Sam and Kate

Cuckolding From An Abundance Mindset It sure seems I’m not doing a great job at the every two week cadence.  I think it’s just harder for me to write in the winter time.  Casa Da Sam & Kate is surviving this long cold wi…

I’m terrible at social media, at least using it to share posts or whatever. Either way, intentions you well!!

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Why Cuckolding? What’s The Appeal For Me / Us? Why Cuckolding? What’s the appeal? Kate and I were driving home from a nice night out on the town last weekend, decidedly vanilla affair, no one was naked at any poin…

Here’s a little bit of a deeper dive into the hows and why’s of cuckolding in our relationship. How does yours look and work?

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Keep in mind that EVERYTHING he says or does going forward is to distract from the EPSTEIN files.

E-V-E-R-Y-T-H-I-N-G.

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Wholesale inflation up .9%.

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Strikes out with make-believe peace meeting.

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$60 million taxpayer money on golf outings.

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Pete is on point here. We all need to be screaming Epstein at the top of our voices.

What’s Going On With Guys?? It’s Getting Weird Out There I love the view I have right now. It’s 8:44 Monday evening. Clifford’s head and snout (Kate and I both agree she has my nose) are laying on the arm of the couch, …

Anyone else seeing stuff like this out there? Any other signs indicating that how guys interact in real life is changing?

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What I Get Out Of Our (mostly) One Way Open Marriage Spoiler Alert: Exactly What I Need About a half hour ago, Kate returned from spending the night with Chris. As always, Clifford The Wonder Dog and myself were out in the driveway when she pulled in…

I suppose it’s different for everyone, I mean on the surface it’s pretty clear what Kate gets. It’s more subtle for me, tho no less fulfilling.

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Pattern Recognition Kate + An Interracial Party = Gangbang If there’s a rhyme or reason to the ebbs and flows of our sexual energy / adventures, I missed that memo. It’s Tuesday night as I sit starting to write this p…

Have you ever been to an IR party? What’s been your experience?

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What’s Your Exit Strategy? Can You Swing Forever? The day will come when Kate and I hang up our various lifestyle / ENM / swinger / cuckolding spurs. Neither of us are planning on that ending any time soon. Sure, we’re evolv…

Ya see soooooo many cucks get sooooo wrapped up in the lifestyle, ya wonder if they loose themselves. What happens when the inevitable happens and it’s over?

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LIVE!!! From Sunny Rest Sam & Kate Visit The Pocono’s Nudist Resort There’s something that’s really peaceful about being the first / only one up in the morning. All the better when it’s away from home. At a nudist res…

We’re at a nudist resort that’s reaaaaaaly as much a swinger place as anything this weekend. Great energy, and the zero fucks given nudist vibe.

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Living The Hotwife Life It’s Who We Are Here’s breaking news or perhaps a plot twist for some folks: women, maybe not all, but a damn good percentage of them, have a sexual capacity and appetite that puts men to shame. Do…

Is it really the middle of May? Is sundress season really upon us??? I hope so!!!

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If you know; you know.

Pretty on the nose meme.

Ya Can’t Use Rules To Legislate Away Feelings Yeah, That’s Not Gonna Work. Fellow Reddit’er subsoccerplayer dropped the gem that I’ve used as the title of this post in a thread in the Cuckold Psychology sub recently. It’s a rule of thumb in th…

How about it, what’s the state of rules in your relationship (s)? Have they evolved? Have they worked for you? Inquiring mi da want to know!!!

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What Not To Do A Few Cardinal Errors In The ENM World Waaaaay back in dare I say it, 1986, young PV2 Sam arrived at his first duty station after finishing initial training in the Army. Ft. Hood Texas was and stil…

Knowing what not to do can be a pretty potent guide.

Happy Friday!!!

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Progress, Not Perfection Does Cheating And Rule Breaking Have To Be The End? Name one thing you’ve done perfectly, every minute of every day since you’ve been alive……I’ll wait. To get things started, I’ll go first…………………………

Soooo many Reddit posts about rules and cheating. Take a breath and try to see if there’s opportunity for growth in the chaos.

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Cuckolding / ENM / Swinging Is The Secret To Life Well, One Of The Secrets Anyway English has got to be a clusterfuck of a language to learn later in life. How in the hell do you drive on parkways and park in driveways?? Jumbo Shrimp? Military Int…

A nice conversation I had this week with Michael C from @keysandanklets.bsky.social dovetailed perfectly with what Kate and I were writing about. Great to jabber jaw with him a bit!!!

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Getting Old Doesn’t Have To Suck Make The Rest Of Your Life The Best Of Your Life Kate and I have been one day at time / in the moment people for a long time now; more than a decade. This is a great way to live, so long as you und…

Back to it after a great visit with family out west. Time marches on, nothing ya can do about it, may as well enjoy the ride!!

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True story.

#Nonfiction

It’s like watching a video of a concert vs being there in the crowd. Feeling the power and energy vs being on your couch.

i never feel more alive than when, like she is as I type this, she’s in another man’s bed.

It’s night and day different.

You’re Not Owed Sex A Common ENM / Swinging / Cuckolding / Poly Problem There’s a guy in our local recovery / sober circle who Kate and I have known since we each walked thru the doors of our fellowship for the f…

I’m tired and don’t have a catchy into for this, so here’s this weeks post.

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I’d love to know what percentage of the monogamy identifying people have cheated or were engaged in an active affair. Non-monogamy is probably the norm in that light.

294 days till Feast of the Ass ‘26!!!

That’s HOT!!!

Getting Lucky At A Swinger Club Luck Of The Irish-ish On St. Patrick’s Weekend ***Our episode on the Normalizing Non Monogamy podcast is out. It’s episode 384, and linked in this sentence. A reminder that we use our real nam…

Happy Thursday!!! Kate and I hit a club and had a great time last weekend. Also, Clifford The Wonder Dog had an adventure….

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