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Heidi & Mand

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We have #metastaticbreastcancer Our motto is: we are dying but not right now! We have difficult conversations, we find each other funny. Whatโ€™s not to like?! Podcast๐Ÿ‘‡ https://open.spotify.com/show/4L343Uhn1pHbJH8nDCFZvW?si=LUfKykErQieM5_96tMQLZw

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Picture of a wall clock with the date 20/11/2025 and the time being 12.35.

Picture of a wall clock with the date 20/11/2025 and the time being 12.35.

New #cancer line of treatment,
extra checks rightly made = 90 minutes before the we got down to business.

Sent this photo to my husband as this was just about the time we were supposed to sit down for his birthday lunch

All the best laid plans and thatโ€ฆ

#cancer #cansky #oncsky

22.11.2025 16:33 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Close up shot, highlighting the red flush on her face following chemo

Close up shot, highlighting the red flush on her face following chemo

The olโ€™ chemo flush,
or is it the accompanying steroids?โ€ฆ

not bothered as long as itโ€™s doing its business ๐Ÿ˜Œ

#chemo #metastaticcancer #oncsky #cansky

22.11.2025 13:40 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Waiting for my Portacath* surgery, gives me time to read this fella. Ohh intellectual ๐Ÿ˜†

*catheter to support blood tests, intravenous & other needle based treatments. It helps cancer patients whose veins are taking a bruising from ongoing treatment.

#oncsky #cansky #cancer

17.11.2025 10:03 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 6    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Lovely to see you back on your feet.

17.11.2025 09:45 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

That is great ๐Ÿ‘

16.11.2025 22:44 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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My GSD keeping a watchful eye on my bacon sandwich ๐Ÿ‘€

16.11.2025 22:42 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Yes, but quite cool ๐Ÿ˜Ž

12.11.2025 19:05 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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#BraveNewWorld

Meet-up to work out the details of recording our next podcast online, by doing a trial run (topic; exercise and cancer ๐Ÿคซ)

Video recording was invented in the 90s yet the process feel like a temperamental beast weโ€™re yet to master ๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜‚

#cansky #oncsky #cancer

12.11.2025 16:42 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Margot and Didi agree

10.11.2025 12:02 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Love and strength ๐Ÿ’™

03.11.2025 21:40 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Hear, hear!

03.11.2025 17:38 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Ohh, interesting! Music speaks to and for the soul so your decision is a lovely way to take control โค๏ธ

02.11.2025 22:21 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Today, Iโ€™ve done some โ€˜death adminโ€™. As in collating a list of cancellations to be done on my demise such pensions, benefits, bills.

Iโ€™m dying but not today. (Death admin) process is methodically satisfying ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ

#cancer #cansky #oncsky

02.11.2025 17:07 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 11    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

And thank you so much for being our first interviewee ๐Ÿ˜

31.10.2025 17:48 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

It was one of her mates ๐Ÿ˜‚ All in good spirit

31.10.2025 17:47 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

We really could. Youโ€™ve given us food for thought!

31.10.2025 07:33 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Preview
Hope takes on different forms

spotify.link/atnqYb7BTXb

30.10.2025 20:26 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Several photos of Mand and Heidi holding up the book โ€œStories of cancer and hopeโ€ have been collated in this one image. There is also an image of the original pin picture for the podcast (Laugh Before Death)

Several photos of Mand and Heidi holding up the book โ€œStories of cancer and hopeโ€ have been collated in this one image. There is also an image of the original pin picture for the podcast (Laugh Before Death)

โ€œHope takes on many different formsโ€โ€ฆ and that is exactly what we talk with Kevin about in our later podcast episode.

@storiescancerhope.bsky.social

See link below ๐Ÿ‘‡

#cansky #cancer #metastaticcancer

30.10.2025 20:26 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1

We have also seen a natural downgrading of posts especially for #AlliedHealthProfessionals;

Once a person leaves, the same post is re-advertised a band below (decision made by non AHP). No change to duties and expectations.

Itโ€™s like โ€˜Agenda for Changeโ€™ never happened.

29.10.2025 08:10 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Following, as this is a question Iโ€™m also interested in ๐Ÿ˜€

27.10.2025 18:56 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Well thank you โ˜บ๏ธ

25.10.2025 09:37 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Mand and Heidi posing for a photo at their local pub

Mand and Heidi posing for a photo at their local pub

Weโ€™re dying, but not right now.

So we keep going, and we keep enjoying life.

On this picture weโ€™re celebrating Mandโ€™s birthday (and her fancy new dress, which I made for her).

#oncsky #cansky #metastaticcancer

25.10.2025 08:03 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 22    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Thanks for sharing our link. We really appreciate it โค๏ธ

The podcast recording with you is being edited as I type!

Great to meet you and lovely to be part of an ever expanding circle of friendship across the #cancer community.

#cansky #oncsky

23.10.2025 20:08 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Cheeky comment here (๐Ÿ˜):

we also do a podcast/ information sharing albeit from a patient perspective (terminal cancer).

We salute all efforts to have diverse conversations about anything related to the #cancer world.

#cansky

23.10.2025 14:48 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Heidi, Kevin, and Mand are posing in front of a PowerPoint slide with the following text: Stories of Cancer and Hope. Picture taken just before Kevin begins his presentation.

Heidi, Kevin, and Mand are posing in front of a PowerPoint slide with the following text: Stories of Cancer and Hope. Picture taken just before Kevin begins his presentation.

After an afternoon rest (@cancerfatigue can do one!) Iโ€™ve been reflecting on Kevinโ€™s talk today. @storiescancerhope.bsky.social is life affirming and a cancer community hug, all in one.

Podcast episode completed (recorded with Kevin) and ready for editing. Watch this spaceโ€ฆ

#cansky

16.10.2025 17:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 6    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Packing up and ready to go to the #Macmillan #cancer event focusing on #hope. Iโ€™m excited to listen to Kevin speak about the @storiescancerhope.bsky.social project โค๏ธ

16.10.2025 08:24 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 6    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Respect ๐Ÿ’™

16.10.2025 07:38 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

โค๏ธ

16.10.2025 07:35 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

It makes life more enjoyable, right?

16.10.2025 07:34 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

We both exercise ๐Ÿƒโ€โ™€๏ธ ๐Ÿง˜The article rightly points out exercise is not the only way forward but it does make life a lot more enjoyable (happy hormones). Exercise is one way of keeping some control in life.

Thanks for sharing.

16.10.2025 07:29 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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