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Mission: Loving from the inside out Both single & an #UnweddedWidow Adult child of IFBs/Mostly-agnostic humanist Adult-diagnosed ADHD/cPTSD/chronic fatigue From Minneapolis (area)/in Columbus, OH Passionate about social justice conniewinch.com

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And have been along these same lines for *decades*.

02.03.2026 00:38 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

OMG the way they portrayed how long grief lasts... awesome. πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

πŸ––

28.02.2026 02:11 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Except...what is the Doctor's problem??? #StarTrekStarfleetAcademy

28.02.2026 01:43 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Im not even halfway through this week's episode of #StarTrekStarfleetAcademy, and I am LOOOVING how theyre dealing w/trauma. Bravo! πŸ‘πŸ––

28.02.2026 00:51 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

Per #UberEats, my dinner is being delivered by a guy *on a bicycle*. 🚲 WTF?!?

28.02.2026 00:01 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

OMG if I never again see that OSU hospital commercial WITH THE WEXNER NAME STILL ON THE BUILDING, it'll be way too soon. 😠

27.02.2026 13:32 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I dont "have Adult ADHD." I have #ADHD that went undiagnosed until I was an adult. And since it's a neurological condition, you're either born with it or not, so.

26.02.2026 07:36 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Make that...this whole thread. OOF.

26.02.2026 07:26 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Last 5 posts: YESSS from me. Can confirm.

26.02.2026 07:26 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

This occurs not because we don't care about what is being said but because we have difficulty sustaining our attention for very long."

26.02.2026 07:26 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

"There is also the 'Wait, what?' phenomenon that happens when those of us with ADHD forget to listen. We think we are listening, and then our minds begin to drift. We zone out without realizing it, which leads to difficulty in remembering conversations or following a complex set of directions.

26.02.2026 07:26 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

they are more interesting or more easily accomplished than our higher-priority tasks."

26.02.2026 07:22 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

"Because of how the ADHD brain operates, we have a hard time paying attention if something isn't inherently interesting or emotionally engaging. Functions that we find monotonous or mundane create more difficulties for us. That is why we will so often get distracted by lower-priority tasksβ€”

26.02.2026 07:22 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

"ADHD can help someone focus, however, on tasks they find stimulating or engaging because a specific part of their brain is emotionally invested in the activity."

26.02.2026 07:19 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

neuotypical person compete for our attention. Because of our brains that go *ping!* our attention is often inefficiently redirected."

-Dr. Tamara Rosier, Your Brain's Not Broken

26.02.2026 07:17 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

that our five senses are detecting: people whispering, crooked artwork on the wall, perfume that is too strong, the itchy tag of our T-shirt lights that are too bright. Because we don't have the filters to sift out unnecessary information, these distractions, which are nearly invisible to the

26.02.2026 07:17 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

"There is a misconception that those with ADHD lack the ability to pay attention or stay focused. The reality is that ADHD causes us to pay too *much* attention to everything most of the timeβ€”especially when it comes from our environment. We may become easily distracted by irrelevant information

26.02.2026 07:17 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Thanks! πŸ’™

25.02.2026 13:43 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

"The distinct disadvantage of those of us with ADHD often feel compared to our non-ADHD peers [is that] Our symptoms whittle away at our efficiency in life and erode our beliefs in our own ability to succeed."

The number of times I've "objectively" felt like a failure says this is true.

25.02.2026 08:03 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

"As I listened, I heard the all-too-familiar refrain: *It's hard to be me.* This refrain is not an exaggeration or symptoms of a pity party. When a person has ADHD, it not only *feels* very difficult to manage even the average day-to-day challenges of life; it actually *is* more difficult."

25.02.2026 07:58 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

"'People don't have any idea how hard I work to do normal stuff,' Kristine said, tearing up again. 'It's just so hard.'"

Yessss. Can confirm.

#ADHD #AdultADHD

25.02.2026 07:53 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Well, it's news to me that that last one's a symptom! I figured my emotional sensitivity was from all the shit have been through. πŸ€ͺ Because yeah...I have cPTSD too. 😞

Im really sick and tired of being Double Whammy Girl.

25.02.2026 07:50 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

"I was able to reassure Kristine that she was exhibiting the most common ADHD symptoms among adults: problems with working memory, trouble directing focus, struggles with the organization and time management, and emotional hypersensitivity."

25.02.2026 07:50 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

one does not outgrow ADHD. Some symptoms can lessen or disappear as a person gets older, but that is not the same as outgrowing them."

25.02.2026 07:44 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Adults with ADHD, previously known as ADD, often struggle to regulate attention and impulses due to differences in the way their brains have developed and function. Although ADHD is still often thought of as the naughty-boy disease that will eventually go away with maturity science, now shows that

25.02.2026 07:44 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I have so many people willing to help. But what do I tell them to do?'" -Dr. Tamara Rosier, Your Brain's Not Broken

Can relate to so much of that. πŸ˜΅β€πŸ’«

#ADHD #AdultADHD

25.02.2026 07:41 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

"'Everything's a mess, my car, my apartment. I keep making stupid little mistakes. I'm tired and overwhelmed all the time. I keep telling myself, "Kristine, you can do better. Get it together!" But it seems like I just can't. My fiancΓ© asks how he can help meβ€”I don't even know what help to ask for.

25.02.2026 07:41 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

"Part of this problem is how others judge me. But another part is how hard I judge myself. Like so many with ADHD, I am sensitive to rejection and criticism. I make the cognitive mistake of seeing criticism where it wasn't intended...."

25.02.2026 07:26 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

"Because those of us with ADHD receive so many small messages like that, they build up and leave dents in our sense of well-being." -Dr. Tamara Rosier, Your Brain's Not Broken | As if I didn't have enough dents in my sense of well-being from other things. 😞

25.02.2026 07:21 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

character, telling me to pay more attention to this or that."

(RUDE!)

-Dr. Tamara Rosier, Your Brain's Not Broken: Strategies for Navigating Your Emotions and Life with ADHD

25.02.2026 07:17 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0