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@betterinchastity.bsky.social

๐Ÿ“ข NSFW 21+ ๐Ÿ“ข Chaste married sub living in a 24/7 FLR. Logging my journey, making connections, and spreading the word on the beauty and benefits of Female leadership. If you want to help the journey and fuel the photos โžก๏ธ https://linktr.ee/HumbledByLacy

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Latest posts by betterinchastity.bsky.social on Bluesky

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She's been so busy with work that She's been making me try to relieve myself. She said I can use anything but a vibrator. This is after nearly of month of trying.

#chastity #ghostpenis #handsfree #prostateorgasm

21.10.2025 20:08 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 31    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Sometimes, you just wake up feeling like it's gonna be a good butt day ๐Ÿ‘

16.09.2025 15:12 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 9    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Gap Measurements Viper This page lists the gap measurement for each combination of Viper cage, ring size, and ring style. For general information about ring sizes, please refer to our base ring size guide. All gap measureme...

I also just found a gap guide on their website. You can see where you're now to get a feel for where you need to be. Best of luck, you can reach out with chastity (or other) questions โค๏ธ

kink3d.com/pages/gap-me...

16.09.2025 15:02 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I would try a straight ring instead of curved, that will close the gap a bit. If you dont want to have to get new parts, you could also consider trying snug fitting straps/harness. That would eliminate a lot of slippage in your current fit.

16.09.2025 14:57 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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The size of the cage is irrelevant for this matter. Here's a diagram to better visualize it.

16.09.2025 14:44 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

๐Ÿ˜Š thank you

16.09.2025 14:37 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

It happens, I went through a few cages where that would happen often.

The underside. The distance between the base ring and the proximal end of the cage. That space is where the slippage occurs.

16.09.2025 14:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Sounds like the ball gap on your device is too big for you. You'll need a different size to prevent this. It should be impossible for a testicle to pass through.

16.09.2025 14:30 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Sissy service outfit of the day ๐Ÿฅฐ

#chastity #sissy #femboy #flr

14.09.2025 22:40 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 18    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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The rarest of rewards from my beautiful Queen Lacy ๐Ÿฅฐ

#rimjob #femdom #flr #sissy #femboy #heels #tattoos

14.09.2025 16:40 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 10    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Starting the morning right! Dressed cute and preparing my Queen's breakfast and fresh juice blend. After eating She has requested a full body massage and a grocery run. In bed this morning She rubbed me through the cage to wake me up and get me ultramotivated.

#chastity #flr #sissy #femboy

12.09.2025 16:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 8    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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I'm practicing for an open mic tonight. There are very few events I get the privilege to unlock for. My music performances are not one of them. Locked and still loving it.

#chastity #chastityclub #flr

10.09.2025 21:58 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 15    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Love your page! I appreciate the repost ๐Ÿ˜˜

10.09.2025 17:59 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Experimenting with wearing my chastity strap in different configurations. Making the usual jockstrap style 4-point more of a bikini shape. Now im inspired to start making my own chastity straps with different styles. Stay tuned for that project!

#chastityclub #sissy #femboy #flr #chastitystraps

10.09.2025 04:32 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 14    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1
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It's been a few days since I have done a cage check. 24/7 locked FLR house husband here. On day 25 since my last orgasm, filming and editing our videos has me desperately straining. She is our provider, so I won't bother Her with my silly needy cock.

#chastity #chastityclub #flr

09.09.2025 22:08 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 21    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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One of my favorite clips from this scene. Being powerless beneath Her superior cock is a feeling every man should experience. A dickless bound sissy throat to be trained and teased. A vessel for Her amusement and pleasure.

#chastity #femboy #femdom #strapon #humbler #flr #porn #domme #facefuck

09.09.2025 21:28 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 17    ๐Ÿ” 4    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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This one is from another scene we shot. We roleplayed Her catching me with a vibrator (i would never, haha) and punishing me with Her favorite impact toys. This pair of briefs were about to be retired, so we had some fun on their way out.

#flr #rippedclothes #rippedunderwear #sissy #femboy #femdom

08.09.2025 22:29 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I did too! Scary but fun ๐Ÿ˜

08.09.2025 22:25 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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She wanted to try using our humbler with chastity. She loved the easy access to inflicting punishment without having to worry about any errant erections. Editing these videos is fun, but the cage strain is real!

#flr #femdom #porn #bdsm #chastityclub

08.09.2025 20:19 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 8    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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We had some fun making videos yesterday. She found this silicone lip gag at the store and said I had to try it out. The combo of a face fuck machine up front and all Her sadistic implements at the rear was amazing and terrifying

#femdom #flr #sissy #throattraining

06.09.2025 19:03 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 9    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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I planned a series of dates the past two days. I wore one of our first cages for the occasion. Revisiting old memories and finding new ones. Alleviating Her stress is a core pillar in our FLR. She works incredibly hard, so I make sure She is always running on full battery.

#chastity #chastityclub

31.08.2025 16:57 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 19    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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I made a video demonstrating some of the tips and tricks I use to maintain skin health and comfort. It's unscripted and not an exhaustive list. But I think novices could benefit from this information. Promoting a better world through chastity, Matriarchy and #FLR

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25.08.2025 15:19 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Cute cage and those legs ๐Ÿ˜

25.08.2025 06:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

The bowtie is doing something for me! I would take that service anyday.

25.08.2025 06:24 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Your socks are adorable ๐Ÿ˜ I'm wearing one of our older cages today.

25.08.2025 06:19 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Absolutely! The morning strain often gets pressed into the mattress. Who needs coffee? ๐Ÿ˜…

25.08.2025 06:10 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Sounds like you had a great time. I went to the nude beach often in Florida, but didn't know about cages back then. Ive done nude yoga a couple times caged though.

25.08.2025 06:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Super cute. I love the white on white cage strap combo, looks great on you.

25.08.2025 06:00 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Grateful to be owned by a loving sadistic Wife. This is one of our first cages from 4 years ago. I modified it with a dremel for a PA cutout.

#chastity #piercedchastity #princealbert #pierceddick #sissy #flr

25.08.2025 04:09 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 11    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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My Wife should start a maid company called Subby Service. She could have a whole stable chore whores spread across the city making her money.

#sissy #flr #subby #thong #apron

24.08.2025 15:15 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 6    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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