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@graceishuman.bsky.social

Black queer feminist mama. Naija πŸ‡³πŸ‡¬. Yoruba, ν•œκ΅­μ–΄. K-drama || BTS || SVT || ATEEZ || Lisa. Gemini. Misanthropish. Gen trigger warning.

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Oh totally same. I am speaking from bitter experience.

06.03.2026 02:51 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

A hate crime even

06.03.2026 02:47 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I didn't watch season one bc reasons (mainly that guy) but the squeak I squeaked at Song Kang Ho...!

06.03.2026 02:44 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1

Nobody likes red delicious apples. It is known.

06.03.2026 02:43 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Grim.

05.03.2026 21:08 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

so many people have headed calls to move off Google to places like proton. Actual useful advice is that you try to keep as much sensitive info offline as possible.

05.03.2026 20:57 β€” πŸ‘ 365    πŸ” 94    πŸ’¬ 7    πŸ“Œ 1

That news about proton turning over payment information is why it makes no sense to spend every day yelling at people online about *digital security.*

05.03.2026 20:55 β€” πŸ‘ 427    πŸ” 65    πŸ’¬ 9    πŸ“Œ 0

what the actual fuck

05.03.2026 21:00 β€” πŸ‘ 128    πŸ” 45    πŸ’¬ 5    πŸ“Œ 3

History must be a factor here, no? Part of the legacies of mass racialized chattel slavery or Jim Crow/apartheid systems must be obstacles to seeing fellow citizens, whether of historically dispossessed identities or disposessing, as "good."

05.03.2026 20:47 β€” πŸ‘ 19    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

A reminder that there are more Christian Zionists in the United States than Jews, Zionist and otherwise

01.03.2026 14:39 β€” πŸ‘ 292    πŸ” 46    πŸ’¬ 7    πŸ“Œ 4

This will be extremely familiar to Latin Americans and indeed Filipinos that remember the 20th Century

01.03.2026 15:51 β€” πŸ‘ 347    πŸ” 96    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 2

Rabbit rabbit

01.03.2026 23:57 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Kenan Thompson started on SNL when Connor Storrie was three years old.

01.03.2026 05:47 β€” πŸ‘ 35    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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A 65 year old legally blind and disabled woman says she has unintentionally lost 28 pounds because she can’t afford enough food under the Trump administration.

β€œLike the previous caller said, the end is coming near, and it couldn’t be any more true than for me.”

Heartbreaking

26.02.2026 15:18 β€” πŸ‘ 569    πŸ” 272    πŸ’¬ 33    πŸ“Œ 54
A grey hoodie with text which reads:

β€œBuy a man eat fish,
He day, teach fish man
To a lifetime.”

A grey hoodie with text which reads: β€œBuy a man eat fish, He day, teach fish man To a lifetime.”

Wise words

27.02.2026 23:53 β€” πŸ‘ 7939    πŸ” 1897    πŸ’¬ 157    πŸ“Œ 140

When a company in an industry built on hype tells you that a use case is a bad ideaβ€”and actually dangerousβ€”that means it’s a *catastrophically* bad idea.

28.02.2026 02:36 β€” πŸ‘ 1627    πŸ” 475    πŸ’¬ 20    πŸ“Œ 13
Timeline of events:
Today at 9:04pm. No response yet to my calls or messages to @DarioAmodei. 
Today at 825pm, @AnthropicAI writes β€œwe have not received direct communication from the Department of War.” 
Today: 5:14pm SecWar tweets supply chain risk designation. 
Today: I call Dario’s business partner at 5:02pm asking to speak to Dario because he hasn’t gotten back to me. She is typing while we speak and likely has lawyers in the room with no notification to me (that’s a guess! CA is a two party consent law so am hoping no laws were broken!). Says she β€œwill try to locate him.”
Today:  I call Dario at 5:01. No Answer. I message Dario asking to talk as well.  
Today:  Dario sends an email with redlines 3:51pm
Today:  @POTUS sends Truth at 3:47pm
Yesterday:  I email Dario comments at 10:54pm.  

Does this sound like GOOD FAITH

Timeline of events: Today at 9:04pm. No response yet to my calls or messages to @DarioAmodei. Today at 825pm, @AnthropicAI writes β€œwe have not received direct communication from the Department of War.” Today: 5:14pm SecWar tweets supply chain risk designation. Today: I call Dario’s business partner at 5:02pm asking to speak to Dario because he hasn’t gotten back to me. She is typing while we speak and likely has lawyers in the room with no notification to me (that’s a guess! CA is a two party consent law so am hoping no laws were broken!). Says she β€œwill try to locate him.” Today: I call Dario at 5:01. No Answer. I message Dario asking to talk as well. Today: Dario sends an email with redlines 3:51pm Today: @POTUS sends Truth at 3:47pm Yesterday: I email Dario comments at 10:54pm. Does this sound like GOOD FAITH

Takes an innovative mind to muddle something as basic and intuitive as a timeline

28.02.2026 03:54 β€” πŸ‘ 891    πŸ” 104    πŸ’¬ 82    πŸ“Œ 48

a whole lot of businesspeople learning in real time that a predictable and stable regulatory state - even if you don’t like some of the regulations - is vastly preferable to β€œboss man doesn’t like you so you’re fucked now”

28.02.2026 03:29 β€” πŸ‘ 3153    πŸ” 671    πŸ’¬ 30    πŸ“Œ 14
Alice Wong's Celebration of life March 25th, 2026 11am PST
This toolkit is an invitation and a resource for individuals and communities to participate in Alice Wong's Celebration of Life. 
Be it from bed, your living room, local community center, classroom, or in the streets... 
You can join Alice's Celebration of Life through: 
* The livestream + virtual reception: Join the livestream and gather for the virtual reception hosted by Calling UP Justice & San Francisco Disability Cultural Center. 
* In-person livestream watch + your own gathering: host an in-person gathering to join the livestream and connect in person to celebrate Alice. 
* Detailed Toolkit with links, photos, and resources to make your gathering accessible, plus ways to honor Alice Wong's legacy: https://bit.ly/aliceislove

Alice Wong's Celebration of life March 25th, 2026 11am PST This toolkit is an invitation and a resource for individuals and communities to participate in Alice Wong's Celebration of Life. Be it from bed, your living room, local community center, classroom, or in the streets... You can join Alice's Celebration of Life through: * The livestream + virtual reception: Join the livestream and gather for the virtual reception hosted by Calling UP Justice & San Francisco Disability Cultural Center. * In-person livestream watch + your own gathering: host an in-person gathering to join the livestream and connect in person to celebrate Alice. * Detailed Toolkit with links, photos, and resources to make your gathering accessible, plus ways to honor Alice Wong's legacy: https://bit.ly/aliceislove

27.02.2026 15:23 β€” πŸ‘ 246    πŸ” 127    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 2

I really can't emphasize enough that you are a complete freak if you care about Boy Scout genitals

27.02.2026 18:16 β€” πŸ‘ 1829    πŸ” 387    πŸ’¬ 18    πŸ“Œ 8
Bar chart compares total revenue by year  for Amazon and Walmart from 2013 to 2025. In 2013 Walmarts revenue dwarfed Amazon but Amazon’s share rose rapidly over time at a faster rate finally surpassing Walmart in 2025.

Bar chart compares total revenue by year for Amazon and Walmart from 2013 to 2025. In 2013 Walmarts revenue dwarfed Amazon but Amazon’s share rose rapidly over time at a faster rate finally surpassing Walmart in 2025.

The news is a public good worth funding but our leaders have completely lost the plot. See:
Amazon’s decimation of The Washington Post juxtaposed against its record breaking revenue. Amazon takes the No. 1 spot on the Fortune 500, ending Walmart’s 13-year run: fortune.com/article/amaz...

20.02.2026 11:24 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1

The American president is more insulated from accountability than a British royal.

Our political system provides the elite with immunity. It has to change.

19.02.2026 14:44 β€” πŸ‘ 26026    πŸ” 5892    πŸ’¬ 797    πŸ“Œ 269
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Prince Andrew's Arrest Across the pond in Britain, justice and accountability is a serious matter

Never in a million years did I ever fathom when I resurrected the Epstein story in 2018 that it would lead to first arrest of a British Royal in four centuries. Not since King Charles I was arrested in 1647.
open.substack.com/pub/jkbjourn...

19.02.2026 14:32 β€” πŸ‘ 33788    πŸ” 7833    πŸ’¬ 1933    πŸ“Œ 786

The fundamental breaking of the social contract of neighbors helping neighbors feels evil in a way that's very hard to articulate.

19.02.2026 01:58 β€” πŸ‘ 648    πŸ” 186    πŸ’¬ 19    πŸ“Œ 5

My students starting singing β€œWe’re all in this together” when they realized Ramadan and Lent are at the same time this year.

🀣😩

18.02.2026 00:04 β€” πŸ‘ 1184    πŸ” 201    πŸ’¬ 13    πŸ“Œ 13

Happy lunar new year. μƒˆν•΄ 볡 많이 λ°›μœΌμ„Έμš”~

17.02.2026 17:06 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Sounds like me 😭

16.02.2026 20:09 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
11.02.2026 15:46 β€” πŸ‘ 244    πŸ” 62    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 4

Hey, can we get some more news out of Saint Paul re: this?

11.02.2026 16:58 β€” πŸ‘ 25    πŸ” 9    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

I did 🀣 about the Bible 🀣🀣🀣 joker

10.02.2026 22:28 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0