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anyway i have no interest in hanging around a community where people are fine with transphobia and sexual abuse. and i do consider speculating about my "holes" as a trans person to be a sexual violation. fuck anyone in charge here

not even a single time. in fact, i told him to go away. and yet now he's talking about "whatever holes i possess"

do i need to point out how speculating about what holes a nonbinary person has is fucking disgusting? why is this transphobia no big deal???

this report will probably do nothing, too

"relentlessly pinging me" you saw the ENTIRETY of our interactions. i replied to this man to tell him to fuck off and then to tell him he misgendered me. THAT IS IT

i have no fucking idea what he's talking about, accusing me of being a bigot. against who???

i did not invite this man to reply

ok yup i'm done here and never coming back to this site. even after being misgendered (and reporting it, which did absolutely nothing) this fucking asshole comes back and harasses me more. clearly no one at bluesky cares

anyway i'm tired of getting yelled at by strangers and misgendered even online. so i think i'll just be leaving

they lose their shit over the most basic requests: calling people by their pronouns, acknowledging their gender, affirming trans people exist. the reason is clear. they go after sports and HRT for minors bc transphobes are organized. but their vision is that none of us be allowed to exist. period

it's actually simpler than that. they think trans people don't exist, that it's all a delusion. because they don't approve of trans people (or gay ppl, etc), they think we should be shunned until we are pushed out of the public eye or die. that's why they want to deny us treatment or affirmation

in particular, if i want to report a post to a list, the context is essential, so i can't block the other person

i've been repeatedly misgendered and harassed by people like this. and they are convinced that the site empowers them to do so because they can harass someone to the point of distress, at which care the block will hide all evidence of their abusive behavior. it's so fucked up and victim blaming

block is bullshit in my opinion. it means that MY posts are also hidden, which i often don't want. and they hide the evidence that this person was harassing me

ultimately, it's created a culture where people think they're entitled to abuse and harass you as much as they want bc you aren't blocking

molly posted: "This dude is charging people for posting exhausting comments and yet he’s posted about 50 exhausting comments in my me mentions and so he owes like a mortgage payment to the PCRF I think" and quoted matt kent (he has since removed the quote) i replied: "he seems insufferable wow" matt kent replied: "Make sure to upload a receipt and tag me, so I can match your donation. Thanks in advance!" and quoted his earlier post saying "I am imposing a mandatory $15 donation to the Palestinian Children’s Fund before writing an exhausting comment."

in response to the other screenshot, i said: "hey asshole i responded to molly not you. you weren't invited to this conversation. fuck off" to which he said: "You know where the block button is."

i NEVER initiated a conversation with this man. instead, the entirety of our interactions have been him coming into my mentions to harass me (hilariously, insisting *i* am making him reply to me!) and refusing to leave me alone when i told him to fuck off

why don't i just block him? bc the nuclear

i quoted matt kent @ https://bsky.app/profile/pharmkent.bsky.social because he was harassing me. his post reads "You know where the block button is." i quoted and said: "it's actually ridiculous how many people on this website will insert themself into your conversations with other people, start harassing you, and then go "you can just block me" when you tell them to fuck off. i shouldn't have to block people bc they can't understand basic boundaries. abusive shit" he replied: "OoooOooooOoo “boundaries” she says while pinging me so I’ll get a notification."

in response to the first screenshot, i said: "oh and now you're misgendering me? you're a real piece of shit. i hope you have the day you deserve" he replied: "All you had to was stop tagging me in posts and you wouldn’t have to see or hear from me. But you couldn’t resist. Sorry hon, block me or leave me alone."

i am sick of how many people on this site are abusive, transphobic assholes and how no one seems to care. i'm so close to quitting this site right now

notice how i told him that he misgendered me and instead of apologizing, he calls me "hon" condescendingly? i'm not an idiot: "hon" is misgendering

gf and i always wear masks when we're out, but hoped we'd be ok around family... no luck. i've been warning people since, and managed to persuade a very sick online friend to take a covid test. it turned out she had it, too. i think numbers are much worse than we know bc people aren't testing

my gf and i visited her family at the end of april and got very sick with covid. it seems ridiculously contagious--not only did every single family member get covid, but our roommate got it from us within 1.5 days after we returned home. it was my first time with confirmed covid and i was so sick

this image depresses me. it's like this area had all the beauty, life, and soul drained from it. humans decimated the natural landscape, only to create a place that's truly dead and empty

that looks so comfortable, too. damn this dog has way more style than i do (which is not hard, admittedly)

this is montjiro and i love him. here he is with a friend

sorry, i can't reveal that and sacrifice my competitive advantage

mine is even worse, i have 0 inactive hours 💀

wow now this is fashion. i should dress like this

so jealous

(especially if their trains are actually accessible to disabled people)

i struggle with this a lot. i managed to get over it a bit, but then people who are very competitive really reignited my anxieties again and stole some of the love. i'm trying to get back to a place where i feel less of that pressure

btw if you're so petrified of doing a bad job that you can't even start, then what you need isn't advice on how to make comics. you need to learn to embrace being messy and bad at things and being okay with that because it's necessary, and actually it's GOOD. being messy is WONDERFUL

shocked that the guy who came into my mentions to harass me and demand i donate money also immediately misgendered me! what a fucking piece of shit

wow wtf is wrong with people

oh and now you're misgendering me? you're a real piece of shit. i hope you have the day you deserve

how?!?!

it's actually ridiculous how many people on this website will insert themself into your conversations with other people, start harassing you, and then go "you can just block me" when you tell them to fuck off. i shouldn't have to block people bc they can't understand basic boundaries. abusive shit

hey asshole i responded to molly not you. you weren't invited to this conversation. fuck off