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Suddenly understanding Stephen King’s 6 pages a day writing technique.

Now editing a writing for FetLife to get it shorter. 😆

(((Hugs))) proud of you for even being able to put that out there like this. That takes a lot of strength.

Random advice from the day:

Transformation is a practice, not a plan. Just because you wrote it down or started it, doesn't mean it will happen. Change comes from the choices we make each day, the follow-ups we don't skip, and the determination to keep going.

When you see a post by someone claiming to be a “domme” but they’re asking super basic questions, I find it hard to tell if it’s just engagement bait, they’re new to the lifestyle, or they’re just that ignorant of their craft.

(Per their profile, they’re not that new) 🙄

Happy Turkey Day! However you choose to interpret that.

We’re thankful for our wonderful kinky community. #HappySpankings

New friend at a munch tonight said I had "good energy" and seem to be "alive" around other spankos.

Never had that compliment before.

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#ObligatroyKoalaPic??

Came prepared for our “Legacy of Impact” event at work.

I came prepared, but I may have misunderstood ☹️

It’s meant to be. The new house comes with canes 🤣

a rainbow heart with the word pride in white letters ALT: a rainbow heart with the word pride in white letters

Hate will never have a home here ✊🏼

Your true, authentic self is always welcome.

#NationalComingOutDay

Working late tonight. All dressed up. Found these in my pocket.

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@karinaisabel.bsky.social celebrating 15 years with her 15th spanker (me) on the 15th! 😃😃

(Of course celebrating with 15 swats from 15 implements)

Happy friend-aversary 🎉🎉

That was not an accident 😁

They have vampire ducks? 😱

First duck at the new house #ObligatoryDuckPic

I used to have big dreams and the goal of leaving a lasting legacy once I’m gone.

Now I’d be happy with just making a small difference in people’s lives while I’m here.
#FeelingOld

If you’re a collector, it’s an investment. If you’re a fan, it’s a wish-list item.

Organizing and cataloguing my #spanking / kink-related books (yes, physical #books).

Some unread, some unfinished. (just books, we’ll get to magazines, and digital another time.)

Seems I have some reading to do.

Agreed. That’s what makes it Consensual Spanking day. Only those over 18 can consent.

As they say:
Celebrate responsibly.

We found out just a couple years ago and totally by accident.

Mark your calendar for 8/8 every year (butts / butts, I assume).

But don’t worry, if you don’t celebrate today, rain-checks are valid for 364 more days 😈

It’s ok. If you miss it, rainchecks are good for 364 more days 😈

What??? Let’s remedy that ASAP!

But glad you’re still getting to play!

Can always start again. That’s the joy of progress.

I bet it would be. Everyone’s bottoms needed a moment so we opted just for watching… this time 😈

Yes.
I am a big guy.
I am a spanker.
I am a spanker of girls.
I am a spanker of big girls.

While big girls are my preference, I also gladly spank male-identifying, female-identifying, non-binary-identifying individuals, and any consenting adult with a backside in need of a spanking.

Which hyphen?

I guess I can add teaching Florentine flogging to my kink resume 😁 #proud

The classic epic trilogy:

SpankingEpics “Being Keith Jones” Trilogy, specifically tonight: volume 2 “Trouble in Carson’s Gap”

Starring the great @ericathesq.bsky.social