With @desertdadbear.bsky.social

04.12.2025 00:26 β€” πŸ‘ 277    πŸ” 17    πŸ’¬ 7    πŸ“Œ 0

agreed, it was an honor to be of use to SIR

03.12.2025 14:19 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Whoa! Okay, definitely on the same page here. I'm fine now, but the first time this happened was _right_ as I came and boom, I was lying down on the floor for a good couple minutes. This time, it hit just before I was gonna shoot, but less severely. All good now, thankfully.

03.12.2025 04:01 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Ugh, that's the worst. Finally got permission to unlock my cage, was just about to, ahem, get there, and then... nope nope nope

03.12.2025 03:31 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Holy cow! It was awful the first time... this time I managed to dial things back before it got worse but... man, I feel your pain. An entire week??

03.12.2025 03:14 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Sex headaches occur more often in men-Sex headaches - Symptoms & causes - Mayo Clinic Learn about the causes and treatment of this type of headache.

For the second time of my life, ran into one of these earlier this week... not a fan. Talk about a buzzkill :/

www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-con...

03.12.2025 02:42 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 5    πŸ“Œ 0
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Cigar training with @desertdadbear.bsky.social
(Re-posted with the CORRECT Bluesky handle. Old post deleted because you can't edit on this platform, which is annoying AF. πŸ™„ My apologies to anyone scandalized by my previous post.)

03.12.2025 02:05 β€” πŸ‘ 230    πŸ” 12    πŸ’¬ 7    πŸ“Œ 0
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#PuppyPile πŸ“Έ by @desertdadbear.bsky.social

02.12.2025 16:20 β€” πŸ‘ 234    πŸ” 6    πŸ’¬ 8    πŸ“Œ 0

indeed, Sir! @desertdad.bsky.social is a friend and neighbor, but not the bear in this picture :)

03.12.2025 01:19 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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