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Focal Femme

@focalfemme.bsky.social

πŸ“Έ Fantasy boudoir photographer πŸ‘™ Freelance branding model πŸ”₯ Lingerie + latex + costumes πŸ’‹ Latex designer (when time allows) 🩷 Confidence creatix πŸ‘€ Pleasure advocate Follow me on IG! www.instagram.com/focalfemme www.instagram.com/femme_tog

240 Followers  |  73 Following  |  169 Posts  |  Joined: 07.01.2025
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she is beauty, she is grace
lick her thighs with your face πŸ‘…πŸ˜ˆ

#boudoir #lingerie #milf #mommydommy #realwoman #thickthighs #mommydomme

15.02.2026 22:17 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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If you've been naughty this year, PROVE IT πŸ”₯πŸ‘‡πŸΌπŸŽ

See the full length video at link in @shedevils.bsky.social 's bio 🌢️

Don't forget to turn that sound up! πŸ”Š
Video shot, edited & produced by me πŸ‘ŒπŸΌ

#onlyfans #mommydomme #tattooedgirls #ofgirlsofbsky #nsfw #nsfwsky #naughty #spicy #fantasy #kinky #sexy

26.12.2025 00:33 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Color or BW?

*wearing my new Edge O' Beyond lingerie set paired with my custom fetish leather boot spurs (I love how they caught the light!)

Images by ScorpioTog
Follow on Instagram for more!

#lingerie #boudoir #over40women #buttsky #designerlingerie #curvy #curvyandtattooed #lingeriemodel

08.12.2025 19:46 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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When you play with fire, expect to get burnt πŸ”₯

#lingerie #bodysuit #thistleandspire #tattooedgirl #milf #lingerieofbluesky #over40 #maturewoman #nsfwsky

29.10.2025 14:44 β€” πŸ‘ 9    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Happy Scorpio szn πŸ•ΈοΈ

Images by @eugnell.bsky.social
Outfit by Videnoir

24.10.2025 20:26 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Buy the dress!! It's SO good!! 🀌🏼

24.10.2025 20:23 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Pleasure should be give and take.

It doesn't matter if you're a sub, domme, switch or vanilla as cake.

YOU ARE WORTHY OF PLEASURE.

23.10.2025 23:29 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

It took me awhile to fully believe I was worthy of pleasure - not just in the moment - but to change my mindset from one of not being worthy - to becoming a SEXUAL GODDESS hellbent on discovering forms of pleasure which I previously didn't give a second thought to unless I was on the giving end.

23.10.2025 23:29 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I remember the first time a friend drunkenly went down on me - no reciprocation required.

I was nervous.
I fidgeted.
I started to disassociate.

Feeling my apprehension, she said "Relax. You're safe. You deserve pleasure."

And for the first time in my life, I believed it.

23.10.2025 23:29 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Most associate "sexual awakenings" with your teenage years - but I was 41.

I was coming out of my shell and into my confidence and starting to explore my bisexuality all at the same time.

And it was beautiful.

23.10.2025 23:29 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

It took me longer to associate body acceptance with my desire for my own pleasure - but the two really went hand in hand.

23.10.2025 23:29 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

It took me a long time to realize WHY.

Part of it was clearly because no one was advocating for my pleasure - if I wasn't going to advocate for myself, he sure as hell wasn't going to. I mean, why would he when he was used to having me 100% devoted to HIS PLEASURE?

23.10.2025 23:29 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

The end goal was always HIS pleasure.

I would disassociate and go into some fantasy porn world in my head, pretending I was someone else. I would moan and fake orgasms and, once finished, roll over and quietly masturbate after I was sure he had fallen asleep.

23.10.2025 23:29 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I've always been a very sexual person - but it wasn't until my early 40's that I learned how to ACCEPT pleasure.

I was always the giver - giving, giving, giving to my lover and never expecting (or even desiring) anything in return.

23.10.2025 23:29 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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When did you first feel confident in your own skin? When did you first recognize the power of your pleasure?

Shot by ScorpioTog (*Insta)

04.09.2025 02:02 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Caption this you pervs -

29.07.2025 21:48 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1

Thank you gorgeous!! πŸ₯°πŸ˜˜

28.07.2025 17:33 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

So cool! I'm an audiophile so this pattern was made for me πŸ€—

21.07.2025 16:27 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Such a hottie!! 😻

03.07.2025 03:44 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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The only thing preventing me from opening an only fans at this point is time - I have none. So it will stay on the "someday" list along with becoming a burlesque performer and hosting an entire fashion show filled with my latex designs...

#curvy #tattooed #showerscene #lingerie #boudoir #sexuality

02.07.2025 22:40 β€” πŸ‘ 11    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Let them eat cake 🍰

*Can you spot the cake I'm referring to? πŸ˜‰

#bootysky #bbwsky #curvy #nsfw #lingerie #creativeportrait #boudoir #curvygirl #over40 #sexy #lingeriemodel #rococco #baroque #fineart #curvymodel #pinklingerie #mirrorpose #creativephotography #fantasy #spicy #classy

25.06.2025 21:52 β€” πŸ‘ 11    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Good girls read dirty books πŸ“š

And REALLY good girls write them 😸

#goodgirl #naughty #smut #dirtythoughts #nsfwsky #womenwhowrite #spicy

10.06.2025 01:19 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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My first boudoir shoot changed my life.

Have you done boudoir?
What did you get out of it?

Help me hype up the ladies who are on the fence!

And check out today's post on Insta for more on my 1st boudoir experience!

#boudoir #lingerie #sexy #blackandwhitephotography #fishnet #curvy #thisis40

09.06.2025 02:32 β€” πŸ‘ 10    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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It's Friday, I'm in love - with multiple genders, cuz that's how I do πŸ˜˜πŸ’Ÿ

#boudoir #bigirl #queercreator #thick #thickthighs #thickthighssavelives

30.05.2025 19:06 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Save a horse, ride a bisexual
πŸ©·πŸ’œπŸ’™

I'll be sharing more from this set on Insta soon. Make sure you're following so you don't miss it πŸ˜‰

#yeehaw #cowgirl #lingerie #giddyup #cowboy #nsfw #buttsky #thickthighs #tattooed #curvy #boudoir #fashionbranding #lingeriemodel #ugc #ugcmodel #boudoirinspo #sexy

25.05.2025 16:29 β€” πŸ‘ 11    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Here kitty kitty 🐈

#curvy #boudoir #selfportraits #catsuit #fishnets #cougar #spicy #pleasure #thisis40 #milf #mommy #switch #bisexual #unicorn #femalesexuality #confidence #fineart #nsfw #nippleclamps #bdsm #boobsky #lingerie #therealnsfwsky #nsfwsky #curvyandtattooed #lingeriemodel #curvymodel

10.05.2025 18:33 β€” πŸ‘ 19    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0
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The bow tattoos were supposed to be red but I didn't notice he didn't color them until he was done πŸ€¦πŸΌβ€β™€οΈ hoping they can still be colored in and look good πŸŽ€

I'm wearing nude hose today and it legit looks like I'm wearing seamed stockings πŸ‘ŒπŸΌπŸ’•

#lingerie #boudoir #fineartphotography #newink #legs #tats

08.05.2025 14:57 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Stunning!

06.05.2025 17:46 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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πŸ’• Valley of the Dolls πŸ’•

#latex #latexmodel #fantasy #spicy #curvy #nsfw #dominantwoman #femdom #domme #switch #buttsky #legssky #sexy #pinkhair

06.05.2025 17:43 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Bracing for impact πŸ”₯πŸ’‹

Shot by ScorpioTog (@scorpiotog on Insta)

#boudoir #bootysky #nude #spicy #buttsky #nsfw #datass #curvy #tattooed #thisis40 #40andfabulous #sexy #sensual #lingerie #redlingerie #thistleandspire #lingeriecollector #scorpio #maturewomen #femme #redhot #portraitphotography

02.05.2025 03:41 β€” πŸ‘ 10    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0