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@fairestcat.bsky.social

Same girl. New site. Queer, polyam, bi-polar fangirl with eclectic tastes. Vidder. Multifannish AF. Kind of obsessed with figure skating. Once got a concussion from a cat.

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That's beautiful

09.03.2026 18:16 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I love a lanky teenage kitten!

09.03.2026 02:11 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

OMG HE'S PERFECT

09.03.2026 02:05 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I've sent a bunch of emails and dms and made a dw post about my upcoming Europe trip. I have a spreadsheet of possible things to do.

So now, of course, I'm contemplating a massive itinerary change that would add on a bunch of extra planning.

I'm judging myself so hard right now.

08.03.2026 20:55 β€” πŸ‘ 11    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Thank you! It's one of my favourite dresses I've ever owned!

08.03.2026 20:48 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Thank you! I love that dress so much!

08.03.2026 20:47 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

With thanks to @ellenfremedon.bsky.social and @oliviacirce.bsky.social and whoever else it was who convinced me to buy this dress while sitting in the lobby at Wiscon.

08.03.2026 20:43 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
A fat white woman in a dark blue party dress standing in front of a wall of bookshelves. She has bleached-blonde hair with a faded red streak in it, that's short on one side and shoulder length on the other.

The dress is midnight blue taffeta, with gold and red floral embroidery on the bodice and slightly puffed cap sleeves. The front of the dress is cut in a sharp vee to approximately the bottom of the ribs, showing rather a lot of cleavage but without any risk of a wardrobe malfunction. The skirt flares out at the hips and it has pockets.

A fat white woman in a dark blue party dress standing in front of a wall of bookshelves. She has bleached-blonde hair with a faded red streak in it, that's short on one side and shoulder length on the other. The dress is midnight blue taffeta, with gold and red floral embroidery on the bodice and slightly puffed cap sleeves. The front of the dress is cut in a sharp vee to approximately the bottom of the ribs, showing rather a lot of cleavage but without any risk of a wardrobe malfunction. The skirt flares out at the hips and it has pockets.

I keep seeing that "post somebody who looks good in a dress" meme going around and it's all various celebrity pictures, but my immediate reaction was, "I look great in a dress!" So, here, have a picture I forgot to post in December of me looking great in a dress.

08.03.2026 20:42 β€” πŸ‘ 97    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 18    πŸ“Œ 0

RIP Country Joe. The first person (iirc) I interviewed for my protest songs book and a good dude

08.03.2026 18:47 β€” πŸ‘ 150    πŸ” 29    πŸ’¬ 7    πŸ“Œ 0

move slow and repair things

06.03.2026 12:06 β€” πŸ‘ 3678    πŸ” 1187    πŸ’¬ 5    πŸ“Œ 0

The most perfect little peep!

08.03.2026 18:58 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I'm about to register for in-person attendance for the first time and I'm so excited!

08.03.2026 17:35 β€” πŸ‘ 25    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
An old white cassette tape tucked into a cassette case with a cassette card. The label on the tape indicates that it’s Ampex brand. The handwriting on the top line of the label reads β€œNIXON’S RESIGNATION”

An old white cassette tape tucked into a cassette case with a cassette card. The label on the tape indicates that it’s Ampex brand. The handwriting on the top line of the label reads β€œNIXON’S RESIGNATION”

Helping Mom & Dad go through boxes of their old cassettes… this one has been the best find so far:

08.03.2026 14:29 β€” πŸ‘ 155    πŸ” 20    πŸ’¬ 5    πŸ“Œ 2

My iTunes has been doing this for years. It pulls up either Kill James Bond or Lions Led By Donkeys as the cover for a bunch of songs seemingly at random.

08.03.2026 17:32 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

That's a great piece. Thank you.

08.03.2026 17:28 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Rural Soldiers. Forever Wars. My name is Jess and I was a high school Literature teacher for 16 years until I decided to run as a Democrat in a rural, red district in Missouri. I bring you news and politics from Missouri and beyon...

Rural Soldiers. Forever Wars. open.substack.com/pub/jesspipe...
As a stepmom of a soldier, AMEN..

08.03.2026 16:54 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
a gray cat with rose highlights is on a scratching pad throne, thinking about things

a gray cat with rose highlights is on a scratching pad throne, thinking about things

the existence of a can opener implies the existence of an entity whose sole purpose is to manically and arbitrarily reseal cat food into new cans.

a grim and unnecessary cycle.

we must break the wheel.

08.03.2026 16:39 β€” πŸ‘ 536    πŸ” 55    πŸ’¬ 6    πŸ“Œ 0

Those are delightful!

08.03.2026 17:13 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Isn't it great!

07.03.2026 23:38 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Thank you!

07.03.2026 23:38 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I've been living in a hotel since mid-2024, and I've finally found an apartment if I can come up with $2500 up front for the deposit + first month's rent. Any help is appreciated, including sharing this post. #MutualAidRequest #TransCrowdFund

cash.app/$Settiai
paypal.me/poicelle
venmo.com/u/Settiai

07.03.2026 18:01 β€” πŸ‘ 22    πŸ” 38    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 11
Kyla Jamieson 

My Sexual Orientation is Spring

We change time,
make the days longer.
I start to forget
the pact I made
with unhappiness,
take myself
to the ocean,
say I just need
to catch the last
few minutes
of light. This is
how spring is love,
the way it pulls us
towards pleasure.

Kyla Jamieson My Sexual Orientation is Spring We change time, make the days longer. I start to forget the pact I made with unhappiness, take myself to the ocean, say I just need to catch the last few minutes of light. This is how spring is love, the way it pulls us towards pleasure.

this is how spring is love
#SaturdayPoem

07.03.2026 16:56 β€” πŸ‘ 53    πŸ” 23    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
a t shirt that says protect trans kids with wolverine in pink and blue by A.L. kaplan

a t shirt that says protect trans kids with wolverine in pink and blue by A.L. kaplan

LOOK WHAT I GOT

07.03.2026 19:27 β€” πŸ‘ 2691    πŸ” 471    πŸ’¬ 44    πŸ“Œ 26

I'm so happy for you both!

07.03.2026 20:51 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
A grey and silver tabby cat sprawled across a laptop keyboard almost-completely concealing the screen.

A grey and silver tabby cat sprawled across a laptop keyboard almost-completely concealing the screen.

I think he's trying to tell me something.

07.03.2026 20:45 β€” πŸ‘ 27    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0

i love how it's like

anyone: hiβ€”
mark hanretty: i just wish josefin taljegard and jari kessler could go to worlds

07.03.2026 00:42 β€” πŸ‘ 22    πŸ” 5    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Rio! Nakata! SO GOOD. He's going to be SO exciting as a senior competitor. He already has what it takes to compete against the best. #WorldJFigure

06.03.2026 20:38 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

That opening fall was heartbreaking, but Minkyu Seo didn't let it slow him down. He absolutely nailed every subsequent element. He's such a beautiful skater. #WorldJFigure

06.03.2026 20:30 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Happy birthday!

06.03.2026 20:23 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Rough beginning for Daiya Ebihara, but he kept it from completely falling apart. I'm sorry, but the Avatar soundtrack is just not very good and it doesn't make for particularly exciting or interesting programs. #WorldJFigure

06.03.2026 20:22 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0