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Spoonie. Cat lady. Living in Detroit but left my heart in Buffalo. Lawyer. Legal editor. (she/her) I lost my place but I canโ€™t stop this story ๐ŸŽถ

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In a mood today

07.10.2025 20:29 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I donโ€™t feel like I have a real need for this but for some reason Iโ€™ve always wanted one anyway ๐Ÿ‘€

07.10.2025 20:20 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
A sphinx cat with a bag of coins that reads โ€œyour meme is not a valued member of my collectionโ€

A sphinx cat with a bag of coins that reads โ€œyour meme is not a valued member of my collectionโ€

06.10.2025 21:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

lol probably both

06.10.2025 18:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

So let me explain my situation and what I'm seeking exactly. See if it's something potentially for you
So l've been married 15 years. We have a good marriage. 3 beautiful kids.
However, the marriage mostly revolves around the kids.
I've always been intrigued by the idea of having a second wife where there are no distractions from the two of us. We meet one or two nights a week for quality time. Go out, nice dates, movies, have fun....we don't live together but it's a serious and committed relationship. Not just about sex. I'd be happy to help financially and you have 0 obligations toward me besides the above
I have brought up the idea to my wife but she wasn't on board. Until recently, ! didn't pursue it. But I now have a permanent job that requires me to be away from home 2 nights a week. It would be the perfect time to find what I'm seeking

So let me explain my situation and what I'm seeking exactly. See if it's something potentially for you So l've been married 15 years. We have a good marriage. 3 beautiful kids. However, the marriage mostly revolves around the kids. I've always been intrigued by the idea of having a second wife where there are no distractions from the two of us. We meet one or two nights a week for quality time. Go out, nice dates, movies, have fun....we don't live together but it's a serious and committed relationship. Not just about sex. I'd be happy to help financially and you have 0 obligations toward me besides the above I have brought up the idea to my wife but she wasn't on board. Until recently, ! didn't pursue it. But I now have a permanent job that requires me to be away from home 2 nights a week. It would be the perfect time to find what I'm seeking

Yโ€™allโ€ฆ he wants a mistress. Plain and simple ๐Ÿ™„

06.10.2025 18:14 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Trying to figure out if some of these guys on tinder are actual bots or just copy pasting answers from ChatGPT into their responses because people donโ€™t talk like this ๐Ÿ‘€

06.10.2025 17:54 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I feel like you should have to take a test naming the Mount Rushmore of The Challenge before you can get on the show (one for the guys and one for the women)

06.10.2025 16:16 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I mean everything is plugged into my phone as the full 10 digits just because. I donโ€™t know if Iโ€™ve ever just dialed the 7 numbers because Iโ€™m maybe just a weirdo ๐Ÿ˜‚

06.10.2025 15:24 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Iโ€™m so glad I got a 313 number when I did. Never giving this number up so no one better ruin that for me ๐Ÿ˜‚

06.10.2025 15:05 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I love this for you so much โค๏ธ

06.10.2025 11:23 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

HA. HA. ๐Ÿ˜‚

06.10.2025 01:03 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Ok twice in like the past hour Iโ€™ve been asked where Iโ€™m from & I very confusedly say upstate NY & then the guy replies that heโ€™s from another country ๐Ÿ˜‚ it was embarrassing to happen the first time but a second time?! ๐Ÿ˜‚

06.10.2025 00:05 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I am in this skeet and I hate it ๐Ÿ˜ค

06.10.2025 00:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 6    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Waaaaiiiitttt. This is so rude

06.10.2025 00:00 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

๐Ÿ˜‚ thanks. Iโ€™ve been in a mood all day & then I opened tinder & was like โ€œthis is the confidence boost I needed at this exact momentโ€

05.10.2025 23:58 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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a little girl is wearing a fairy costume and says " your loss baby " Alt: a little girl is wearing a fairy costume and says " your loss baby "

Itโ€™s fine. This is fine. I created a tinder profile yesterday and I already have like 1,200 likes to sort through. I already have much hotter guys in my messages telling me Iโ€™m pretty ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ

05.10.2025 23:22 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 6    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
A screenshot of a tinder profile that reads:


Second Wife 41
Looking for
Long-term partner
About me

Physician, well rounded, down to earth, sarcastic, and witty.
Seeking a nontraditional second marriage. Plenty of dates, love, and affection but we don't live together. We only spend a couple of night a week together. You don't have to cook, clean.... and l'd be happy to help financially as a husband would

A screenshot of a tinder profile that reads: Second Wife 41 Looking for Long-term partner About me Physician, well rounded, down to earth, sarcastic, and witty. Seeking a nontraditional second marriage. Plenty of dates, love, and affection but we don't live together. We only spend a couple of night a week together. You don't have to cook, clean.... and l'd be happy to help financially as a husband would

Iโ€ฆ I donโ€™t know if Iโ€™m appalled or intrigued. I get to live my own life & only see you occasionally but youโ€™ll financially support me? ๐Ÿค”

05.10.2025 22:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 8    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 3    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1
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a man standing in front of a door with #schittscreek written on the bottom Alt: David Rose from Schittโ€™s Creek saying โ€œeat glassโ€ and opening a door to leave

Not me trying to dip my toe into the โ€œdatingโ€ pool and getting let down by the very first guy I even somewhat like for the first time in ages

05.10.2025 19:59 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 9    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 3    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

And even when they arenโ€™t the bad bad guy, theyโ€™re turning a blind eye to the real bad guys so theyโ€™re still a part of the system of abuse

05.10.2025 18:41 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Fact.

05.10.2025 18:37 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 6    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Unfortunately they usually are not

05.10.2025 18:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Oh no!!! Iโ€™m so sorry! Thinking good thoughts for you guys โค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธ

05.10.2025 17:11 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

What?! Thatโ€™s amazing!! Congrats!!

05.10.2025 17:10 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

๐Ÿ˜‚ it means he was a prison guard. And you forgot to include that youโ€™re married, sir ๐Ÿ˜‚

05.10.2025 17:06 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I know ๐Ÿ˜ฉ I tried asking questions about how & why & it sounds like he just landed there by circumstance & because his size made him a good candidate because heโ€™s like a giant but likeโ€ฆ I still donโ€™t like it

05.10.2025 16:15 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Found a guy on tinder who is my type to a perfect t. He is gorgeous. Heโ€™s tall. Heโ€™s driven & ambitious. Just perfect. And then I find out he used to be a corrections officer & manโ€ฆ I donโ€™t know if I can get past that ๐Ÿฅด

05.10.2025 15:50 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 11    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 4    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Got up early to go to the gym before starting work. Got the gym & the shower part done but I canโ€™t seem to make myself do the work part ๐Ÿ˜…

05.10.2025 15:16 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 27    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

๐Ÿ‘€ doooo iiiitttttttt

05.10.2025 13:52 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

๐Ÿฅต๐Ÿฅต๐Ÿฅต

05.10.2025 02:10 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Wait. They also added me ๐Ÿ‘€

05.10.2025 01:40 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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