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LitFic & essay whisperer Nonprofit/philanthropic wrangler MPA. INTJ.FAFO.

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WHY YOU NEED TO KNOW THIS: So you can get in where you fit in.

Can you give $$? Give time? Can you cook? Keep good records? Have a flatbed truck? Can your strong back haul bags of groceries? Are you a good table host? A great greeter?

Find your right place. Your neighbors need you NOW.

30.10.2025 19:22 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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🧡MEAL SITE = Local. Provides communal hot meals or brown bag takeaway lunches. Think: soup kitchens, elder group meals, afterschool programs. Need volunteer cooks, servers, cleaners, distribution staff, and people w/ trucks to pick up food, which is primarily sourced from food banks. Also need $.

30.10.2025 19:14 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

If you want to give to a food pantry: Donations of $$ help them buy the meat or butter needed to make a meal of food bank supplied dry goods.

If you want to do a food drive/give donations of food, ask what *specific* foods your pantry needs to make their grocery bags complete meals for families.

30.10.2025 19:10 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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🧡FOOD PANTRY Local. Distributes bags of groceries to individuals and families. Food mostly comes from food banks, supplemented by food and $$ donations. Mix of staff and volunteers. Need volunteers for stocking, distribution, people with trucks to go to the Food Bank.

30.10.2025 19:08 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
Find Your Local Food Bank | Feeding America Find the Feeding America member food bank nearest you. Over 200 member food banks can connect you with free food, food pantries, soup kitchens, and mobile pantries in your community.

The national network of Food Banks is called Feeding America.
Find your local Food Bank here:
www.feedingamerica.org/find-your-lo...

30.10.2025 19:04 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

🧡FOOD BANK = Warehouse that collects literal tons of govt surplus, farm gleanings & chain grocery donations. Distributes food to pantries, meal sites, & childcare programs, not individuals. Staffed by tractor-trailer and pallet jack drivers. Give $$: $1 donated to a food bank buys $7 worth of food.

30.10.2025 19:03 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

Do you want to help with the current and expanding food emergency? Is that a food bank? a food pantry? a meal site?

Here are some words that can help you find the place you want to connect 🧡

30.10.2025 18:58 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0

Notably: every single rally (including in the small towns) was bigger than the surrounding police force available. That kind of image event is VERY IMPORTANT if you're, I dunno, demonstrating social coherence AGAINST a fascist government and it's makeshift gestapo.

19.10.2025 01:56 β€” πŸ‘ 3249    πŸ” 651    πŸ’¬ 11    πŸ“Œ 27

This is why it’s important to use old-fashioned plain words, like β€œracial segregation” instead of DEI.

23.09.2025 12:58 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Disruption across Italy as tens of thousands protest against Gaza war Schools and stations closed and ports blocked in one of Europe’s biggest demonstrations opposing Israel’s offensive

www.theguardian.com/world/2025/s...

23.09.2025 03:15 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Krystal, thank you for this frequent prompt. Could you include a link to β€œhow to do this” next time? Not your job, but for effectiveness. I trusted your voice, so when you gave the prompt + the how-to, I actually changed my behavior. Now always use ALT-text!

Offered with much appreciation

20.09.2025 19:36 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Former food bank administrator here. Food banks are giant warehouses that receive & distribute government surplus and bulk purchased food to your local emergency food pantry & meal sites. This survey determines how food banks are funded. This means no govt cheese or PB, no community meals.

20.09.2025 19:15 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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160-mile march for democracy arrives in Washington from Philadelphia Over the span of 14 days, nearly 200 people marched from Philadelphia to Washington, D

Over the span of 14 days, nearly 200 people marched from Philadelphia to Washington, D.C., in defense of democracy.

abcnews.go.com/US/wireStory...

20.09.2025 18:56 β€” πŸ‘ 37    πŸ” 7    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 1

More to the point: Fuck them so I can be safe. Sacrifice them so I can be safe.

20.09.2025 15:39 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

OH resident here. I think the subtext is β€œsacrifice women/Appalachians/etc so that coastal metros can keep their freedom, comfort, and sense of superiority” e.g. maintain the liberal status quo

20.09.2025 15:19 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

It is always clarifying to say β€œGuantanamo Bay, Cuba.” Most Americans don’t understand this political prison is not in the U.S.

14.09.2025 14:08 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Thank you for beginning this conversation long ago, with your cemetery tours and research to write your novel Spider In A Tree. Northampton once lived in denial that it had residents held in slavery. You are a part of the illumination and rememory of their precious lives in that place.

14.09.2025 02:28 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

So do I have this right? The current regime’s plan: Restore white supremacy by (1) Removing working class Latinos to prison camps & traumatized silence thru Dirty War means, while (2) Creating massive middle class Black unemployment to force them into the β€œBlack jobs” for which they are β€œqualified”

14.09.2025 02:24 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Author Katie Kitamura at Literary Cleveland’s Inkubator conference

Author Katie Kitamura at Literary Cleveland’s Inkubator conference

Katie Kitamura @ Literary Cleveland’s Inkubator writing conference is generous,sonorous and inspiring.

13.09.2025 15:46 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Got mine last weekend. So hard to find in Ohio.

12.09.2025 19:43 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I’ve spent decades building community groups and shifting distribution of $$$ towards building a more just future. I have 12-15 people I call to check on. I have 0.5 people who check on me. It feels like β€œweak sauce” if you’re held in community, but not if you’re the one doing the holding.

12.09.2025 19:29 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

It’s important to amplify every example of our refusal to submit to brutality and oppression

08.09.2025 01:36 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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29.08.2025 14:14 β€” πŸ‘ 14522    πŸ” 4107    πŸ’¬ 220    πŸ“Œ 173

I don’t know which newsletter you mean, but I sure could use some uplift

08.08.2025 18:21 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

If anybody β€œalready gave at the office β€œ it’s her.

30.07.2025 21:00 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Oh,good grief. Thanks for translating. Some days even journalists have no words for this bullshit.

10.07.2025 18:48 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

The phrasing in this post it’s so confusing that I have read it three times and still can’t understand what it says. Please consider rephrasing and reposting.

10.07.2025 18:35 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

So grateful for this post. Pretending that what I do at my job is relevant is psychologically exhausting. I feel hopeless and sleep too much, but I don't think I'm depressed. I think this is a normal response to this level of terror and dread.

10.07.2025 16:48 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

You are doing something. I am shaking and hiding. My Senator just sent an email bragging that he voted to massively increase ICE presence on our β€œnorthern border” β€” in Ohio.

04.07.2025 00:21 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

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