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@dechaiku.bsky.social

Proud cis-het mom of queer & trans kids—seriously unclear on how so many let fear about people being different from one another scare them so badly. Taking it one day at a time under 47, but not lying down. Haikus are only part of my process.

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The last secret binge
Now seventeen years ago
One day at a time.

08.08.2025 00:59 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Sainted Haiku | Substack Start here: https://open.substack.com/pub/saintedhaiku/p/haiku-is-my-patron-saint

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14.07.2025 19:41 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

My father’s daughter:
It was easier to be
When he was around.

Loss’s wake unmoors
I drift in the open sea—
The route is unknown.

14.07.2025 01:43 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I don’t love spiders
Their eyes, legs unnerve me
Still, glad they eat flies.

01.06.2025 20:01 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

We, the good people
Of America, need help.
Please stop these guys, World.

01.06.2025 20:00 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
Image includes an American flag waving a sunset and words that say: 
It’s not just one day
That grief demands memory
Those lost remain loved

Image includes an American flag waving a sunset and words that say: It’s not just one day That grief demands memory Those lost remain loved

#memorialday

26.05.2025 18:38 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

God’s song is love, love
We are all in that love song
We are being sung.

22.05.2025 22:53 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

When I sat bedside
I thought I was letting go.
Thinking’s not doing.

A wind blows through it—
This strange world without my dad—
Open space, empty.

22.04.2025 03:33 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Amen

15.03.2025 12:39 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I’ve grieved a long time
Dementia takes them slowly
Still it hurts, this end

It’s liminal time
We wait without eagerness
For news we don’t want

Every moment
Wondering when my father
Will breathe his last breath

15.03.2025 12:38 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

He’s so strong of heart
His body will not let go
Of the soul it’s housed

13.03.2025 00:50 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

It is so so much
Singing to him through the night
It is grief and LOVE

Leaving a body
Strong enough to carry on
Is grueling work

At Papa’s bedside
I honor, a witness to,
Dying as labor

12.03.2025 11:29 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

@petebuttigieg.bsky.social How are you staying ready for action? What keeps you from feeling the inertia of despair? Would love some good advice for this. ❤️

06.03.2025 17:56 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I am uneasy
So much to grieve and to resist
I can barely breathe

06.03.2025 17:54 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Imagine that

05.03.2025 03:43 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Only reason

05.03.2025 03:43 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

It is ironic.
Trump in bed with communists.
Is that what “great” means?

05.03.2025 03:28 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

U.S. suspends hope.
U.S. breaks good will and trust.
If U.S. means Trump.

04.03.2025 03:27 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Is malice or pain
Behind the sad craven wish
That others suffer?

24.02.2025 15:31 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

History ain’t kind
To the collaborators.
Beware ye quislings.
#factnotthreat

23.02.2025 17:48 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I only begrudge
Success that a person thinks
Solely his making

23.02.2025 17:43 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

When we treat children
With respect, they have respect
For others as well

23.02.2025 17:36 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

They’re Cybertruck nuts.
I mean, are there? There must be.
For macho tech bros?

22.02.2025 18:01 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Don’t be alarmist
But do give your attention.
Response, not panic

20.02.2025 20:18 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Fear is infectious
Protect yourself with small joys
In a pandemic

20.02.2025 16:16 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

What comes after this?
This tearing down and apart…
What will we rebuild?

17.02.2025 20:00 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Children are testing
What they have been told is true
Through what they mimic

13.02.2025 15:21 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Hope isn’t blind faith.
Hope is continuing on,
Finding joy each day.

11.02.2025 15:00 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

“I AM SOMEBODY”—
That’s a great ad, #NFL
Thanks for speaking truth
#superbowl2025ads

10.02.2025 01:00 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Not that I believe REAL MAN is actually as useful aspiration as GOOD HUMAN.

09.02.2025 19:57 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

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