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Transgender, vegetarian, environmentalist, contrarian, immigrant... You have been warned!!

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My contrarian point of view..
Coprolalia is a disability, should we edit out any disabilities that make us uncomfortable?
Or should we learn a bit about them before demonizing people for a condition that they are living with.

25.02.2026 01:16 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0

I love your designs, I was just about to complete my order, but the international shipping is a killer!
I'll order some next time I am in the UK.

14.02.2026 22:37 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
Nominations open for our Decadal Awards | Pride in STEM

In April, #PrideinSTEM turns 10! We will have a celebration for it, and we would like to recognize individuals who have had a positive impact on LGBTQIA+ People in STEM, here in the UK!

Do you know someone who fits that description?

Nominate them here:

prideinstem.org/2026/01/27/n...

πŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆπŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈπŸ§ͺπŸ”­

27.01.2026 18:31 β€” πŸ‘ 40    πŸ” 24    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 5
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Actions for Trans Allies Actions For Allies With increasing transphobia in the media and politics, being trans is getting more dangerous every day. Trans people’s access to public spaces, services, and healthcare are being re...

I also made this online document of easy-to-take actions for allies who want to support trans people right now: docs.google.com/document/u/0... πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈ

06.11.2025 06:05 β€” πŸ‘ 29    πŸ” 15    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 1

Body cam?

12.01.2026 18:51 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

We keep hearing all these warnings that AI will get too powerful and take over potentially eliminating humans.

Sounds far fetched maybe... Or maybe it is already happening?

01.01.2026 02:48 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Same⬆️

01.01.2026 02:40 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Great video and so true.
I began my transition at the age of 45, so I missed sooooo much. While I do feel the loss of experiences that I never had I look at what I did achieve, while I was fighting that constant battle with myself.
and I look at all the possibilities going forward.

18.09.2025 01:02 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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CW: EXTREME ANTI-TRANS SLURS AND BIGOTRY

I'm not going to share this regularly as it won't be helpful to do so and will just be harmful - but I want to share it at least once to just show you the amount of hateful rhetoric a trans person receives.

15.09.2025 07:41 β€” πŸ‘ 636    πŸ” 102    πŸ’¬ 47    πŸ“Œ 3

Hey Jessie, thanks for sharing this, I think it is important for people to see the vial hate that trans folks face, particularly online. Words that don't simply state an opinion, but are intended to cause harm.
Stay strong and take care of yourself πŸ’ͺ πŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆπŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈπŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆπŸ’ͺ

15.09.2025 11:13 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Any ethical hackers here?

09.08.2025 15:51 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Wish I had seen this earlier!!!
I definitely need to be more of a menace!

13.07.2025 23:26 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I think the real answer here is decisions regarding gender affirming care should be between doctors and their patients. Politicians and ill informed public should play absolutely no role in this process.

02.06.2025 19:11 β€” πŸ‘ 17    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I can't speak for Abigail, but my first feelings of dysphoria occurred around the age of 5, however I didn't have the vocabulary or knowledge to understand what I was feeling, so I had no way to tell anyone.

02.06.2025 19:07 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

How about the state of gender affirming care in the province?

We have one transgender health specialist for the entire province. There are people that need care and simply can't get it.

01.06.2025 10:42 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Congratulations πŸŽ‰

24.05.2025 17:01 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I subscribed a few years ago, but don't use YouTube much anymore.
Have you considered becoming a nebula creator?

22.05.2025 13:55 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Yep, been there!!
A necessary part of growing into womanhood.

19.05.2025 14:11 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
i watched our rights disappear in real time.
YouTube video by Hannah Phillips i watched our rights disappear in real time.

πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈ I watched my rights disappear - not in theory, but in real time! πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈ

This isn’t just a story about being trans in the UK.
It’s what it feels like!

youtu.be/g0_dtFrm7po

#TransRightsAreHumanRights

16.05.2025 18:28 β€” πŸ‘ 16    πŸ” 8    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 1

Another great video Hannah!

The supreme Court ruling came down while I was visiting my family in the UK and it was a genuinely odd feeling being visibly trans in public in the days after the ruling.
Am I going to be challenged when I use the ladies room? Do people now see me as a threat?

17.05.2025 10:45 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Love this πŸ’•

β€œTo those self-serving politicians & so-called religious people who’ve always got their nose in your crack & think the LGBTQ community & trans community somehow pose a threat to you…if you just leave them alone & treat them like actual human beings…then everything would be just fine.”

09.05.2025 18:51 β€” πŸ‘ 10    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Some major backward steps for the LGBTQ community in the UK recently. I really wonder if the changes in policy reflect the will of the public or that of a small vocal minority.
I have always felt safe and accepted as a visibly trans woman visiting the UK.

15.05.2025 11:30 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

As a former resident of the New Forest and a transgender woman I am excited to see the progress you are making in the region.
There will be backlash, but most importantly there will be conversation and hopefully more acceptance and understanding of our community.

15.05.2025 11:16 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Yay Hannah, yay Bournemouth!!!

11.05.2025 18:45 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Depicting someone as a woman in an attempt to humiliate them... Pretty demeaning to women wouldn't you say?

Context, I am trans and seeing myself as a freakish caricature of a woman was a major barrier to me accepting myself as trans.

04.05.2025 08:52 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I wish I had known, I am in the country visiting family!

Any suggestions on how I can keep up in LGBTQ events in the Bournemouth Salisbury Southampton area?

26.04.2025 23:32 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

That's really encouraging, I needed this news today!

23.04.2025 23:25 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Voting locations – Elections Canada Information for electors in Canada. All you need to vote.

www.elections.ca/content2.asp...

06.04.2025 20:24 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Did you know you can vote early in the Canadian Federal election??

Canada, get out and vote, no excuses!!!

06.04.2025 20:23 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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The American people have risen up and they are PISSED AS HELL.
#HandsOff

06.04.2025 02:44 β€” πŸ‘ 54346    πŸ” 14123    πŸ’¬ 1668    πŸ“Œ 978