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Katie and Ellie

@joyfullcat.bsky.social

Old pocket Venus, married almost 50 years. Democrat, chocolate freak, British tv and writers, gardening, secret optimist, champion complainer. Leaving the bird. A dear friend’s profile, now passed, was one word. Bitter. Adding that in her honor.

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For someone who spent years and years and years managing someone with frontotemporal dementia, not the usual plain wrap variety, I swear, since 2016 it’s been daily PTSD. It’s not possible that ANY medical professional doesn’t see it. How this continues I have no idea.

07.12.2025 01:50 — 👍 4    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Gorgeous cat. 🎄

07.12.2025 01:44 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 1

I knew they were veggies but that’s a lot of geese in one place. Just picture them stripping the place. 😂

07.12.2025 01:41 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Bet you’re really glad you retired. That’s a lot of work.

07.12.2025 01:38 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Weird year throughout.

06.12.2025 23:29 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I’m up 3-4 times a night, usually up the heat around 4am.

06.12.2025 23:17 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

The photo looks like ones the memory facility I had to use would send me. Same grab for whatever with the same expression. On someone else this would be a sad thing, on POTUS its f’ing ludicrous.

06.12.2025 23:15 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

That’s painful.

06.12.2025 23:07 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

True. I use a down throw for extra warmth and if she manages to get under before I can make the bed, the bed is hers. 😂

06.12.2025 22:36 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Good! Stay warm!

06.12.2025 22:32 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Can only imagine how much they eat. 😂

06.12.2025 22:32 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

I keep saying children’s choirs should include You’re a Mean One, Mr. Grinch. It’s too freaking perfect.

06.12.2025 22:14 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Damn. 😭
Ellie was likely a day from death according to vet. When we walked into the room full of cats, she struggled up and came to us. I’ll never forget.

06.12.2025 22:08 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Heart lifting.

06.12.2025 22:05 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0
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We’ve both kind of had it.

06.12.2025 22:02 — 👍 7    🔁 0    💬 4    📌 0

Wow!

06.12.2025 22:01 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Inculcated is a good word. Yes. For everyone. It’s what we do with it that defines us.

06.12.2025 21:59 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I keep trying to say it like it’s normal.

06.12.2025 01:17 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Deep breaths. If you can.

05.12.2025 17:08 — 👍 8    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

I’m thinking a lot of them never earned anything themselves.

05.12.2025 17:03 — 👍 4    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Not really. 😂

05.12.2025 16:04 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

That makes sense because that’s the proper word but no, I was just wrong.

05.12.2025 16:04 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

It’s awkward in use as well. 🤷‍♀️

05.12.2025 13:05 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I don’t think that works. As an adjective it would means you feel a closeness, a nearness …

05.12.2025 13:04 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Turns out propinquity doesn’t mean what I thought it meant so’ve been creating sentences to use it appropriately. Not that I’d use it in conversation because it’s hard to say, but it’s bothering me that I misunderstood it‘s meaning.
I thought it meant a quirky characteristic.

05.12.2025 03:50 — 👍 10    🔁 1    💬 6    📌 0

Really enjoyed. Reread her previous just before so I didn’t miss anything.

04.12.2025 21:01 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Perverse, ill tempered seems like a perfectly normal state to me. 😂 Nothing about them is normal.

04.12.2025 19:06 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

I get a lot of fundraising Nancy Pelosi requests. I’ll always support Democrats but still have a physical reaction when I see her name, seems like never will I ever get over the fury.

04.12.2025 18:05 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Stayed in bed to finish the latest Karen Pirie. Wow. Sweating.

Val McDermid

Now what?

04.12.2025 18:02 — 👍 4    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

It is! Hoping for a quick trip to the nursery and some random dog hugs.

04.12.2025 17:59 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

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