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Sam Haymart - Writer, Vlogger, Lover. Inspiration and empowerment for maturing LGBTQ+ people.

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When they say "unnatural" they are talking judgement, not mind, not body, not soul. #gayisgood #gayisnatural

04.03.2026 13:13 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Let yourself feel.

03.03.2026 12:58 — 👍 3    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 0
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It might take a while, but they will come. #beyourself

02.03.2026 13:04 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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On #gaykitchentabletalk this week we're talking work from home best practices and #etiquette for gay men's playspaces. Wherever you find your podcasts. Link in bio.

01.03.2026 14:25 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Asking, getting the go ahead, priceless. #consentissexy

01.03.2026 14:21 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
Gay Kitchen Table Talk #48: Playspace Etiquette, Consent Is Sexy, Work From Home Adjustments
YouTube video by Growing Older Gay Gay Kitchen Table Talk #48: Playspace Etiquette, Consent Is Sexy, Work From Home Adjustments

This week we talk the importance of getting consent before you touch and other levels of #bathhouse #sexclub and #playspace #etiquette youtu.be/CV97H0UVkac

28.02.2026 20:50 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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No matter what we do, nature will have the last say. Don't argue with #MotherNature.

28.02.2026 13:55 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Am I being a judgy little queen today?

27.02.2026 13:30 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Let us not despair of setbacks but get ready our next steps forward.

26.02.2026 12:55 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Our moving forward, growing, being happy is the part that gets them the most. #queerjoy

25.02.2026 13:07 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Their #consent is sexier than what they are wearing. Always ask before you roam. #consentissexy

24.02.2026 13:10 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Give a gift today. ❤️

23.02.2026 13:01 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Our friend Marcus Freiberger disappeared today, a year ago. We still don't know what happened or who was involved. Do you? Today we talk about his last 24 hours and how you can help. Wherever you find your podcasts, links in bio.

22.02.2026 14:26 — 👍 2    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 0
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Watch your six, scan your three and nine, always plan your twelve.

22.02.2026 14:20 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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We are all connected.

21.02.2026 14:07 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
Gay Kitchen Table Talk #47: Michael Bayne Missing, Marcus Freiberger Death 1Year Later.
YouTube video by Growing Older Gay Gay Kitchen Table Talk #47: Michael Bayne Missing, Marcus Freiberger Death 1Year Later.

Special message this week at the #gaykitchentable regarding our missing friend Michael Bayne and the still unanswered questions about Marcus Freiberger and how you can help! youtu.be/ndiJqM_VB6E

21.02.2026 04:00 — 👍 1    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 0
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"How many cares one loses when one decides not to be something but to be someone." - Coco Chanel.

20.02.2026 13:00 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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We have to like the person in the mirror before we can like anyone else.

19.02.2026 13:18 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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You just have to allow yourself the indulgence. #laughter

18.02.2026 13:09 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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The worst that can happen is that you have helped someone.

17.02.2026 12:57 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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As we mature our priorities, our mission, our purpose shifts. We become more in tune with caring for our brothers and sisters. Community takes on deeper meaning, love a wider spectrum.

16.02.2026 13:06 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Lots of leather and bear event news, #badbunny superbowl recap, new #wegovy tablets and more! Wherever you get your podcasts! Link in bio.

15.02.2026 15:06 — 👍 1    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 0
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Find a warm blanket, change the channel, be touched. #findyourjoy

15.02.2026 15:02 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
Gay Kitchen Table Talk #46: Benito Bowl, Wegovy Tablets, Leather Season News
YouTube video by Growing Older Gay Gay Kitchen Table Talk #46: Benito Bowl, Wegovy Tablets, Leather Season News

This week on #gaykitchentabletalk it's a recap on the #BenitoBowl , the new #wegovy tablets, and the latest contest event news from the leather scene. youtu.be/eev0q_NWLZA

15.02.2026 00:20 — 👍 1    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 0
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Love your fellows today.

14.02.2026 14:41 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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We embrace our sexuality for joy, love, friendship and celebration because it is a gift.

13.02.2026 15:56 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Slow your mind down for a few moments today.

12.02.2026 13:07 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Have fun but don't get lost ❤️

11.02.2026 13:05 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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If you haven't talked in a while, talk. #MakeSomeonesDay

10.02.2026 12:58 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Go all in. Grow roots in good soil. Bloom like a MF.

09.02.2026 13:09 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0